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I don't think it's unreasonable for Tattlers to continue to keep an open mind and not believe any "announcement" at face value:

1. A sharp observer noticed he had been perusing a Brazilian property in one of his last online events.

2. The residential property he resided in was listed for sale at a time that raises suspicions for a man on his last legs and needing a peaceful environment for him and his wife.

3. The car was apparently returned to the car dealer (I note his vanity plate is still actively registered to the vehicle, though).

4. We only recently learned that his weight loss which he attributed to his cancer was actually due to WLS that he had never disclosed.

5. Lisa began a bike ride fundraiser "in memory of" him whilst he was still alive but apparently she was sitting vigil with him. Seems a strange time and having family participating in the event whilst he was in his expected final hours/days.

Also, again, not asking for direct donations to Cynthia Spencer, but instead, having people pay the extra platform costs of a crowdfunding site. The last rubber cheque and newspaper article about a charitable donation for Cynthia Spencer was written out from "Richard Davies aka Bowelbro" last time when in fact most of the funds were actually donated by his followers, not from himself. This was following a similar indirect donation pathway through him.

When did she have time or the mindset to be ordering a lifesize cutout of him to be displayed at the bike ride? Perhaps the same time she was ordering a new vanity cheque to be used for the donation... will it have been from "him" again even though the donations were actually made by others and were not from him??

6. Lisa claimed he was resting and/or reading Malcolm X whilst in hospice, decidedly odd and rather heavy reading material in one's final days as a bowel obstruction was ending his life and causing extreme discomfort or requiring major pharmaceutical support.

7. No evidence was ever shown of an NG tube which he posted was being provided and would have alleviated the building gastric pressures and increasing discomfort caused by an obstruction.

8. Claimed to be in hospice, even being outside in the woods, for a significant period of time that defies the description given of the severity of the obstruction and growing mass that even blocked his stoma.

9. His friend's initial post that intimated he might have passed was not explicit. The photo showed Rich with his fly unzipped, for heaven's sake, hardly a fitting tribute image to be posting.

10. Lisa was reaching out to a disgruntled book buyer only hours after he apparently had died. Why was she even scrolling his friend's social media at that time??

11. The friends' comments regurgitated his same list of materialistic "accomplishments" which seems so out of sync with how one would describe a man of substance and close friend that had just died.

12. It seems strange that Lisa's announcement was finally on FB, not on his bowelbro IG account where he had shared his journey with his followers.

13. She got the date and/or day of the week wrong in her announcement.

14. We've heard nothing from his family publically acknowledging his death.

So, yes. I do understand why people might need some extra objective evidence from an official source before believing this was his end. I don't think it completely off base, given his history and how strangely even the events of the last few weeks have unfolded.

It might all be perfectly sound. But waiting for verifiable proof also seems prudent. I don't see why we should suddenly abandon our critical thinking skills at this juncture.

I am comfortable in my skepticism until I see objective and irrefutable evidence.

The truth has come far too late for these guys. I’m sorry for anyone in their shoes. But one persons sad end doesn’t erase the damage done. There’s absolutely nothing to be proud of here. Nothing. He won’t be remembered fondly by anyone bar a few family members and new friends. There’s seemingly no one around from the old days. This entire “thing” should have been a blog for friends and family. It had no place in the cancer community. It’s been a disgusting, inappropriate and quite frankly traumatic experience for many. Never in my life have I witnessed a person for whom stage 4 wasn’t “enough” - that details had to be embellished and dramatised for an audience. There wasn’t even much of an audience. Half the followers were paid for or bots. He never gained the dizzy heights he clearly coveted. That account stagnated early on because no one could work out what the hell they were watching. It lurched from threats and screen shots about strangers discussing the all the bizarre happenings, to live cooks of food he probably could barely eat himself, moaning about chemo constantly, doctor hopping, nhs staff bashing and a level of boasting that was so extreme, there’s got to be a major personality disorder lurking just beneath the surface. You have to be a special kind of insecure to think a few hundred people give two shits what’s hanging in your wardrobe or what car you (temporarily) drive. He spent more time talking about this thread than any other subject matter. Which highlights how much this never was about raising bowel cancer awareness.
The only clap backs he had were when he could provide a half assed explanation for something. Anything else, like where is the actual residual GFM / gala money that absolutely was made public for donations, why you keep shutting limited companies every two years with no accounts whilst claiming to be a millionaire mega successful self made Bezos v2, why you always fund raise to your own bank accounts and not direct to the charity and why you blocked followers and disputed the bank charge backs when you publicly said anyone could have a refund, none of that was ever mentioned. For every truth, there was a lie. So it now ends with no one knowing and being able to take anything on trust. I’ve never seen anyone being accused of faking death in this way. I don’t think he is. But that’s just my opinion. It’s a shade too far for me to think that. But the very fact that seed of doubt is planted - you haven’t done a good job here have you Richard. The only awareness he’s raised is how to spot a liar and how very easy it is to fact check things that he assumed would never be called in question. He had no intention of fessing up to Romeo Bater. And as for WLS - who cares!? No one. Good for you. But as soon as you pretend you lost weight solely due to cancer, you become a liar. Again. And for what? Why did it ever matter to say actually I had this surgery then I got cancer. Some of his lies were just so stupid. I guess it’s normal in their world for Lisa to continue to big him up on his death bed and tell him how amazing he is and how loved he is by everyone blah blah blah. Speak for yourself Lisa. I’m only giving them one credit in all this and that is I’m very happy they aren’t sharing photos with all his ghoulish followers. They’ll be hanging in there blowing smoke up their asses in the hope of being rewarded like when Monique was very poorly. That was, I felt, uncalled for and unnecessary for Monique.

Go away quietly the pair of you. Pay the charity what you get. Pay back whomever it is that is waiting for money from the latest company you’ve tried to get closed on the down low. Take back the rented Ferrari. Maybe donate the wardrobe of shame to a shelter. And if there are events held in the future in his name, at least try and conduct them with some level of honesty, dignity and self respect. All the things you guys missed out the first time.

I have managed to confirm that the police officer he’s mentioning is a real PC. North Hants police have been warned that this email address is being given out on an account with 13,000 followers… and who the account belongs to
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He’s not the only one that now has an incident reference number

Dear Tattle,

I am available for cash for lies, inbox me to collaborate

The thing is even if you're living in a bedsit and having to survive off Pot Noodles it shouldn't be used as an insult. I'm sure he has plenty of followers that aren't on tattle and possibly some that have used the little income they have on ordering his book, who live in those situations and worse.

That view and thought pattern, judging people worse off than you - says all you need to know about him.

I wouldn't want someone coaching me who thinks that way, especially as his wife presumably supports families/children that do live that existence that hes mocking.

Wow this guy is insane, I am an Oncology nurse and posted some suggestions on his
Instagram page to try to alleviate some of his post infusion symptoms. Geez, he responded with a tirade of abuse and has since blocked me. What on earth is wrong with this turd of a man??!

I feel sorry for Betty Crocker in all of this, I mean someone at cake mix HQ is going to get a shitty email over this

Had to update my avatar on here…..

Talcadidas said:

Isn’t there a number one can phone to find out if he’s actually dead?

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Not unless youve got a direct line to Satan himself, no!

What rich is talking about is very much a civil matter. No one is trolling him, no one is sending him threats, no one is going near him or contacting him directly.

as someone up there said, rich has posted online for all to see and people have discussed public information.

the police would have to request information from tattle in regards to info on its posters, tattle does not have to give that info over and I doubt ever would, especially if it’s based outside the UK which it seems to be.

There are women out there being abused by their partners and police have no time to investigate, these women end up being murdered. Tattle is not on their agenda.

I suggest Richard puts his phone down and lives his life because he keeps adding fuel to the fire.

I don’t see him raising awareness for bowel cancer, I see him talking about himself, cooking, and ranting.

I don’t know what to believe anymore, if he has stage 4 cancer then I feel sorry for him. I know how it feels to get that diagnosis and it’s scary. When I was diagnosed I was told I had 2 months if I did not have treatment. I am now here 14 months later thanks to crizotinib.

rich should also count his blessings he has his wife and ‘amazing’ friends and family around him. He is very lucky if that’s the case. My family live In Poland and I’m a single mum to a toddler who’s father left at the point of my diagnosis. So if rich thinks I’m a miserable woman then he’s right. Life is hard and I do what I can for my daughter. Going back to Poland is not an option for me, in the UK we are blessed with the NHS and despite them taking months to finally diagnose me, instead of shit talking them online, I’m grateful for the treatment I’m getting at a brilliant hospital and don’t want to leave that behind.

Richard, if you’re reading, which I know you are. please count your blessings, stop being so angry (yes I know Such a diagnosis is shit!!!!) and spend the rest of your days with loved ones not having to panic about working whilst going through treatment and not panicking about putting food on the table for your own child.

Am I bitter? Yes. Is that what brought me to this thread? Perhaps, but also the inconsistencies due to your wild claims sometimes. I also came here because you act vulgar, you are a show off, you belittle others and you need to humble yourself.

I hope you get the surgery you wish and I hope you spend time with Lisa away from the internet enjoying yourself. Also. Money doesn’t equal happiness, which is very evident with your outbursts not just at people online, but the way in which you talk about medical professionals online who are trying to help prolong your life.

You can sit in your Ferrari and I will sit in my daughters bed tonight reading her a story. She is my world and I would take her over any of the material things you scream about.

good luck with treatment, good luck with your surgeries, I hope they find a miracle.

Florence Nightingale said:

I was not in contact with them for any information so again you are incorrect. I don’t believe anyone asked them for information on Dick ???????

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Florence, you did phone the hospital though and of course everyone can change their minds about someone or a situation and if you have, fair enough. Didn’t he deserve privacy there? But up until very recently, you didn’t believe a word about any of it so to now come on and call out folk for still thinking the whole thing is batshit crazy is a bit much.

It could just be the way I interpret your posts but you sometimes come across like you’re jumping down people’s throats and I think reactions like that give Tattlers a bad name too. I’ve been following these threads from the start and I still have questions and this should be a place where people can say what they want to say as long as it’s within the guidelines.

I’ve been conflicted about this whole thing and I don’t think there ever was confirmation he actually was in the hospice so we don’t know he died there. They won’t ever confirm it and everyone (including Rich and Lisa) knows that.

Littlefrogonalilypad said:

The publishers probably removed the posts if there were spoilers from the book on there.

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For gods sake

the fucking publishers do not and would not give a flying fuck


they get paid the press print - that’s it.


are you deliberately being a moron when you post on here or are you genuinely this stupid?

Nothing is ever quite as it seems on social media. If you were happy with your life, would you really spend all your time seeking the approval of others?
People like this want to be famous. If you aren’t concerned with popularity - you wouldn’t post. To post on social media is to draw attention yourself, period.
These people are insecure, lack self-esteem, lack independence of thought and are not grounded in reality. Fundamentally, they look to the outside world for validation.
That mindset is deeply ignorant and arrogant. To have such an elevated opinion of yourself that you honestly believe that others are interested in your life.
Posting your life for others to validate does a tremendous disservice to the self. You’re basically trading off your privacy and independence so others can give you a thumbs up. To do this when you have a terminal illness, under the guise of raising awareness is unbelievable. I’ve never seen a bucket list with an item listed as “get more attention from social media”
There are any number of truly fabulous pages out there that have a more journal type vibe, which continually seek to spread and raise awareness of the disease itself, whichever one may be applicable in their particular case. Sure, many have GFMs attached to them, but almost always for treatment options or just general life support. Which is not unreasonable and entirely voluntary. I don’t care myself much for GFMs, but there will always be those that really touch you. I don’t like to make comparisons, but a certain young man who raised GFM cash for chemo he had to fund privately, overpaid slightly, and the first thing he did was divide up the cash the hospital returned to him and re donated to some children suffering from the same condition. It never entered his mind to keep it or store it in an unused account.

Again, that’s a personal choice and BB can choose how to spend his own particular GFM. But I think we’ve reached the point where the real core, the true self of this man has been revealed for what it is. There will be no changes and no last minute moment where he suddenly realises what actually matters at the close. Its all about what he can get. The account was never about any kind of awareness. It’s been a journey of indulgence and self promotion. Material possessions will be his bench mark because that’s how he receives gratification. It wouldn’t occur to him to get these unspent funds out there for some of the many others who are desperate. Unless of course they’re willing to have their photo taken…..
It’s certainly a unique account and I suspect one with very few genuine followers compared to others of its kind. Strip away the paid for followers, the inactive accounts, the rubberneckers and grief tourists, the weirdos and the those who appear to worship strangers on the internet to the point of being unhealthily obsessed ~ what’s left? In the grand scheme of life, a tiny handful of people you’ve never met that “like” you and ask how you are. They aren’t following for awareness because none is being provided. If it brings him comfort to believe they like him and care then so be it. But when he’s gone, he’ll be forgotten in a week. It won’t affect or change those peoples lives one bit. They won’t cancel plans or miss work or shut themselves away crying. They’ll move on to the next dying account.
Those that truly care, those he leaves behind that do know and love him, they’ll be the ones who wish he’d had more time for them and less time for internet strangers.

MissB123 said:

Yes, his heavy meat diet is doing him no favors. It most likely contributed to his developing cancer in the first place - all meat (especially red) is carcinogenic and a bowl cancer risk. Alcohol, too.

Astounds me when I see cancerfluencers eating the same foods as they did previously.

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Nah sorry but blaming his diet on him getting cancer? Out of order. Some of the healthiest people on the planet get cancer.

Noonoosanne2 said:

Is he high

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FYI Dick - the police cannot just bring someone in for questioning because they are “furious” - do you have any idea at all how the police or criminal investigators actually work? I mean you should, seeing as you yourself were investigated for all that money you stole from your time at RB. And please do tell us on what grounds would your pal the copper be “investigating“ this woman? What crime has she apparently committed?!




you colossal fanny. shut up.

Daisychain4 said:

Private consultants (including surgeons) usually don’t come under the hospital’s jurisdiction particularly regarding legalities unless of course the hospitals name was being implicated. The indemnity usually comes from the medical governance board or medical registration authorities legal unit.
Perhaps things may run differently there but usually the general process is similar in developed countries.
Who knows what the truth is and surmising will never stand up as fact, so better to leave well alone.

Given the author is a die hard liar, nothing he says is to be believed so I myself air on the side of ‘if Rich said it happened, it absolutely did not.’

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Thread suggestion inspired by @Daisychain4's comment: BowelBro #10: If Rich said it happened, it absolutely did not.

Tricia Doll said:

All the hospice chat is really upsetting me, he treats it like it's a hotel and he can just call up and book in. That's not how it worked in our experience (I can't speak for anyone else, just want to give a different perspective). My brother reached EoL and was barely functioning by the time hospice was an available option, incidentally just 5 days before he died, by which point we opted for hospice at home due to not wanting to move him as everything was traumatic enough. He certainly wasn't at a rave the weekend before! Also, it was social work/social care who had that responsibility along with family discussions, I think the way he is portraying EoL is very dangerous and misleading for anyone who is following his page for advice.

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I’m so sorry to hear about your brother and I appreciate why Rich’s semantics upsets you. It would be true to say you couldn’t create a fictitious character worse than this guy is in real life. He really is a desperate lowlife animal and feral one at that.

My girlfriend died just two weeks ago. Diagnosed with metastatic bowel cancer 7 hours after birthing her beautiful baby boy. The cancer grew rampant during her pregnancy and she was only showing slight signs of deranged liver function a few days before giving birth. At EOL for her, she struggled every hour of every day and it took a large team of family and friends to work around the clock so we could honor her wish to stay at home with her husband and her three young children for her last days. She couldn’t move off the bed or even turn herself over, couldn’t eat, couldn’t swallow medication and could barely speak to be heard. EOL
was a hard road, made even harder with a 5yr old, 3yr old and 7 month old looking on.

I’m sure very few would believe a word this lowlife says. Today we have yet another story about ‘stoma surgery’ to prolong life. How many days till ?

Thread title suggestion..... PC Stanley is seeing red while tattlers eat pot noodles in bed!

Seen someone on instagram has posted this

It's like Jay from the Inbetweeners except a cancer version - I've even started reading it in Jay's voice in my head!

'Yeah, shagged my wife after not shitting for a month and then taking a shitload of atomic grade laxative, strongest anyone's ever taken apparently......getting my colonoscopy and the nurse started burying her head in my neck and there was another one sobbing in the corner.....Doc who operated on me red eyes and snotty nosed, had to take the rest of the day off because he was just so upset, sacked off all his other patients....Andrea told me.....all the other patients in my ward were crying as well, tears rolling down their cheeks....and then the nurse whooped and cheered as I left the hosptial'.

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