Recent content by Thelakes

You are right about it being petty lol, i dont particularly like his group + best friend. I've spent plenty of time with them and we just don't click. Thanks, I did say I'll put him down as a No due to planning that wedding involves and I wouldn't want someone else to potentially lose a place...

I'm in a relationship with a guy and his best friend is having a leaving do party this month. I said I didn't really want to go as I'm not friends with any of the people going and I'm an awkward introvert so I definitely won't enjoy myself. But I said I'll go if it makes him happy and he was OK...

Thanks, you are quite right that he got offended by my reaction. I felt as though I did something wrong so I was quiet for the rest of the meal as I didnt want to say the wrong thing. But I knew I hadn't anyway?? We've had a lovely few months dating and these issues have suddenly come up. I...

So I'm currently exclusive with someone after a few months of dating and I'm unsure what to make of the below. He messages his close female friend all day, every day and randomly told me when I was staying over at his that all his friends say she likes him... (in that way) and he said he...

Haha I see what you mean, if the conversation wasn't in black and white but in person I'm sure I would have just laughed at him and not given it a second thought 🤣

Yep definitely agree with you there, amazing what 1 word can do! If he put conventional instead of normal then I wouldn't have been like huh??? Just 1 small blip out of an amazing few weeks so I'm over it. Thank you

I for one am pleased she's getting her comeuppance

This sounds so cute, have a lovely time! :) You know what thanks! I can either take it as an unintentional insult or compliment that I've broken his type mould 🤣

Thanks sorry he actually said "normal looking than most people I've dated" and his type is alternative and I'm the furthest thing from that.. It kind of threw me off as we've had amazing few weeks together.. think it's kind of shook my confidence a bit now :( Thanks negging sounds like it but...

Currently seeing someone and he says I'm more normal looking and his type is alternative but he finds me attractive.. this is an insult and definitely not a compliment or am I just very insecure??

I no longer wish to be in a relationship with my adhd inattentive partner. We are just under 2 years into our fixed 5 year mortgage and I have agreed he can keep the house and release my equity to me when he remortgages in his name as he would be unable to afford it in his name currently. I've...

Started a new job, nearly 4 months in and I dread waking up everyday. I'm still learning about the clients we have but I feel like I'm being thrown in the deep end. My performance review was positive and my boss is nice however when it comes to my actual work he isn't much help. I've been on...