Cheating Scandals

An ex neighbour was married to a chap called Steve. Had an affair with (and subsequently married) his best friend, also a Steve and original Steve got a new wife and they all stayed best friends.

If any outsiders questioned the situation she used to love telling people how when they were all on holiday together she accidentally blocked the toilet and original Steve came and picked her turd out with his hand as new Steve wasn’t brave enough!

There are some very strange people out there

I know someone who cheated. Let's call the employee Matt and the manager Paul. So Matt asks Paul if it was possible that he didn't work as many late shifts as unfortunately Matt and his wife were going through a really tough time and Matt wanted to try and work on things with his wife and due to the nature of his job he was very rarely at home so by not working as many late shifts he could at least try and be there more.
Paul said no, that the nature of the job entails all sorts of shifts and he will just need to work on his marriage when he can.
Paul then gets in touch with Matt's wife and says "i hear you and Matt are having issues, is there anything I can help with??" And that is how the affair started. Apparently Paul would schedule Matt to work late and then go round and sleep with his wife!!
I'm not sure how they got found out but it was reported about in a national newspaper. Matt and his wife split up but Paul's wife "was standing by her man"

I know a family where the son cheated with his wife’s mum. They had a child together, so they split up and he moved her mum in who is now a nan/mum to the child.

black ripped skinnies said:

As a forces wife who's lived on camps behind the wire on and off for the last 10 years or so, I can say this happens A LOT
Basically the exact same situation you've described happened on a camp I lived a few years back!

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I can fully imagine ! My dad was in the army for 22 years , as well as my partner , who is not without his own faults shall we say . My dad was a bastard for women too
Christ I wonder if it was the same I won't say exactly location but these guys were stationed south coast , think where the Tankies are located , but their wives were up north , I think manachester kind of area

Oh I have a few more.

A friend of mine, was giggling into her phone, going all giddy, so jokingly I asked who the "unlucky" lad was, she showed me a snap of him and I recognised him instantly as my next door neighbour. They had been talking for a while and were arranging to meet up, she really liked him. However what he did not tell her he had a long term partner and had a couple of kids with her. He had been flogging this lord bachelor lifestyle to her, claiming he lived in an apartment in a more affluent part of town. He is a small smarmy man on steroids who fancies himself so there are probably alot more on the go. The cheeky sod was even going by a false name. Either way, it was a relationship she was looking for and quickly stopped entertaining him. I have no intentions to tell her, a wise woman once told me to store any ammo and never fire it all off at once.

I was born, bred and grew up in the city. Very often do we see the same person more than once in a lifetime let alone several times per day. So I had a huge culture shock when I moved from London to the armpit of a small Northern town. When I got to know the locals, who seemed very keen to want to get to know me as it was very uncommon for any "outsiders" to want to live there. No joke upto about 30 topless, jobless adults behaving like teenagers would congregate at the house next door drinking crates of beer, in the summer. Apparently it didn't happen there before or after I had lived there (5 years). It soon became apparent why! They had got bored of having sex the same women - people on this estate rarely entered it of left it and literally saw going to the town centre as a holiday.

There was a woman who lived on the same road as me, her adult daughter was fathered by a married man on the same street! His wife chose to stay with him, they're still married. All her other grown kids were fathered by the same man but they had so many step brothers and sisters on the estate it was very hard to keep up who was related to whom. This was common for alot of families there and had been for generations. It was quite scary really as everybody was pretty much having sex with everybody else there with no thought at all. There was also a mother and daughter who were openly the estate bikes, who saw nothing wrong that they were both sometimes sleeping with the same dude. A pair of best friends who were mums at the school were seeing the father of eachothers children. My last ex and my now boyfriend I mentioned earlier are from this estate. He is also my youngest child's father I was horrified to find his parents were from that estate. But I used to like living there as there was so much gossip and scandal. It was like a daily soap opera. Infact it was like Shameless. There was always so much going on! When I first moved in, a very loud smackhead with about two teeth rolling around in her head, swilling out of a Vodka bottle warned me that she lived 4 doors down and if I heard any "shagging" then it is likely to be her and her boyfriend as he is coming out of jail next month. On Christmas eve a very young man knocked on my door, asking me if I wanted to "buy a party pack" and introduced himself as my new neighbour and he had just got out of jail -lovely. I couldn't help but mention the elephant in the room, I think he was about 18-19 she was nearly 50! And it was also his mums best mate. I'm surprised it doesn't have its own TV show.

NMK said:

I know someone who did this!!!! Would be hilarious if they were the same couple

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And I heard of a similar situation!!

When I was younger I was pretty badly groomed by a man old enough to be my father. I was a student and he was a sophisticated London professional. When I found out about his wife and she found out about me I was promptly paid a large sum of money to shut the hell up to not ruin her career.

They're still together, he's left her twice for multiple different women but always goes back to her. They've made about 3 women have abortions/paid them off. I slightly feel sorry for her as she's wasting her life with a man who swans off whenever he likes to shove his dick in younger women. I'm absolutely terrified of coming forward about him raping me because of the power he held over me. It's been years. But gosh it would be the perfect revenge to watch that fucker go down.

Mickey19 said:

Someone I know, but not personally know - her and her best friend were both married to men and had their own children. Then they suddenly just swapped husbands and both live normal lives with each other’s husbands as their own (remarried)! Hope that makes sense it felt complicated to type

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Similar story...I got a call from a friend in floods of tears telling me her mum and dad were splitting up and her dad had been having an affair with the wife of their best friends. All very acrimonious but the dad and other woman stayed together. A year later she tells me her mum and the husband of the best friends are now together. She says they weren't having an affair but it seems a bit too convenient. That was well over 15 years ago I'd say and as far as I know both couples are still together. Neither pair talk to the other though!

Pinkblush said:

No personal experience, not unless you count sean from 6th form who I had been seeing for all of two weeks when I found out he got off with anna who was related in some way to jools holland. I couldn't compete with that kind of cool

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Lol i went to school with a girl who was related to jools Holland hahahha...she was called sydonie thought

A woman I used to be friends with had been with her boyfriend from a young age when she started wanting to have sex with women. Her partner agreed to a threesome and they started having regular threesomes with the same woman.
My friend and her boyfriend then got engaged and started planning the wedding, so the threesomes stopped, but my friend started up an affair with the woman she had been having the threesomes with.
All this came out on their honeymoon and now my friend is happily living her life with another woman.