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Boredofthegram
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What a dick. Trough 
I’ve just become kind of an aunty again. My ex SIL has just had a boy
Mini bored will be thrilled when he wakes in the morning as he wasn’t prepared to entertain the thought that it might be a girl cousin for him
I’ve just become kind of an aunty again. My ex SIL has just had a boy
Mini bored will be thrilled when he wakes in the morning as he wasn’t prepared to entertain the thought that it might be a girl cousin for him 
justmeandmycat
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Happy belated birthday @Belle Amie.
I hope little Peaches feels better soon.
Puppy Wilma is so cute! You must be so happy @WilmaHun.
@Rxt156 Haven’t caught up on this new thread yet but I hope the baby and you are doing lovely.
Long dating anxiety rant, advice needed/welcome.
Sorry for the very long rant. I needed to share with people I trust and can count on. I wanted to make sure that I wasn’t going insane or I didn’t overstep or go crazy. I’d be really gutted if I messed up because I’ve been taking things slowly and everything has been lovely with this guy so far.
I hope little Peaches feels better soon.
Puppy Wilma is so cute! You must be so happy @WilmaHun.
@Rxt156 Haven’t caught up on this new thread yet but I hope the baby and you are doing lovely.
Long dating anxiety rant, advice needed/welcome.
I got tattle knackered for the first time since October. It was pretty good and a lot of snuggles followed. But I am feeling weirdly depressed and anxious and ashamed. I had a little chat with the guy about how I don’t want to rush into things but I’d like to only have one sexual partner at a time and I want to take things slowly but sincerely etc., and he said he’s on the same page.
We’ve established that we are dating (have been seeing each other for a month now) but we want to not be attached at the hips and rush in too fast. Both him and I had previous relationships where our ex partners became really controlling. We want to make sure that there’d be time for our careers and friends this time round. Anyways, my anxiety kicked in and I felt the need to clarify how much communication I wanted in between dates. So, I proceeded to have a little chat about texting as well - basically let’s not text each other during work hours to give space but I do like hearing from him and vice versa so let’s try to keep in touch once a day or every other day.
The first convo about exclusive but taking things slow really went well. But the second convo, although it lasted like three minutes, I felt like I was being awkward and unnecessarily communicating. And I’ve been feeling so anxious and depressed about bringing it up since then. When I walked him to the front door, he said he had a fun time this weekend (first time staying overnight, from Saturday afternoon until Sunday afternoon) and that we will keep in touch and he will plan something for us to do for our next date.
In my mind, I can’t help but fear that I brought up too much too fast and I’m scared that I might have scared him off. I think I am also feeling very vulnerable that I had sex and I invited him over to my place overnight. He’s the first man to stay overnight in my apartment since I moved here in 2020. Not even my ex has stayed over. I’m the type of person who really sees my home as a sacred space so it takes a lot for me to invite someone over. I really like this guy and felt comfortable having him around and I want to have him around again and have things progress naturally. Just really nervous and anxious if I shot myself in the foot with the texting pace conversation.
The weekend was lovely though, we both pulled our back muscles over the past two weeks so we decided to have an indoors date for the first time. We had cake (made strawberry shortcake) and then we chatted. Watched a movie, went out for dinner, came home, drank wine and watched another movie. Snuggled to sleep, woke up and got tattle knackered, we had the exclusive chat, he cooked me lunch, we had the text chat, and then we wrapped up the date. I’m supposed to go Frisbee golfing with his friends next Saturday. He invited me very nicely on Friday (before we had the chats) and I said yes. I’m now worried if I fucked up and came off uncool. I hope I am still invited.
We’ve established that we are dating (have been seeing each other for a month now) but we want to not be attached at the hips and rush in too fast. Both him and I had previous relationships where our ex partners became really controlling. We want to make sure that there’d be time for our careers and friends this time round. Anyways, my anxiety kicked in and I felt the need to clarify how much communication I wanted in between dates. So, I proceeded to have a little chat about texting as well - basically let’s not text each other during work hours to give space but I do like hearing from him and vice versa so let’s try to keep in touch once a day or every other day.
The first convo about exclusive but taking things slow really went well. But the second convo, although it lasted like three minutes, I felt like I was being awkward and unnecessarily communicating. And I’ve been feeling so anxious and depressed about bringing it up since then. When I walked him to the front door, he said he had a fun time this weekend (first time staying overnight, from Saturday afternoon until Sunday afternoon) and that we will keep in touch and he will plan something for us to do for our next date.
In my mind, I can’t help but fear that I brought up too much too fast and I’m scared that I might have scared him off. I think I am also feeling very vulnerable that I had sex and I invited him over to my place overnight. He’s the first man to stay overnight in my apartment since I moved here in 2020. Not even my ex has stayed over. I’m the type of person who really sees my home as a sacred space so it takes a lot for me to invite someone over. I really like this guy and felt comfortable having him around and I want to have him around again and have things progress naturally. Just really nervous and anxious if I shot myself in the foot with the texting pace conversation.
The weekend was lovely though, we both pulled our back muscles over the past two weeks so we decided to have an indoors date for the first time. We had cake (made strawberry shortcake) and then we chatted. Watched a movie, went out for dinner, came home, drank wine and watched another movie. Snuggled to sleep, woke up and got tattle knackered, we had the exclusive chat, he cooked me lunch, we had the text chat, and then we wrapped up the date. I’m supposed to go Frisbee golfing with his friends next Saturday. He invited me very nicely on Friday (before we had the chats) and I said yes. I’m now worried if I fucked up and came off uncool. I hope I am still invited.
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watermelon sugar
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Yes we do I rely on this thread all the time for my loneliness, whenever I’m on my own I just post loads and loads of shite probs does everyone’s head in
I rely on this thread all the time for my loneliness, whenever I’m on my own I just post loads and loads of shite probs does everyone’s head in
watermelon sugar
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Morning all I’m still lying in bed cos mini melon is still asleep!? He’s been waking at 6am on the dot since we moved so this is a lie in for me! My bloody fellas salsa music (don’t ask) alarm bloody woke me up though so I’ve just been lying in bed all cosy like a cinnamon bun. I had a dream last night I made a curry in the slow cooker and now I’ve woke up wanting a curry
watermelon sugar
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I’ve just realised that weetabix is called weetabix cos it’s a wheat bisk.. weetabix .. wheat a bix 
BelleAmie
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Neverrrr, we love it! I wish we all lived closer together so we could actually spend time togetherYes we do
Peaches_xox
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Ah you guys have proper cheered me up I was having such a shit evening. I’m waiting for his damage pics and then I’m gonna tell him to go trough insurance and fuck off.
In other news apparently were expecting a 28 degree heat wave in April and I’m nowhere near beach body ready!!!!!!!!
In other news apparently were expecting a 28 degree heat wave in April and I’m nowhere near beach body ready!!!!!!!!
watermelon sugar
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What am I looking at
BelleAmie
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AlanBanan
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Howdy! I’m actually in a good state seeming how pissed I was last night. I got into a fight though outside of a spar with a woman who got cheeky with me cause I was taking too long at the bank machine, and my drunk distaste for rudeness kicked in and I went on a mad one at her. She was screaming she was going to batter me and I was like “YOU? AND YOUR LITTLE TWINK MATE? I WILL WRAP THE TWO OF YOU AROUND A POLE YOU TROLLOP”
Anyways I have no idea how I got home after that, cause i just woke up in bed wondering if I had died and if i was in heaven cause it is so sunny.
Anyways I have no idea how I got home after that, cause i just woke up in bed wondering if I had died and if i was in heaven cause it is so sunny.
Morning! It’s well bright and sunny today 
mr Wilma isn’t well and of course it’s the end of the world and he’s never felt this rough blah blah blah. Told him to stay off work but he’s gone in. Not that Ill then are ya! He text his mum to tell her he was ill so she phoned me at 7.30 this morning all “make sure you give mr Wilma some paracetamol and what are you doing him for dinner? Make sure he eats. Do you want me to come round?” NO THANK YOU
Im still off work with no idea when I can go back. Grateful for the extra days off but I dunno what to do with myself!
hope everyone has a good day! X
mr Wilma isn’t well and of course it’s the end of the world and he’s never felt this rough blah blah blah. Told him to stay off work but he’s gone in. Not that Ill then are ya! He text his mum to tell her he was ill so she phoned me at 7.30 this morning all “make sure you give mr Wilma some paracetamol and what are you doing him for dinner? Make sure he eats. Do you want me to come round?” NO THANK YOU
Im still off work with no idea when I can go back. Grateful for the extra days off but I dunno what to do with myself!
hope everyone has a good day! X
Meangirl815
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Hey all i have a Saturday off for a change. Was awake at 6am as normal tho
I've had a shower finished a book and been to the library. Now in the car on the way to a garden centre. I'm so hungry and thirsty can't wait for some nice lunch
I've had a shower finished a book and been to the library. Now in the car on the way to a garden centre. I'm so hungry and thirsty can't wait for some nice lunch
Rxt156
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I needed a username and banged the keyboard and this is what happened
I’ve never been good with usernames so I let fate and my angry fists decide
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strawb
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i feel very accomplished when i finally got up i felt a sudden rush of energy and went on a cleaning spree that took quite a few hours but now the place is spotless 
then i had a shower, washed my hair, did a face mask, hair mask, did my nails... put some kind of soothing cream on the side of my face because yday my hairdresser was rubbing it to get hairdye off and now it's red and swollen! 
just put a homemade pizza in the oven and sitting on the couch waiting for it to be done / for dancing with the stars to start 
when i finally got up i felt a sudden rush of energy and went on a cleaning spree that took quite a few hours but now the place is spotless then i had a shower, washed my hair, did a face mask, hair mask, did my nails... put some kind of soothing cream on the side of my face because yday my hairdresser was rubbing it to get hairdye off and now it's red and swollen! just put a homemade pizza in the oven and sitting on the couch waiting for it to be done / for dancing with the stars to start
Peaches_xox
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10/10 advice from mr Wilma there 
hope you’re okay @WilmaHun
ooooo I like those clothes @watermelon sugar I’m really insecure atm dunno why but feel like I look shit in everything probs just need to try a few things on!
Little peaches is KICKING OFF about sleeping in his own bed argh fuck my lifeeeee
hope you’re okay @WilmaHun ooooo I like those clothes @watermelon sugar I’m really insecure atm dunno why but feel like I look shit in everything probs just need to try a few things on!
Little peaches is KICKING OFF about sleeping in his own bed argh fuck my lifeeeee
Morning! Hope you’re all good and have had a good week! I’m feeling pretty rubbish with a cold not covid thank god but feeling worse then when I did have it.
No plans today I’m working from home luckily and I might walk to Lidl to get something nice from their bakery for lunch and maybe a doughnut to make me feel better.
Hope the test is negative @WilmaHun and everyone else has a fab day. Not too long until the weekend now.
No plans today I’m working from home luckily and I might walk to Lidl to get something nice from their bakery for lunch and maybe a doughnut to make me feel better.
Hope the test is negative @WilmaHun and everyone else has a fab day. Not too long until the weekend now.
ordinaryjelly
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Awww @WilmaHun Loneliness is so hard. I wish we all lived closer to each other so could hang out. Does MrWilma know how you feel? Maybe he could limit his night/weekend work a bit so that you aren't always so alone.
Do you have any little interests that maybe you could meet new people through? When we were abroad I met some of my nicest friends through a museum docent project. Our paths would never have crossed otherwise. Maybe Wilmapup can go to puppy school and you might meet some new pals there?
I know it isn't the same and typing on a screen can be such an effort when all you want to do is share drinks and snacks with an in person real life friend on your sofa, but us lot are always here.
You are such a lovely person. I'd love to bring the wine and eat brownies you had baked or something. Be kind to you. xx
Do you have any little interests that maybe you could meet new people through? When we were abroad I met some of my nicest friends through a museum docent project. Our paths would never have crossed otherwise. Maybe Wilmapup can go to puppy school and you might meet some new pals there?
I know it isn't the same and typing on a screen can be such an effort when all you want to do is share drinks and snacks with an in person real life friend on your sofa, but us lot are always here.
You are such a lovely person. I'd love to bring the wine and eat brownies you had baked or something. Be kind to you. xx
coconochanel
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I've done a wash, nipped to Lidl and made a lemon drizzle cake and later I'm cooking dinner tonight which is going to be a midweek roast .
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