I know a widower he is now in his 40s, whose wife, may she rest in peace, I knew through a friend. She passed away 3 years ago after a long battle with cancer, barely 35 years old. It was heartbreaking. Three kids all under 7 years.
But throughout her illness, he was everything a husband should be. He took time off work, rarely left her side, and was completely devoted to both her and their three children. He still is an incredible father.
About a year after she passed, he met someone new. She has children too, and together they have blended their families. Originally I thought a year was too soon, but then I realised his wife had been ill for years, and he had already lived through so much anticipatory grief while caring for her. She was the kindest girl I ever met and would want him to be happy.
BUT I really respect how they handled dating. They kept their relationship very private, stayed off social media, and quietly built a relationship before letting others in.
There was no disrespect to his late wife, her family and friends, no rushing to replace her, he just happened to meet someone, nothing was shoved in people's faces.Just two adults finding happiness after heartbreak.
Niamh however partied throughout his short illness, goes around with her tits out, calls herself a hoochie widow and talks about moving on and he is only gone 6 months. It's disgusting.
Sorry this is long but it's just to explain why her behaviour is inappropriate. It's fine to move on whenever you feel ready but don't throw it out there while your deceased husbands family witness it along with the entire country. It's disrespectful to Jamie and his family and friends. Not to mention the pictures of his grave and sharing his private messages. It's disrespectful and disgusting.
Life is cruel. No words. Devastated for his family. He deserved more from life.
