The first thing her doctor and the police or lawyer will tell her is to stop engaging. You can’t ask for people to send you the evidence and then cry about it.
She needs to see a doctor because she is 43 and pregnant and not because she’s stressed. She should try putting her baby first. She had discharge (TMI) last week, she went for a reassurance scan. There’s more need to see her doctor than the stress that she’s brought on herself.
If something goes wrong with the pregnancy, she’ll blame him. So for his sake, he needs to stop talking about her as well.
Her true colours show in a video like today’s. She is nasty and she’s delusional. She is a very dangerous woman. She talks about how good a mother she is. By her own admission, her 9 yr old can’t read. What’s she doing about it? Is she sitting down and helping her? Autism - if that what G has - does not necessarily mean they have additional needs. My older daughter with autism struggled with reading at first. She has a Master’s degree now and has a professional job. I worked with her constantly to give her the chance of the future she wanted. My other autistic daughter got 10 A*s in her GCSEs!
Do better BigC! Prioritise your kids! That’s what being a good parent is!