Honestly, I always thought I’d dress my kids a certain way and really tried (and failed cause I still ended up putting him in Disney things) for the short time my son didn’t have a personality yet.
Now he’s nearly 2, bluey mad and won’t get dressed unless some item of clothing has Bluey or Spidey and his amazing friends on it. Do I care? Nope. In fact I totally enable it now cause I intentionally seek those things out for him
My daughter is too little to care yet so she’s in flowers and pink until she can say no
But I definitely don’t look at other people’s kids and go “oh that’s an emo baby,” “oh her mum is so alt how cool!” Like these labels genuinely don’t even cross my mind, I’m nearly 30 not bloody 15.
I think this is the trouble with people who made their success during the peak YouTube era, they never fully matured and realised that the average joe doesn’t think about nor care about these things