CheCheKitty1

Chatty Member
Listen, I haven’t ever been the biggest fan of Jess but I have new respect for her after watching her latest video about Ali. She really gives it both barrels and tells a few home truths and I believe what she says. She reckons Ali is a compulsive liar and stirs things up - we never guessed! Seriously though, new respect for Jess over this particular issue.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 28

ell73949032838

Well-known member
Just an FYI that what I say next is not transphobic, I am not transphobic and have actually supported Ali when people on this thread have used the wrong pronouns. This is just my option.
She’s deleted it now, but she had a video up a while ago about ‘doing it for the girls’ and people praising her underneath. The fact of the matter is, when she was training and qualified as a pilot, she identified as male. So she has nothing to do with ‘doing it for the girls’ because she identified as male up until 2 years ago, at which time she was already employed. Therefore, she cannot relate to the struggles or inequality of women pilots, and it annoys me trying to take credit for that and be part of a movement when you had male privilege to get you where you are now
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 26

Melj71

Chatty Member
This might offend but I can’t take her calling herself a woman, she’s not. Women have a uterus, a womb and have periods. Why is the word woman being erased to fit in with others! Also when is Ali going to get a bloody job.
It does offend. This is not the thread for that.
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 26

ell73949032838

Well-known member
Why the Angry Face in the reactions.
Probably because you’re purposely using the wrong pronouns. This thread has nothing to do with being against Ali being transgender and she identifies as a woman and is transitioning. Regardless of our views on her (I myself have expressed that I don’t particularly like her and her content) that is no reason to misgender someone
 
  • Like
Reactions: 26

Popsock123

VIP Member
I’ll try and find more when I get in tomorrow.

one last thing tonight.

I do get that from what Jess has said at work Ali isn't half as bad as we all think on here, And foolishly Ali worships the ground Jess walks on.

Jess was saying it wasn't Ali's idea to open a go fund me, Jess suggested it. And I do know from speaking to her Ali had no clue about the fund raising for her. Ali had already saved up for her surgery before and paid for her top surgery before hand. I got the impression that they have gone thro all the money Ali had put aside for her op while she's been messed about going back flying, hence the go fund me?
Hi Ali 👀👀 I mean if your not and your Jess’ colleague, why are you here? You know a lot to not ‘out’ yourself surely 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
  • Like
  • Haha
  • Heart
Reactions: 24

Bec3007

VIP Member
Anyone with a sane mind would know Jess is telling the truth and Ali is as toxic as they come. I’ve said this before Jess can be annoying (hence why I’ve unfollowed now) but I’ve never seen her as toxic. She supported Ali for longer than most would have done.

Ali is bitter, jealous and angry. She got what she wanted, she transitioned and yet she’s still not happy?? Jess is right no wonder she’s got no real life friends.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 23

Popsock123

VIP Member
I love Jess, she deserves the world. What a kind hearted lady..

I like Ali’s content but I dunno I think her mask is starting to slip. I can see what others mean when they say it, sometimes she looks furious that people ask about Jess etc. And the video replies to ‘trolls’ are coming off as arrogant IMO
 
  • Like
Reactions: 22

wishywosh23

New member
I work with Jess so got to be careful what say here in case she works out who I am.

Don't fall for the sad Jess line, she's as hard as nails and by her own words she's the one in control of that relationship and always has been.. She's admits she's a control freak... and things like always checking up on Ali, monitoring their bank accounts and lots of other things I've picked up on since she started here. I actually feel Ali could be classed as being controlled at times.

Reason she does not want to talk about Ali is two fold. Firstly, Ali asked her not to after she started her new account, yes she using her secondary account and doing lots of trans stuff on that apparently and I'm trying to find out the name of it from Jess. Secondly and the reason she is wanting a divorce is that she's (Jess) sleeping with a member of staff here. They try to hide it but we all know... Been at it since she started here, Ali has no clue at all I think. I get the feeling its not the first time she's had an extra marital fling..

As for Ali I met her once at a do and she was lovely, really warm and open to people, bit nervous as you'd expect and wary of harassment, maybe it comes over wrong on tiktok.
And I can't say her hair was greasy, it looked really good that night, and not just looking like a one off but like she looks after it well, I wish mine was in half as good a condition.

And according to Jess, Ali is not seeing anyone. The camera man guy is an old friend and she was joking with a friend.

And as for Ali not working she is, doing some sort of instructing, other things while she waits, so she's bringing money in. and her parents only paid the mortgage for two months while they got sorted after redundancy.
If this isn't someone that's been asked to make an account by Ali then I will quite literally eat my hat. They throw Jess under the bus AND defend Alison having greasy hair in the same message. Come on, nobody is stupid enough to believe it's a colleague of Jess
 
  • Like
  • Haha
  • Heart
Reactions: 22

Melj71

Chatty Member
Sad people? This is a gossip site. We are not trolling her on her socials just commenting on here and having an opinion. She's actively sought out this site and thread and cherry picked the comments to screen shot. Holy moley she needs to read some other threads to see how vicious comments can be.

In my opinion Ali has led a privileged life as a white, male, middle class pilot. Ok, she wasn't living her authentic life but for the majority of her adult life she has benefited from white, male privilege. Her transition is possibly the first time in a while where she has had to face judgement, criticism and things haven't gone entirely her way (all completely unjustifiable and horrible) This is why I feel she comes across as passive aggressive, flouncey and arrogant. The go fund me was a joke. You would exhaust all other avenues before getting your begging bowl out - downsizing, getting a temp job etc.

That is my opinion. I am not obsessed with you Ali I am talking about you as you have put yourself out there to be talked about.
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 22

purplepuffle

New member
A long time lurker here, finally felt it was time to say something. I have no issue with Jess at all, she seems very kindhearted and a genuinely nice person. Ali however, I just cannot stand the arrogance of her! I grew up with a stepdad who was a captain for a luxury airline - he too had the typical pilot arrogance, I think that's part of Ali's problem, she is a typical pilot - thinking she is above everyone else, knows it all and just so self obsessed, it's unfortunately very common with pilots. You'll know if someones an airline pilot because they won't shut up about it! I also feel bad for Jess, it seems that she's done so much to support Ali, and Ali seems to treat her like crap... the way she talks about the kids winds me up! Ali cannot seem to grasp the fact that people don't hate on her because of her being transgender, that's never okay to hate on someone for that reason, she gets the hate because the way she comes across, her personality. As others have said, any potential new employers aren't going to want to employ someone who portrays them self the way Ali does currently. I don't hate Ali, and I've never actually commented on any of her vids, or lives, I just feel like she needs to present herself better, and understand that not everybody is going to like her, and that's okay.
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 22

Mrsburns

Chatty Member
Also I heard that she has a potential job opportunity in Hong Kong which would require her going out there and leaving maddie with her parents why she finishes her last bit at school. And maddie joining her later on.

Ali watch out for one of your mods they are snakey 🙃😉
 
  • Like
  • Wow
  • Haha
Reactions: 22

tiktokaddict87

New member
Wow. That is incredibly rude.
Wow - I hope I don't get lynched when I say I adore Jess and what she is about. Grafts some hours in her job and has to grieve for her husband due to transition. I liked Ali but her arrogance towards Jess at times just isn't fair and reading above made it seem so unfair.
I hope Jess meets someone absolutely spot on as she deserves it from watching her this past year. I've actually unfollowed Ali as I find the content boring and repetitive
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 21

Bellaboo1994

Chatty Member
I think it's time Jess take her boys and get out of Toxic Towers. Start a new life and make herself number one priority.
I also think Ali needs to keep her nasty trap shut. She's making herself look like a cretin.
I agree. I think Jess feels she has to stick around to financially support Ali until she gets her job situation sorted and she can support herself. I’d say fuck that, god knows how long that will take.
Jess is working all hours whilst Ali is off meeting friends and starting relationships. Nah that’s not right.
Jess if you read this get out now, you’ve done your bit for Ali but now it’s time to concentrate on yourself and your sons.
 
  • Like
Reactions: 20
People seem to leave some nasty stuff on Ali’s videos I’m not surprised she’s a bit more standoffish. Remember she is a trans woman. That comes with a lot of transphobia a lot of people who think it’s “wrong”. People seem to pity Jess a lot but it is hard on both of them. Jess losing her life as she knew it with her husband and Ali after years and years beginning her life as her true self. Coming out as trans isn’t easy and she is probably still finding herself. I wish them both well I genuinely think they are both good people
 
  • Like
  • Heart
Reactions: 20