A random one... Urinary Retention!

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Has any one experienced this (the inability to completely empty the bladder) and can offer me some advice?!

Tried going to the doctors, who are utterly useless, and can't seem to get an appointment at the moment anyway,
My mum suffered with this, Really badly and exactly as you’ve described. she would be in & out of the toilet and especially bad at bed time and during the night.
she went for lots of investigations at the hospital - nothing was ever found as a cause.
as a last ditch/desperate attempt to find something to help she did a course of acupuncture and a course of hypnotherapy and it worked.
now, my mum is not into alternative therapies at all and is mostly a skeptic with anything that doesn’t involve doctors/medication etc but the acupuncture & hypnotherapy worked for her.

(I’d try getting a medical assessment first because apparently this can be caused by a bladder prolapse or infection of the bladder lining)
 
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My mum suffered with this, Really badly and exactly as you’ve described. she would be in & out of the toilet and especially bad at bed time and during the night.
she went for lots of investigations at the hospital - nothing was ever found as a cause.
as a last ditch/desperate attempt to find something to help she did a course of acupuncture and a course of hypnotherapy and it worked.
now, my mum is not into alternative therapies at all and is mostly a skeptic with anything that doesn’t involve doctors/medication etc but the acupuncture & hypnotherapy worked for her.

(I’d try getting a medical assessment first because apparently this can be caused by a bladder prolapse or infection of the bladder lining)
Christ I wouldn't even know where to begin with that sort of thing but so glad it worked for your Mumma! I'll definitely look into that if my CT shows up nothing... thank you so much!
 
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Christ I wouldn't even know where to begin with that sort of thing but so glad it worked for your Mumma! I'll definitely look into that if my CT shows up nothing... thank you so much!
I think she just looked up a few acupuncture practitioners in the area and called them up, explained what was wrong and asked if they could help? Same with the hypnotherapy- she found a guy and just tried it out.

they said that hers had manifested itself as a habit - her brain and trained itself to want to wee and without doing so it made her uncomfortable- it was like her mind was tricking her body almost. there wasn’t anything actually physically wrong, her bladder was working fine but the habit of going to the loo had just become subconsciously ingrained.

it Took a good couple of months - but it worked very very well and she swears by it now.
 
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I used to work for bladder and bowel care nurses, so can offer some advice (however I am not medically trained!)

Take out caffeinated drinks from your diet - tea, coffee, fizzy drinks. If you need tea/coffee drink decaffeinated. I am assuming your GP has ruled out a UTI? no drinks before bed - at least 2 hours before. Regularly drink as well throughout the day, trying to limit your water intake will only make it worse, but don't just down a gallon of fluid!
If you do want to be seen by a specialist, they will usually offer intermittent self-catheterisation, or a long term catheter (depending on your quality of life). I have seen people from all different ages doing ISC, including men and women. The catheters are tiny and it is something you can do in a bathroom any where as long as you sanitise beforehand.
 
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This year I told my Neurology Dr about this because I thought it might be linked to my Multiple Sclerosis. I was reading about the bladder issues that MS causes & it sounded like what I'm experiencing. I'm fairly certain that it is something to do with my MS or my type 1 diabetes, either either, I don't care, it's just super annoying.
My MS doctor sent me to the Bladder Dr(Idk the name of the department), & they got me to come in with a full bladder. They did quick ultra sound to make sure my bladder was super full. Then I had to pee on this chair which had a bowl on a measuring scale thing under it. Then they did another ultrasound to see if the bladder was totally empty or whatever.
After this the DR took a look at results and I went back for follow up app where they told me about results and what they thought etc.
Basically they said that my bladder was full and when I peed, I peed like normal but there was pee then a few mins of nothing & then more pee. And after then they took second ultrasound, my bladder was empty.
I said yes that is what happens every time I pee, just like what I have been explaining. I pee and then when I stop, I have to be careful bc that doesn't mean I'm finished, there is more pee and I have to make myself pee the rest. If I don't I get this awful feeling where I still really have to pee and it goes on for ages and is super uncomfortable & painful and I can't go too far away from the bathroom. It takes ages & many trys to basically get the pee out. It is quite debilitating. However if it gets this bad, the only thing I've found that helps the situation is to drink lots & lots of water to make myself for sure have to pee again with a full bladder and when I go pee again, I have to make sure all the pee is peed. I have never said pee so much before in a conversation! Anyways I explained all this again to this Dr about making sure I have peed everything & what happens if I don't & how I had told MS Dr & he sent me to them.
The bladder Dr said yeah basically what I'm doing is what they teach people to do if they have this issue. It's just an annoying issue with the nerves in bladder & they don't for sure know what causes it cos it could by my MS or t1d however it can happen to other people who don't have either of those things as well so they just aren't sure.
Anyways, if you are having this issue or similar, you should def tell your Dr cause it's so inconvenient & annoying, you shouldn't have to be going through it! They can investigate & hopefully help you. Don't be embarrassed, the Dr won't laugh at you!
I really hope what I've explained I do will help someone too.
 
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I have a bit of experience with bladder issues… specialist nurse in that area once told me to give up actimel type yogurts/those yakult drinks as they are apparently known to cause bladder issues or make them worse! I definitely notice a positive change since giving them up. Just thought I’d share
 
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