Ok so I matched with a guy on an app about 2 years ago we must have added each other on social media at the time. I then started something with someone else so didnāt give him much thought. Fast forward to the last month or 2 and I have certainly noticed him him on socials.
He more often than not will like pictures and posts, views my Instagram stories without fail and has left the odd comment on stuff. I decided to reach out privately a month ago and we chatted then the conversation just died off. Then I commented on his stories a few times, we chat for a bit and again conversation dies off.
I think these an attraction there as heās given me a good few compliments and I have made it clear I think heās attractive. But heās not asking me out. I know I can do the asking but where the conversation stops Iām thinking heās not keen. Plus Iām being a bit of a whimp
I know we donāt need to let the man do the asking these days but I suppose Iām scared of rejection and thinking if he was interested heād ask me. Should add he doesnāt seem the shy type from stuff heās told me.
I know I should just go for it and most will probably just say ask him out. I suppose I just want others thoughts....
I laid my cards on the table to a guy once before and although he was lovely about it he wasnāt interested so I have that in the back of my mind too. Even though that was very different circumstances to this situation.