She’s very angry this morning about people talking about Brian’s diet. Let’s be clear though, no one is doing that to shame her son. No, let’s be clear, they’re doing it in the hope she might see some sense and take better care of her kids.
She thinks she’s the only person who has ever parented autistic children? I know exactly how hard being a parent to autistic children is. There were no trips to Turkey to have cosmetic surgery though or witchy weekends or going to bed for hours at a time leaving them to look after themselves.
Every spare minute I had went into making sure I did everything I could to make sure they had best possible chances in life.
They were difficult eaters but in their interests, I did everything to ensure they ate as many good things as unhealthy things. They would just as quickly have lifted a piece of fruit as a biscuit or packet of sweets. There were times, when I was tearing my hair out but I never stopped trying and the thing is…I know I was not the only parent of autistic kids who worked that hard.
My concern for Brian is that he is storing up really unhealthy eating patterns. Look at her, she has a gastric sleeve because she presumably had that issue herself. She’s risking his health, bless him - just like her own stubbornness is risking her baby’s health.
People aren’t here gossiping for fun - they’re gossiping out of concern. You can’t tell her on her videos because you get a torrent of abuse from her or her followers.
Imagine people take the time out of their day to come here because they care about the health of her children. Vile people don’t do that. Vile people post videos about their kids and make excuses for not doing the best for them. Maybe some day, Brian and Grace will see these posts and know that people in their community do care for them and their wellbeing - even when they are low down their mother’s list of priorities .