Ashley Cain #6 Wam, bam what a scam

[Loveitme]

Let’s not beat around the bush here ,a young child sitting at a dead babies grave reading to them every weekend is plain weird and the mother wants to get a fucking grip and have a word with herself about her parenting !
even weirder is it being plastered all over social media !

 

[BattleAxing]

Jesus christ. This is really unnerving to look at. It's very Wicker Man. Why do people take it upon themselves to do shit like this? It's very offensive.

 

[ash247]

In years to come they will hate that people feel entitled to share thier daughter and have strangers having some sore of strange connection with her. I dont have many photos of my baby who passed because i didnt want photos with him hooked up to machines and quite frankly looking vwry uncomfortable but the ones i do have withiut wires and machines i keep them for myself because those pictures are irriplaceable and personal.

 

[xoxo GG]

Hmmmm these framed moulds of their hands, why have they ordered two frames? If CAsh & Saf where still together wouldn’t they order just one frame for pride of place in their “shared” home? Hmmmm

I have moulds of my daughters hands and feet and we have a few. My irrational thinking at the time of when we were organising it literally hours after her death made me think worse case scenario about everything, I still have one of the frames at my mums house because I’m terrified that if our house set on fire I’d lose those few memories. Her memory box moves around the house with me at bedtime, with an elastic band on top, so that if there was a fire I could get that out the house with me or throw it out a window. It sounds ridiculous to most people and it really probably is. But holding on to those tiny shreds of your child ever existing is a really difficult thing to balance. I appreciate that probably isn’t the case with those two. But I suppose it’s just a different perspective of it all.

 

[Basicbasic]

So they wanted the money overnight for their child, but with other children in the same situation they need to take their time with donations??!!! Time is of the essence for these families ffs.

 

[BellaP]

I've not really wanted to comment on this, but I can't hold my tongue anymore. I'm black and can definitely vouch for the fact that funerals are usually celebrations of life, especially in some parts of the Caribbean such as Jamaica. BUT....I've never seen this at a child's funeral. Personally, I wouldn't post the types of videos they did on the socials. I've been a little unsure about Saf from the beginning as it felt like she was begging for freebies, which felt like she was exploiting the situation a bit. Re her and Ashley, their relationship is so cringe at the mo. There was a video when he was leaving for one of his treks, she was literally filming and 'running' to keep up with him just to say 'miss you already'....he of course did not respond. She then knocked on the glass to say bye to whoever was in the back....again, she was met with no interest. I think they should honestly give the socials a break for now, otherwise they will end up on the daily mail, and not in a good way.

 

[Jj2431]

Wow. That is incredibly harsh. No sympathy for a family who lost a daughter and you have no evidence at the moment that they've done anything wrong (other than use social media in a way you don't approve of).

I know this isn't the rave thread but some of these comments have been pretty shocking.

You're right, this isn't a rave thread. Toodle pip.

 

[BattleAxing]

Can I be cheeky and please request a recap! I’ve missed so much. I just hope that Saf has finally found someone genuine to support her through this or is she still being shoved in the corner?

Saf left the 2k a week borstal bootcamp serving rations after 3 days. Was a bit beg on toast for items to be sent there. Ended up with InTheStyle clothes.

There was a live feed this morning... another cook fest bore. Spent an hour making 3 burnt banana pancakes. Ashley appeared in her video looked rather unimpressed and in my opinion a bit stoned, definately had a wakey and bakey - and before anyone starts on me, it takes one to know one and he is definitely partial . Nothing wrong with a bit of wacky backy if that is his thing, as long as the gofundme money isn't paying for it.

In the live feed she looked uncomfortable quite a few people were quizzing her about her relationship and where the money goes. She went on to tell everyone to check out the farce of a foundations website... it apparently states all this "amazing" things the foundation spends its money on. I checked the page. Same old vague shit. No updates. No thanking from families of the poorly children they have apparently helped.

Her fangirls were rampant as ever attacking anyone who so much asked a question and wasn't blowing smoke up Safs arse about her burnt pancakes.

 

[Olgivy]

Things that make you go hmmm.

Poor Azaylia passed away on the 25th April. But on the 1st May, a brand new Merc was purchased and registered for tax. How can this NOT be from the gofundme account? I looked through Safs highlights, and then found the reg plate of the car, then did a search on it.

 

[iLoveNectarines]

Na I'm sorry but I am messaging gofundme for a refund on my donation I made to Azaylia and sending it to that little boy who they haven't helped instead.

 

[Olgivy]

I just donated to that little boys gofundme now, and messaged them on their IG to ask if The Foundation had donated. She replied straight away and said they hadn’t. Fascinating.

 

[Olgivy]

Wow. That is incredibly harsh. No sympathy for a family who lost a daughter and you have no evidence at the moment that they've done anything wrong (other than use social media in a way you don't approve of).

I know this isn't the rave thread but some of these comments have been pretty shocking.

If you read through all of the threads, I’ve made it pretty clear how I felt about them. I despised them both for how they documented Azaylia’s final days for the world to see. It was one of the worst things I’ve ever witnessed in my life! Azaylia wasn’t allowed any privacy or dignity. THAT was pretty harsh. And whilst I had began to warm to Saf, her actions in recent weeks have shown that she is more calculated than I gave her credit for. This really isn’t about not having sympathy for losing a child! Who wouldn’t? This is about two people intentionally trying to manipulate the psychology of thousands of people to suit their own end. THAT is harsh. And there is plenty of evidence already out there, that manipulating others is right on “form” for Ashley, and maybe even Saf too. The way the donations were handled should have been a very simple process from the start, but in my opinion it’s been complicated by design. And one has to ask themselves why?

 

[opinionated_red_head]

I unfollowed both of them weeks ago as I just couldn’t bare watching either of them any longer. I hated the way they paraded that poor baby in her final days, that wasn’t done out of love or respect for her, that was for them and the attention. The photos of her once passed wasn’t for her, again it’s for attention. Everything they do is for attention.
As I’ve previously said, my baby niece passed April 2020 very suddenly and traumatically and i watch my family struggle daily but what I don’t see is total disrespect for my niece, she was and is treated with the upmost respect and love which she deserves.
When they posted the original fundraiser, I like many donated, it wasn’t a lot but at the time it was everything I had (covid destroyed our business), I done it because I felt for them, I wanted that little girl to have every chance possible, I done it because I believed it was the right thing to do. The funeral was one of the first things that got my back up, that wasn’t for Azaylia, that was for them and the ‘look at me’ status they both crave and love. I won’t ask for my money back as I want them to have it, I want them to realise that was all I had, that my niece still doesn’t have a headstone but we don’t expect or want others to pay for it, I want them to do the right thing and if they don’t I want my money to play on their minds. I hate what they’ve done and are doing and I honestly don’t know how they can look in the mirror and like what they see.
If that makes me a bitch then so be it.

 

[BattleAxing]

@OrcaRed no, just a random kid that lives near them, her mum seems to be encouraging her daughter to do all of this for clout

Thats insane.

What sort of mother encourages her own children to do graveside duties for another child? It's very morbid. Depressing. I doubt this is something that child willingly does either... "hey mum can I go and read books out loud by a baby's graveside we only know from Insta?"... Doubt the kid would even know who Ashley and Saf even were. It's emotional/psychological abuse towards their own child for a meagre slice of clout.

 

[Jessiemouse25]

I don't get all the surprise about saff.

She was posting herself getting beauty treatments whilst her daughter was dying.

Forgive me for being judgmental but if someone told me my kid had days to live i wouldn't be leaving for a second.
Never mind making myself up for the cameras , I can honestly say I'd be in the same clothes unable to do anything and I am a vain person and an avid social media user , but in those last few days I honestly couldn't.

 

[Olgivy]

4K is a LOT. She has every right to ask.

 

[iLoveNectarines]

The Thing is, if they are overwhelmed with the legalities of running a charity, then at the very least they should STOP ASKING FOR DONATIONS until they know what they are doing.

 

[Deedeewoo]

Just want to say some of my family are English Vincentian (same island as ash) and there would be no dancing at a funeral. Each family is different but we wouldn’t.

I agree i am jamaican myself and i have never ever seen anyone doing the worm at a funeral!!

 

[chocdip]

New thread suggestion. Rome wasn’t built in a day but we’ve got your cash you have no say

 

[emcc86]

I’m brand new to tattle, infact I only found this thread recently because I searched to find out if anyone else was beginning to see through these two selfish idiots and I’m so glad that other people feel the same!
I honestly don’t even know where to begin…. Like a lot of people I started following them when little Azaylia was still alive and I was so invested in her journey. I also donated money to her gofundme. But since she passed away I honestly can’t believe what I’m seeing from both Saf and Ash. I’ve unfollowed them both now.
I’m not going to pretend I understand how it feels to lose a child, it’s literally my worst nightmare and I do sympathize with them, of course everyone grieves differently but they are clearly up to no good when it comes to that huge pile of money. Why are they not giving it to other children?! I just don’t get it! And the days that they are spending organsing and doing these stupid “challenges” are days that some of those poor children don’t have to waste. It’s gross!

Up until recently I still felt slightly sorry for Saf because it’s pretty clear that Ashley doesn’t want to be near her or want her involved at all but after watching her stories today, enough is enough. The constant ads and ‘gifted’ posts slotted in between her “I’m really struggling with grief today” stories are really making me feel sick.
These two will just do anything for a freebie and a bit of attention and they are desperate to stay in the limelight off the back of that poor babies death. It’s honestly disturbing.

If they don’t start actually donating that money to families soon like they promised then there must be some charity governing body that we can complain to? It’s getting ridiculous!