These are very strange times.Being cooped up in the house has given me so much anxiety and im now even anxious about if Im a nice or nasty person?
All started after an argument with a friend yesterday. She was goading me, and has been for weeks over a subject and I snapped and told her exactly what I thought. I just feel like I shouldnt of done that.
My head is in such a mess right now
Basically all over a b12 injection. She gets hers every 10 weeks but still functions like a normal human and Im made to wait every 12 weeks and by week 8 im practically dead, sleeping all the time and in so much pain ect.Hard to know without details of the argument or what you said tbh,
you might have been nasty if that one argument has made you doubt yourself and made you feel guilty?
no idea what you said to her
Maybe you were nasty, doesn’t mean you’re a nasty person overall.
Thank you for being honest. My friend doesnt have any chronic illesses but seems to thrive on having something wrong with her.Are you ok with me being completely honest with you.
you have a chronic illness right, and I assume your friend does as well, sometimes that can get quite competitive, it’s similar with mental health issues, there is a really fucked up competition to be seen as the worst
clearly your friend wants to be seen as very unwell, there is no other reason why she’d even be bringing this up so much if that wasn’t the case.
what you said to her was nasty. It was, you both suffer from illnesses, but It’s not your call to decide when she deserves a b12 injection, it’s not your call to tell her she doesn’t deserve treatment.
you were wrong and you probably know that or you wouldn’t be upset about what you said.
i don’t think you’re a bad person at all but I think you should avoid conversations that trigger you and upset you because you know you’ll react, and then feel bad about how you reacted.
Ive spoken to my doctor and was just told to up my vitaminsI wouldn't say nasty at all, however it's not really your place to say whether your friend is deserving of the treatment on a more regular basis. But you need to speak to your doctor as it can't be good for you to be so ill by week 8. In saying all that your friend seems a bit of a boaster x
I thought that about your friend - would be so irritating to deal with on a regular basis.All in all, in the grand scheme of this mad life atm, this was just a snap argument, that will blow over and you’ll be fine. People are tired and irritable and anxious at the minute, you’ll be grand. Friend does sound too irritating for me though.
I do take a step back but she enjoys rubbing it in and bringing it up.I think everyone is losing it slightly at the moment, but it is not your place to say what medication your friend needs, that is between her and her medical team. Please try to take a step back from discussing B12 and illness with your friend as it sounds like you are harbouring quite a bit of resentment.
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