Cheating Scandals

[Whoops i said it]

I was once with a man, met his friends and a couple of family members to then find out he was married when his wife called me after she had found messages on his phone.

We’d been together a few months and I had no idea. He was always available/answered calls/stayed over etc.

This was a good few years ago, before social media was what it is today.

Nowadays, we can find out what they had for breakfast 5 years ago

 

[LaurieLaurie]

I once saw my ex on Tinder while we were still together (I was swiping on my friends account with her one night while we were having drinks).
I took a screenshot and sent it to him asking him to super like me.

He blamed me then blamed his friends for telling him to make it on a night out after he had moaned about me

 

[GeorgeP123]

I was seeing this guy once for about 6 months. He told me he really liked me and blah blah blah. We spent pretty much all of our free time togther. I had met him in a dating site and I knew he pretty much used dating sites for years on and off so I had my suspicions of him. One morning I was staying over at his and he was in the shower. His phone morning alarm went off and I reached over to turn it off and saw a Facebook message on the home screen from a girl. I read the first few lines which looked like he had been having a lovely chat with her. When he came back I asked him who she was. He said oh it's a girl I work with. So I believed him. Anyway that night it was bugging me. So I stalked her on Facebook. Turned out they weren't even Facebook friends and she lived in a different city! So anyway I confronted him about it and he eventually told me that she was a friend of a friend and they were being set up to date one another. he was keeping his options open as he didn't see me as "long term". Safe to say I put his toothbrush in the toilet and the champagne over his precious laptop.

 

[ChloChlo]

Some years ago now, one of my aunts, found out when she discovered to her horror their house had been remortgaged and huge sums of missing money or something along those lines that my uncle had been having an affair with their daughters best friend for nearly 10 whole years! He had bought her a Range Rover and spent an awful lot of their money on her. My aunt stayed with him! But she would have no where else to go otherwise. She now drinks Vodka every night. Her nose is now deformed from the amount of times she has broken it, slamming it down on the kitchen table blind drunk.

I remember very well the night my father discovered my mum was having an affair. I believe my dad had found a passport photo in my mums handbag of another man and a few love letters, she had taken up her first job after raising 3 children subsequently and started an affair with a younger man - but that relationship lasted twice as long as her marriage to my dad, they remained together until she passed away.

An ex boyfriend of mine had a child with his brothers girlfriend. He was with her before, but spent some time in jail only to find out his younger brother was living with her and she was pregnant with his child when he came out. Their kids are siblings and cousins in one. I did cheat on him though too and I'm glad I did. I slept with one of my friends boyfriends but I was absolutely wreckless, drug addict at the time and did alot of silly things I regret.

My boyfriend now, has kids with two other woman who are cousins. No cheating was involved but I still find it a bit weird. His mother told me he got with the second one only to wind the first one up. They do not get on.

I was also in a brief relationship when I was a bit younger with someone, I didn't know he was someone else for months. His girlfriend found out and messaged me she was really gobby, so I said I'm glad. She ran up to me in the street and gave me a black eye when she saw me

 

[chandlercheesecake]

Someone at my old job got married and had a big lavish wedding. 3 months later they were separated as it turned out they were both having affairs.

 

[ChampagneBox]

I need to hear stories of when you find out you’ve been cheated on and fuck them up I’m talking smashing possessions, prawns under the sofa and in the curtains, exposing them in public places, making them cry I’m childish af lol

 

[Whoops i said it]

Maybe my karma for unknowingly being a mistress was that I got cheated on.

He was away travelling for a few months. Due to work commitments I was unable to go. Couldn’t have been more attentive despite the time difference and miles. I was following his travels through emails, msn chats and phone calls.

He mentioned a few names, being an inquisitive type I did a bit of digging on the tour group he was with, and fell into one of the groups blogs. It became apparent that along with his name it was always mentioned with a woman’s name. Let’s call them Fred and Rose. When the blogger mentioned activities, Fred and Rose had occasionally done separate things to the group etc.

On our MSN chat that night, after pleasantries I asked Fred who Rose is as it was a name he hasn’t mentioned, “I’m going to call you” was the response.

Long story short, it turned out he’d booked a surprise for me to go meet him at his connecting flight home location and have a weekend away before heading hone. We made up...

Or so he thought. I always wonder how long he waited at the airport.

The more I think, the more I cheating I can think of, not often involving me!

My cousin has been with his partner for a long time. He had to work away on occasions. Randomly a girl messaged me asking if he was ok as they were supposed to meet up and he blocked her, she must have snipped before to see I was his cousin on there. She said they had a ‘thing’.

I called my cousin up and made of light of it, he nervously laughed and denied and promptly deleted his Facebook!!

And sorry but girlcode doesn’t count here as his partners is a Funt

 

[DCICassieStuart]

fuck me i was a mug

No, you weren't. He was just a dick.

 

[birdiefly246]

the head teacher of a school near my home town was having an affair with his deputy who was also married. They were caught during a school holiday revision session by a student who recorded sex noises coming from his office. She sent it on and someone put it on Facebook. Both ended up being struck off. My friend went to that school and everyone was saying that the deputy had shagged her way to the top.

 

[mcfeez]

A friend of mine. She doesn't leave her steady partner til she has a new girl picked out. My husband and I can usually tell when its coming, she starts mentioning a new friend of hers more and more and gets more and more distant from her girlfriend til they break up. They are all serious relationships she is cheating in i.e. they are always living together when they break up and its so messy. One of them she was engaged to the girl and was going away on breaks with what would turn out to be her next serious girlfriend.

Weve never heard her mention anniversaries with any of her girlfriends because the relationships all overlap.

 

[Plasticbox]

Not me but I know of someone who found out her husband and best friend were having a relationship. It came to light when she got her wedding photos back and this girl was draped over the husband. Husband then admitted the affair and confirmed it was going on while she was pregnant and he never wanted the baby or to get married but went through with it anyway.

I also know of someone who was living with her boyfriend but managed to convince another guy they were only together as they couldn’t afford to sell the house and she carried on with this guy for months.

 

[Gym&Tonic]

I went to a high school where everyone knew the headmaster was having an affair with one of the English teachers. It was a private school which he and his wife co-owned, she did not teach there but was on the board of governors or something and she resigned over it, although she returned after a year or so

An old high school friend went out for a night on the town with her boyfriend and a mutual male friend, then they all crashed at her place - in the same room. She woke up to find her boyfriend and the other guy having sex right there and then! She was FURIOUS and kicked them both out. The friend was openly gay but she had no idea her boyfriend was also interested in men

Schools are hotbeds for affairs. Lots of teachers are shagging their TAs. As a TA I can see why it happens. If you get on then the bond between teacher and TA is really strong and intense. I’ve never shagged any of the teachers I’ve worked with. But it happens a lot.

 

[LinaLamont]

I know someone who’s now husband cheated on her while they were engaged for at least a year with the same woman. They come from a very small town so eventually it became common knowledge, even among their friends. It was a sort of open secret. Eventually, one of her friends told her what was going on but she refused to believe it and went ahead with the wedding. I’m not sure if it was denial or sheer defiance but I couldn’t imagine walking down the aisle knowing my husband to be had been cheating and half the bloody guests knew!

 

[Giggling Squid]

A teacher at my school married a 6th former... several years after but he definitely taught her.

I was also, completely oblivious to being the “other woman” at uni. I’m not sure I even was the other woman, or if we were together first.. either way, we both found out when she arrived at his uni accommodation one day to surprise him. Not sure who was most surprised

 

[TJ90]

I’ve been cheated on by my ex and I’ve also cheated (one time thing with someone from work). Not proud of it but I confessed to my fiancé and we worked through it. I’m not condoning my behaviour, what I did was terrible and wrong and it took a lot of hard conversations to get to where we wanted and to get to the reasons why etc. We’ve now been married for 4 years.
I don’t work for that company anymore but let’s just say about 30% of the people there were having proper affairs and the rest were just sleeping with each other after nights out etc.

 

[Tinkerbell cat]

I have been cheated on twice, that I know off. One was with my first love and proper boyfriend, we had been together since we were about 15. I think we were about 19/20 and starting to want different things.. Loads of stupid rows etc.. I had my own place and he would stay pretty much all the time, we would party quite a bit too which he loves, something I was getting bored off but I still invited people over one Friday so i was very surprised when he lied he was on his way, then turned off his phone and didn't hear from him till the next night lol? It was his mum who contacted me on the Sunday and told me this girl (who was a mutual friend of ours) had been round on the Friday and she felt awful. I said nothing to him that I knew, and while with me his phone kept going so i snatched it from him and the last message was to this girl which said she looked really sexy in her uniform.. she worked in Poundstretcher... I worked in Tesco at the time & got annoyed he had never said that about me in my uniform He looks like Kim jong-un so karma

The second time was when I worked abroad for a season. Stupidly went out with a DJ... though he works in a karaoke bar so he isn't really Tiesto vibes but still.. I was smitten, always believed him when he said there was nobody else... he would always just say he has to be flirty because of his job, there's a difference though having a flirt with someone and being full on creepy... at the time I didn't really think twice about it. One night we were sat on the sofa and he was just messaging loads of random girls through facebook, said it was part of his job to keep girls happy so they would keep going back to his bar... one night when he was asleep I went through his phone and found he had kissed some girl and basically fondled her boobs while in the DJ box... that was the summer romance done with. I'm still friends with him now, he still living the dream as a DJ.. nearly 10 years on.

Thankfully my experiences happened when I was young enough to not dwell on it all too much and I can laugh about it now.

 

[Cupcakeapple]

As the title says. Have you or someone you know been involved in any cheating scandals?

For those brave enough to share stories, please go ahead!

I love stuff like this I’m hoping people have some juicy stories

 

[bolimepipi]

I was a bit! I was young and stupid. I was with him on and off for 6 years! If my current fella did that to me I'd show him the door straight away!!

so it was a lesson, just like mine

 

[NMK]

Someone I know, but not personally know - her and her best friend were both married to men and had their own children. Then they suddenly just swapped husbands and both live normal lives with each other’s husbands as their own (remarried)! Hope that makes sense it felt complicated to type

I know someone who did this!!!! Would be hilarious if they were the same couple

 

[black ripped skinnies]

So my friend was a bit of a low point in her life and joined a dating site to meet members of the armed forces ! She got chatting to a fair few men ( ego boost , and she was very attractive) anyway she had been chatting to these two guys from the same army base and she said to me I've got a strong feeling they know each other .
So she has a casual kind of fling thing with the first guy , all the while the second one was still chatting to her.... So she then invited the second guy round and things happened between them too . The first guy goes silent and she's sure it's because they've been talking. Anyway she alternates between the two for months , I even met one of them once. Then she gets a random messege off a woman , with the same name as her ....... How do you know my husband........ It's the first guys wife , so my friend tells her everything , including about this second guy ...... Who it turns out is also married and to this girl's best friend !
So my friend tells her everything and the first guys wife , says he's done thing before but denied sleeping with anyone , so my friend tells her , when they first excahmged messeges , he called himself Adam .... Yes that's exactly what he had done to this previous women .
So she then has the seocnd guys wife calling , by which time she had got fed up .
The first guy must be brilliant at manipulation because he somehow convinced his Mrs that she was lying , she had slept with his mate ( guy number 2) and this was some kind of revenge plot , so he lied through his teeth and chucked his best mate under a bus at the same time .
The second guy ended up getting divorced , but that lying bastard guy one , he's still with his Mrs and they've had another baby

As a forces wife who's lived on camps behind the wire on and off for the last 10 years or so, I can say this happens A LOT
Basically the exact same situation you've described happened on a camp I lived a few years back!