Anyone else’s head feel so full?

[Leahcar2019]

Life is hectic right now.

I have 3 jobs, one I do 31 hours per week, one 6 hours (Saturdays) and one 8 hours a month. I’m also studying, and I volunteer too.

I know it’s too much as I’m permanently exhausted, but right now we need the money.

My 31 hour a week job is very busy leading up to the Jubilee, and I’m upsetting some people who should be helping with an event who aren’t pulling their weight by calling them out.

My friend is about to announce her pregnancy, and I can’t have children. It’s hurting a little.

My head just feels very full right now, I feel like I need to hide under a duvet from the world for a week or so.

Not really sure of the point of this post. I don’t really have anyone to talk to so I’m guess I’m just offloading.

 

[wakametango 2.0]

Life is hectic right now.

I have 3 jobs, one I do 31 hours per week, one 6 hours (Saturdays) and one 8 hours a month. I’m also studying, and I volunteer too.

I know it’s too much as I’m permanently exhausted, but right now we need the money.

My 31 hour a week job is very busy leading up to the Jubilee, and I’m upsetting some people who should be helping with an event who aren’t pulling their weight by calling them out.

My friend is about to announce her pregnancy, and I can’t have children. It’s hurting a little.

My head just feels very full right now, I feel like I need to hide under a duvet from the world for a week or so.

Not really sure of the point of this post. I don’t really have anyone to talk to so I’m guess I’m just offloading.

Gosh you have a lot on your plate. Is the volunteering linked to your studying? Too easy of me to say cut back on something when money is tight, I know the feeling.
Seeing others having children when it’s something that you want is also painful
Are you able to take time off/have a sick day from one of your commitments just so you can breathe and catch your tail?

 

[Leahcar2019]

Gosh you have a lot on your plate. Is the volunteering linked to your studying? Too easy of me to say cut back on something when money is tight, I know the feeling.
Seeing others having children when it’s something that you want is also painful
Are you able to take time off/have a sick day from one of your commitments just so you can breathe and catch your tail?

Thank you.

I have a day off from my Saturday job a week on Saturday… and the volunteering is linked with my job and the jubilee so can’t really drop right now. Thr light at the end of the tunnel is things will calm down second week of June.. but just feels like a slog to get there.

Thanks for your comment

 

[wakametango 2.0]

Thank you.

I have a day off from my Saturday job a week on Saturday… and the volunteering is linked with my job and the jubilee so can’t really drop right now. Thr light at the end of the tunnel is things will calm down second week of June.. but just feels like a slog to get there.

Thanks for your comment

If you’re anything like me I find the last leg of something the hardest (broke down to my partner saying I couldn’t cope mentally with work 3 days before my mat leave started lol)
Sounds like you’re doing an incredible job and future you will be so proud of the hard work you’re putting in because one day it will all pay off x

 

[Leahcar2019]

If you’re anything like me I find the last leg of something the hardest (broke down to my partner saying I couldn’t cope mentally with work 3 days before my mat leave started lol)
Sounds like you’re doing an incredible job and future you will be so proud of the hard work you’re putting in because one day it will all pay off x

Thank you so so much

 

[BelleAmie]

That sounds incredibly stressful, you poor thing I so relate to the feeling of being overwhelmed and just wanting to curl up somewhere and hide/sleep for a week. Are you able to talk any time off soon to have a little break? Can you do something nice for yourself one evening, like have some snacks and watch tv and just chill for a few hours? Sending love

 

[candyland_]

Could you pause the volunteering for now?
Do you really need the three jobs? Would it not be possible/better to work one job full time?

 

[Leahcar2019]

Thanks both…. Once we get into June the volunteering will go down to once every day 6 weeks.
I can’t increase my main job to be full time so for now I’ll have to stick to the three..
My head feels a bit clearer today so I feel better in myself.
Thanks for commenting - I really appreciate it