Chit Chat #26

[Libbylulu]

Oh lovely people. I need to offload and a bit of advice.
My mother called and we chatted. She didn’t put down the receiver and I could hear her ranting and calling me everything to my father. I am so upset. I’m shaking and crying. I called her back and she was very defensive and said she can’t cope when I say anything about my brother. The only thing I said was, I’m really sad he’s so distant and doesn’t bother with us (when she makes out everyone is fine). It’s upsetting but worse that I am leaving tomorrow on a very long flight to stay with my parents. I feel as though I’ve been hit sideways and my anxiety is in overdrive. What she was saying was awful and I’m really shocked tbh that she was like that. I’m alone here and didn’t know where else to offload

 

[Peaches_xox]

Oh lovely people. I need to offload and a bit of advice.
My mother called and we chatted. She didn’t put down the receiver and I could hear her ranting and calling me everything to my father. I am so upset. I’m shaking and crying. I called her back and she was very defensive and said she can’t cope when I say anything about my brother. The only thing I said was, I’m really sad he’s so distant and doesn’t bother with us (when she makes out everyone is fine). It’s upsetting but worse that I am leaving tomorrow on a very long flight to stay with my parents. I feel as though I’ve been hit sideways and my anxiety is in overdrive. What she was saying was awful and I’m really shocked tbh that she was like that. I’m alone here and didn’t know where else to offload

Oh that is awful I’m so sorry! Maybe when you calm down try and call her back and talk calmly before you leave to see her! I’m sure she didn’t mean what she said. I know I deffo rant about people but don’t mean half the things I say! I hope you manage to sort it before you leave for your flight

 

[Libbylulu]

Thank you so much. I didn’t know where else to offload. I really appreciate your kind words @Peaches_xox xxx

 

[lemonlime]

@Peaches_xox hope mini peaches gets well soon, chicken pox is awful
@Belle Amie happy birthday girl!
@Libbylulu I'm sorry, that sounds tit. People say all kinds of mean things when they get defensive, and you have a right to feel what you feel about your brother, don't feel guilty about it. Let the whole thing settle for a bit and see if you can talk to your mum and let her know how she made you feel, maybe? Sending hugs x

I'm having a wildly productive day - not. Woke up nice and early, feeling better, had breakfast and then decided to lie down for a bit as I was getting tired again. 3 hour nap Just had lunch and now I feel like taking another nap, it's ridiculous. I'm drinking all the strong tea to clear my head a bit, then I'll try to watch a film.

 

[Betty701]

@Libbylulu I’m so sorry that happened how awful I would be the same as you. As the others have said I would give it a little bit of time and call up and let her know how it made you feel and try and clear the air before you arrive. I hate horrible awkward situations and would worry if the air hadn’t been cleared before I arrived even though it wasn’t your fault.
Not much to report here I’ve been up and out from 7am this morning as I had my first reformer Pilates class i loved it but it was difficult and very different to my normal exercise. Then I had a hair appointment just back home now and ready for a nap. Mr Betty has gone to see his parents and I was going to go but I just couldn’t be bothered and fancied a few hours at home on my own.
He should be back about 4 as he’s got an optician appointment too then we’ll probably go and do the food shop as he’s at the football tomorrow.
Hope everyone is having a lovely Saturday it’s such a nice day here almost spring like.

 

[strawb]

@Libbylulu omg i'm so sorry that happened, i would be so angry in your situation. i'm sure she said things she doesn't really mean try to stay above it and speak to her calmly!

has anyone ever played the disney hercules game? i played it so much when i was younger, it was my favourite game aside from the harry potter one. finally found a way to play it & that's been my saturday for the last couple of hours!

 

[Meangirl815]

Hi guys. I am on day 2 of sinusitis and its killing me. I'm also 20mins in to an 8hr shift and want to cry
Happy birthday @BelleAmie
@Libbylulu im sorry that happened. I'm sure your mum is probably just acting out through embarrassment. I hope it blows over quickly and you enjoy your trip home
@watermelon sugar we miss you gal
@WilmaHun enjoy your dog snuggles

OK I'm away to stick some sunglasses on and hide away for a bit. Lots of love

 

[wordzalad]

@Libbylulu omg i'm so sorry that happened, i would be so angry in your situation. i'm sure she said things she doesn't really mean try to stay above it and speak to her calmly!

has anyone ever played the disney hercules game? i played it so much when i was younger, it was my favourite game aside from the harry potter one. finally found a way to play it & that's been my saturday for the last couple of hours!

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Omg I loved that game!! It was so good!

Oh lovely people. I need to offload and a bit of advice.
My mother called and we chatted. She didn’t put down the receiver and I could hear her ranting and calling me everything to my father. I am so upset. I’m shaking and crying. I called her back and she was very defensive and said she can’t cope when I say anything about my brother. The only thing I said was, I’m really sad he’s so distant and doesn’t bother with us (when she makes out everyone is fine). It’s upsetting but worse that I am leaving tomorrow on a very long flight to stay with my parents. I feel as though I’ve been hit sideways and my anxiety is in overdrive. What she was saying was awful and I’m really shocked tbh that she was like that. I’m alone here and didn’t know where else to offload

That is awful, I’m sorry that’s happening for you, I think make she is just being defensive and will cool off

 

[lemonlime]

@Libbylulu omg i'm so sorry that happened, i would be so angry in your situation. i'm sure she said things she doesn't really mean try to stay above it and speak to her calmly!

has anyone ever played the disney hercules game? i played it so much when i was younger, it was my favourite game aside from the harry potter one. finally found a way to play it & that's been my saturday for the last couple of hours!

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Omg how/where are you playing this, I need information

I used to love the Lion King and the Anastasia games, found Anastasia and finished it again last year I remembered it being such a long game but it was actually a rather simple one, as expected. The nostalgia is alone worth it.

 

[strawb]

Omg how/where are you playing this, I need information

I used to love the Lion King and the Anastasia games, found Anastasia and finished it again last year I remembered it being such a long game but it was actually a rather simple one, as expected. The nostalgia is alone worth it.

i'm almost done already do you know steam? it's a gaming platform, you just download it, the game is available there, it's 4 euro here

 

[fudgebox]

I remember me and my friend used to play a jungle book one! We loved it

 

[strawb]

I remember me and my friend used to play a jungle book one! We loved it

omg i played that one too!

 

[lemonlime]

i'm almost done already do you know steam? it's a gaming platform, you just download it, the game is available there, it's 4 euro here

Omg I had no idea it was on Steam, goodbye to the rest of my day

 

[coconochanel]

wheres @watermelon sugar not seen her for a while?

 

[Saddlesoap]

Happy birthday @BelleAmie I hope you have a lovely day! Wish we could throw you a tattle party! Xx

@fudgebox he hates his crate he ended up just sleeping in a bed in the room with us because he would not stop crying once he got to sleep he slept about 10-4.30 though! X

Once he's all sleepy try carrying him and putting him in his crate. Put him in there when he falls asleep during the day as well, but leave the door open.
Did you get some pet remedy?

Oh and happy birthday @BelleAmie

 

[Peaches_xox]

Little peaches had a NAP on the sofa. That’s how you know he’s not well. Poor boy. I wish I’d got him the chicken pox vaccine you know I forgot how tit it is to have it!

 

[watermelon sugar]

Hiya guys, thanks to everyone who’s asked about me. I’m ok, I’ve got some stuff going on in my personal life so im laying low a bit.

@BelleAmie happy birthday lovely girl hope you’re having a fab day, you deserve it

hope everyone is ok 🤍

 

[Betty701]

Lots of love @watermelon sugar hope you’re ok.

 

[coconochanel]

Hope everything is ok @watermelon sugar sending hugs

 

[wordzalad]

Happy Saturday gang! Little peaches is now COVERED in chicken pox. I was hoping they’d scab over in time for school on Tuesday but I’m not sure how likely that is now! Poor thing. He’s also constantly got a temperature so it’s another day of staying home for us. Hope everybody has a good day x

I hope little peaches feels better soon

Hiya guys, thanks to everyone who’s asked about me. I’m ok, I’ve got some stuff going on in my personal life so im laying low a bit.

@BelleAmie happy birthday lovely girl hope you’re having a fab day, you deserve it

hope everyone is ok 🤍

Hope you’re okay lovely