Kiki999

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I am truly not watching the same show as some of you.

Arianna made it clear to production she didn't want to be around a man who lied and cheated on her for months which is totally understandable and they agreed to still film her which they could have said no to. She has put up with Scheana and Lala on multiple occasions justifying talking to Tom and all her responses have been don't put that around me. She was even kind to Schwartz when he told he is literally going to move into the home she built with Sandoval and he ruined. Production has a duty of care to its cast members and given the emotional and mental toll that Tom put on her plus her previous history of mental health struggles (which Tom used against her) it's literally insane that they would encourage any sort of interaction.

For those who say that Arianna is on a reality show so she has to show her life... she is showing her life, she's not talking to him that's the reality. Lala doesn't discuss Rand and has hidden most of their relationship on the show for years, Scheana is always trying to keep people away from questioning Brock and his past, I love James and hope it;s not true but not once has the controversy around whether he might be violent to his partners been mentioned this season when it's been swirling round online. No one, apart from Arianna apparently, has to film anything they don't want to.

Lala has never liked Sandoval so it's incredibly two faced that suddenly she can see his point of view when she was literally front and centre screaming at him at the last reunion when it was beneficial to her. I also firmly believe that Sandoval was very much involved with the restraining order against Scheana or that if he had wanted Rachel to dop it she would have done it in a heartbeat so he's not a good friend to Scheana either.

It's pretty clear to me that production are punishing Arianna for not allowing them to film anything with Tom and know that if they won't have that in the future there is no show. Lala and Scheana clearly see that too and are desperate to either shame her into engaging or creating another way that they can carry on the show. Lala and Scheana are trying to over produce a reality show and Arianna is living her reality which is obvious from those last 10 mins of the finale. Sandoval's hot mic moment shows how manipulative he is.

Also Brittany stayed with Jax when he cheated so there was no side to pick and aside from that the narrative has always been everyone loves Brit and not Jax. Stassi did not film with Jax for almost a whole season and all Stassi's actual friends have always been Jax haters especially... Katie Maloney.

Rant finished, I'm prepared for the hate 😂
 
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Pollie

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According to twitter in the finale episode, Ariana confides in Rachel that she is worried Tom is having an affair. Rachel said if it’s true, she will be there for her. What a psychopath.
 
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adviseplz

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So I'm late to the party but I've just started watching Vanderpump Rules and just finished season 3. I'm so glad I came across this thread so I can discuss just how much I hate Kristen. Like I want to punch the screen everytime she is on and wipe that smug look off of her face 😂 she is an absolute psycho. Does she ever get any better?!
I'm so jealous you're watching it with fresh eyes... you've got so much to look forward to.

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PeneLope111

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The reunion was a hard watch for me personally. Me and (now ex) husband worked together in a very close knit office. End of 2011 he left me out of the blue - was hard to navigate personally and professionally but we did. Turned out he left cos he had been cheating, she was pregnant, blah blah. I get 3rd parties (mutual friends) are on tough positions but not one single person pushed my ex onto me to have conversations to make the work place a better place. We acted professionally in the work place (we did have to communicate) - out of work events were awkward so I chose not to attend because that wasn’t fun anymore. I wanted him gone and out of my personal life, like Ariana. It’s fucking hard especially when there’s a house so financial implications (my ex chose to walk away however I couldn’t officially afford to get him off the mortgage) then a career. Ariana happily set her boundaries - Lala from day one of being on that show was thirsty and gave zero shits of how she was perceived. Anyone that prostitutes themselves like she did (I’m sorry but BJs for PJs and a Range Rover for putting out??) doesn’t know how to let herself be respected
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Sorry for such a personal response - I love VPR (I’m 41 so shouldn’t be as invested haha!!) but it’s triggered me a lot. I’m now very happily married with a little girl but that time of my life (which spanned until I eventually left that workplace in 2018!!) was unbelievably hard. People who I thought were “ride or die” were purely there for gossip and personal gain so I completely sympathise with Ariana
 
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georgiecait

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KRISTEN IS PREGNANT!!!

She's challenging don't get me wrong but with the hellish journey she's been on I've never been happier to see a celeb pregnancy announcement.

I wish nothing but health and good fortune for them
 
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Kakan

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I never understand why people are upset Ariana didn't leave the house but never ask Tom why he didn't leave. I think the cheater should leave, not the one being cheated on.
 
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LockdownLurker2020

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I CANNOT stand Janet!!

i don’t particularly like Kristen but who does this Janet bitch think she is… janet love, you've been on tele 5 mins girl and already come across so unlikeable and bitchy and as for her husband how does he put up with her?

sorry all, needed to get that off my chest 😂
 
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SaintLeo

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The Toms going into the tattoo place in that car with the back to front baseball cap and bad bleach blonde hair gave me a massive ick. They’re 40 going on 14. A real life Beavis & Butthead!
 
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florida1011

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everyone realises that it was Ariana who contacted production when she discovered the affair right?! Filming had wrapped for season 10 and Ariana contacted production to have it filmed - because like she said, the audience should see the good, bad and ugly of their lives because that’s what they signed up for.
in the sit down conversation with Sandoval and Ariana at their home, she literally said any last words before we never speak again! I don’t think she is being unreasonable at all by saying she does not want to film with Tom or him have access to her and her life.
(Teresa and Melissa on rhonj are literally doing the same thing - refusing to film with each other)

Lala and scheana literally bought their new homes thanks to capitalising off Ariana’s pain and rather than thank her and be a girls girl and have her back, they turned on her and sided with sandavol - it all speaks mean girl jealousy.

I personally think production did a great job with this final episode - the audience got to see how calm, collected and mature Ariana is and we all saw how bitter and jealous Lala is, and we all saw (what most of us already knew) that Sandoval is a big fucking tosser
 
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Keera

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I take so much issue with everyone saying oh well scheana did the same, or any of the cast
Back in the day. Doing something like this at the age of 19-21 is very different to doing it when ur 40 in a ten year relationship with pets, freezing eggs/embryos and paying a mortgage. Sandoval wants a young girl to fawn over him and make him feel like a rockstar, always has done and always will do, he makes amazing TV but will always be a horrific person 😂
 
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Lyddingtons

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I honestly find it wild the amount of people saying she should have moved out, that she has no dignity / she’s spiteful / she’s an idiot for staying in her house. It’s her house as much as his, and HE cheated on HER. Why the fuck should she move? I respect her for standing her ground and not getting bullied out of HER home. If he’d given her a reasonable offer then she would have moved out. Otherwise, fuck him. Good for her.
 
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ZoraZ

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Whenever Randall is on screen all I can see is big Ed from 90day fiance 🤦‍♀️ how did Lala ever have sex with that man 🤮 all for some private jet trips and a range rover.. gross
 
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cecedoon1

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Ok here goes:

Ariana - handled it like a boss. She was cool, composed with just the right amount of emotion. The best is yet to come for her. She was also great on WWHL.

Sandoval - had a mid life crisis at 40 & he would be slightly redeemable if he just said “I f*cked up, I’m sorry.” Not blame Ariana & pretend he loves Rachel. Like who’s he kidding.

Schwartz - what a wet blanket. I do feel sorry for him the teeniest bit because obvs he didn’t blow up the affair nor do I think was it his place to BUT he is not aging well & I kinda see now how bad Katie had it with him. And the poor me & my bar carry on, dry your eye.

Rachel - where to even start. Her behaviour is unhinged, she’s not well. She is definitely like a fan girl with the Toms. The episodes with Ariana & the feigned friendship. Painful to watch.

Scheana - I would pay to see her explain to a judge how she cannot form a fist. Quality. I agree she’s quite harmless & the conversation with Sandoval was open, honest, raw. Delighted she gave it to him.
Also her moment with Katie was nice, I don’t think Katie would’ve been so polite if she was there first.

Kirsten - I never liked her but replaying her words from the Sandoval breakup episode. It’s like fortune telling. Eerie.

Katie - can’t warm to her but she had it rough with Schwartz. I see that now. She redeemed herself ever so slightly giving it socks to Rachel when her mum was there. That was so bizarre when you look back.

Lala - she annoyed me at times because she’s a hypocrite. She’s no Angel so should keep quiet. The “Send it to Darrell” hoody tho was hilarious , il give her that.

James Kennedy - he’s hurt way more than he’s letting on. Legit don’t think he got over Rachel. Ali needs to run before his vicious mouth turns on her.

phew. Feels good getting that off my chest!
 
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adviseplz

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I'm just on the Brittney and Jax's house warming party episode and James running away from all the girls screaming at him over the recording of Jax is my favourite part of the show so far 😂
DOES ANYONE REMEMBER WHEN JAX FUCKED FAITH

😂😂😂 absolute gold!!
 
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Keera

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Carry on discussing our fave ex SURvers and now their new just as chaotic lives in the valley ☺

So far on VPR - Ariana and Katie have distanced theirselves from the group as the rest embrace a live with Sandoval back in it. Schwartz has hooked up with the resident LA loonball and something tells us he won’t be getting rid of her anytime soon. Sandoval is like “rully rully sorry” and poor Scheana was passed over for DWTS despite taking dance classes!

The Valley has just started and Jax and Brittney are back jumpscaring us with numerous rounds of plastic surgery, their friends in the valley - with the exception of Jason 🩷 - are just as emotionally stunted as them. Kristen has a 6 stone boyfriend whose life is “99% still in Colorado” but she’s still forging ahead with her plans of pregnancy. Jesse is shaping up to be one of the worst humans I’ve ever seen.
 
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