There does seem to be a real gulf between what she considers to be normal lifestyle expectations and what most other people do. I went to Devon for 2-3 days in 2015, a few months before I got pregnant with my first baby. That was my last holiday. Discounting a couple of 48 hour trips across the channel round that same time to tend to a dying relative, I haven’t been on a holiday abroad since 2011. I’m mobility restricted atm from a health complication and in charge alone all day of my very boisterous eldest with special needs and a small toddler. Would I like a holiday? Sure. Am I prepared to send my broke arse even further into poverty just for a few days sweating and wanking in an AirBNB? Nah.
The very obvious answer to the question she so often either suggests at or directly asks (“why shouldn’t I have a nice lifestyle?”) is: you don’t have any money, old girl. It’s kind of that simple. Like sure, at one level why shouldn’t _anyone_ be able to float around eating artisan goods and having fancy tipples and making inane comments here and there about politics like the himbo ranch-dwelling son from Succession. But again, for most of us the answer is ‘because we can’t pay for it.’
Find proper work, and if for whatever reason you can’t, then either accept that there’s a literal cap on what the state can realistically provide you with even in a perfect system, or find a rich fella. “Only” a free cruise and a trip to the Caribbean in the last couple of years alone, I mean it’s not exactly Angela’s Ashes, is it.
The very obvious answer to the question she so often either suggests at or directly asks (“why shouldn’t I have a nice lifestyle?”) is: you don’t have any money, old girl. It’s kind of that simple. Like sure, at one level why shouldn’t _anyone_ be able to float around eating artisan goods and having fancy tipples and making inane comments here and there about politics like the himbo ranch-dwelling son from Succession. But again, for most of us the answer is ‘because we can’t pay for it.’
Find proper work, and if for whatever reason you can’t, then either accept that there’s a literal cap on what the state can realistically provide you with even in a perfect system, or find a rich fella. “Only” a free cruise and a trip to the Caribbean in the last couple of years alone, I mean it’s not exactly Angela’s Ashes, is it.