Tattle life is a moderated forum, it's not a free for all where anything goes. This is to protect people and keep the conversation flowing.
When a new members posts disappear I know it can be annoying but this is only because they've broken the rules and made it clear they are just here to cause trouble.
As a member you can't see everything they've done so it may seem unfair, but we can see things like their previous accounts and subsequent messages that never made it live where they made it clear what their objective is. They would only be banned and all posts removed if it was clear they were just here to stir things up.
If you post asking why a post was deleted it could be deleted as; 1 it's offtopic and 2 we avoid discussing the moderation - not for any nefarious means just because memebers can't see all a mod can so it's not fruitful and just achieves many trolls objective to derail.
All mod decisions are made just to keep the discussion useful for all. Totally get this can be annoying as members aren't privy to all information but we're just trying to keep the site running smoothly.
Posting to complain that you've had a post deleted only disrupts threads and risks a ban.
Please do report any posts you have a concern with or read the rules (link at the bottom of every page) if you're unsure about why a post was deleted.
When a new members posts disappear I know it can be annoying but this is only because they've broken the rules and made it clear they are just here to cause trouble.
As a member you can't see everything they've done so it may seem unfair, but we can see things like their previous accounts and subsequent messages that never made it live where they made it clear what their objective is. They would only be banned and all posts removed if it was clear they were just here to stir things up.
If you post asking why a post was deleted it could be deleted as; 1 it's offtopic and 2 we avoid discussing the moderation - not for any nefarious means just because memebers can't see all a mod can so it's not fruitful and just achieves many trolls objective to derail.
All mod decisions are made just to keep the discussion useful for all. Totally get this can be annoying as members aren't privy to all information but we're just trying to keep the site running smoothly.
Posting to complain that you've had a post deleted only disrupts threads and risks a ban.
Please do report any posts you have a concern with or read the rules (link at the bottom of every page) if you're unsure about why a post was deleted.