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Mine was a complete narcissist and Tory a**ehole, who could barely wipe his own arse.
Next!!!!!!
Next!!!!!!
Cheating with customers (he’s a plumber), sex workers & women he met on dating apps
Coercive abuse
Body shaming
Narcissist
All in all just a massive wanker. I look back now and wonder what the hell I was thinking.
He’s the father of my daughter and even though he’s 500 miles away it’s still a bloody nightmare. He once told me she’d be better off if I killed myself...
Coercive abuse
Body shaming
Narcissist
All in all just a massive wanker. I look back now and wonder what the hell I was thinking.
He’s the father of my daughter and even though he’s 500 miles away it’s still a bloody nightmare. He once told me she’d be better off if I killed myself...
Where to start...
- Completely unsupportive. Complained about having to take 2 days off work when I gave birth to our child (1 day to take me to hospital, next day to bring me home)
- Told me I was a useless mother as the floor was not always spotless and occasionally childrens toys were left out. Also said I was disgusting, fat and ugly regularly.
-Threw things at me, smashed up my possessions, shoved, hit and threatened me with violence/ taking the children away from me.
-Spent 40k of my money.
My only regret is I spent 8 years with him, I wanted to leave for 7 of those. On the plus side, I now have a lovely home, 2 fantastic grown up children (who have virtually nothing to do with him, their choice), and a great (and supportive) partner
- Completely unsupportive. Complained about having to take 2 days off work when I gave birth to our child (1 day to take me to hospital, next day to bring me home)
- Told me I was a useless mother as the floor was not always spotless and occasionally childrens toys were left out. Also said I was disgusting, fat and ugly regularly.
-Threw things at me, smashed up my possessions, shoved, hit and threatened me with violence/ taking the children away from me.
-Spent 40k of my money.
My only regret is I spent 8 years with him, I wanted to leave for 7 of those. On the plus side, I now have a lovely home, 2 fantastic grown up children (who have virtually nothing to do with him, their choice), and a great (and supportive) partner
Its so funny when dead beat dad's throw out these quotes
I've heard them all but I'm actually the one that does all childcare soooo 
A complete and utter tart
Crap in bed
Wouldn't know an intelligent conversation if it smacked her in the face
Sesame Street was probably her most challenging TV programme
Was more in love with her phone and social media than me,
had one of those accents with a rising inflection, which made every statement more a question.
Crap in bed
Wouldn't know an intelligent conversation if it smacked her in the face
Sesame Street was probably her most challenging TV programme
Was more in love with her phone and social media than me,
had one of those accents with a rising inflection, which made every statement more a question.
I know, they’ll try to paint you as an awful parent but will never go for full custody. Arseholes. They’re all the bloody same.
I keep getting dumped.
Emotionally abusive
Heroin & the rest addict
mummy issues
his only perk was the size of his dick.
Heroin & the rest addict
mummy issues
his only perk was the size of his dick.
He turned out to be a p and potentially more. We split up after 4 years when he was 19 and I was 18 because I found 100s of messages to other women on his iPad, plus he had been on dating sites and making fake accounts to speak to underage girls.
After we split up he began stalking my adult half sister who lived alone with her son, he made a fake account and told her he knew where she lived and that he wanted naked photos otherwise he would break in...I knew it was him because I recognised his writing (he was dyslexic) and I threatened to go to the police if he didn’t confess it was him, so he confessed.
He has done this to so many other girls since, even describing what they are wearing to prove he is watching and he has even told them what times they catch the bus ect. I know all this because twice now he has been outed on Facebook by the girls he is stalking, very scary and I fear he will only progress, he’s 26 now.
After we split up he began stalking my adult half sister who lived alone with her son, he made a fake account and told her he knew where she lived and that he wanted naked photos otherwise he would break in...I knew it was him because I recognised his writing (he was dyslexic) and I threatened to go to the police if he didn’t confess it was him, so he confessed.
He has done this to so many other girls since, even describing what they are wearing to prove he is watching and he has even told them what times they catch the bus ect. I know all this because twice now he has been outed on Facebook by the girls he is stalking, very scary and I fear he will only progress, he’s 26 now.
Stopped me seeing friends
Kicked off if I spoke to anyone male, including in work to cover shifts when he was demanding I see him
Called me a slut if I wore a dress
Went through my fb friends/insta followers and demanded I unfollowed certain men
Went through my phone
grape me
Hit me
Kicked off if I spoke to anyone male, including in work to cover shifts when he was demanding I see him
Called me a slut if I wore a dress
Went through my fb friends/insta followers and demanded I unfollowed certain men
Went through my phone
grape me
Hit me
Man bleep, flirted with other girls and stayed out late and turned off his phone as he knew it riled me up. Sad and depressed all the time but didn’t know what to do to solve it or speak to anyone about it. Strung me along for 5 years and talked about marriage and babies but then it became apparent at the end he didn’t want that (with me) but didn’t want to tell me because it would upset me 
Couldn’t keep it in his pants … bye loser 
Maybe you should report him?? Sounds horrific
He’s been reported and I’m not 100% sure, but I don’t think anything has come of it. With my sister I didn’t report him and I chose to give him the benefit of the doubt if he left her alone, but I did let his mum know who wasn’t too shocked and all she said was, “we’ll make sure it doesn’t happen again”!Maybe you should report him?? Sounds horrific
I know his next ex after me reported him for revenge porn and I believe he was cautioned, not 100% sure of the details on that. And I know both times when he was outed on Facebook by girls that he had been stalking there were discussions that the police had been involved and that evidence was being gathered and I also know he lost his job as a McDonald’s shift manager because of it all.
it’s so sad because he started going out with a 17 year old two years ago and he has had a baby with her this year too. I don’t think they are still together, but I know she still spends time with him and his family. I feel so sad for her (not at all for him).
I just hope he gets stopped before something much worse happens. He also used to touch me in my sleep and tried to perform sexual acts on me too (I have never told another person about this), he’s got serious issues.
He sounds dangerous.
I think so and so does my mum. I can’t believe he is still walking the streets, I think it’s only a matter of time before something very bad happens. He got a degree too in something to do with sports as he was aiming to work with high school children in P.E, I pray to god he never gets there because of his revenge porn caution or whatever it was, I’m guessing he won’t thankfully. Some of the girls he has been chatting too in the most recent outing of him are as young as 16, I’m hoping there aren’t any younger. I know when he was 19 there were underage girls too as some of the messages I found were to girls in high school.
Because he was a complete twit. Together for 5 years in total. On the night my dad was dying he went out with his mates and turned up at our house pissed, where he then fell asleep and snored all night. Then told me I was hysterical because I wasn't over my dads death a few months down the line. Used to call me a ag when he was pissed every Sunday. Smashed all the doors in because I annoyed him. Then when I eventually plucked up the courage to dump his sorry ass he said he'd only move out of I slept with him one last time. I really wanted him to go so I did and really regretted it. I dumped him because I fucked someone else (not sorry) and realised I wasn't going to need him on my life as I would find someone else (he eroded my confidence). He then called me 2 weeks later and asked if he could move back in as I'd had my fun. When I said no he threatened constantly not to pay his half of the mortgage, not to pay the bills he was responsible for etc. Told me I was getting fat (I was a size 10). But I met another guy who was 13 years younger then him, sold our house and made a £10000 profit (he made a loss) and went travelling like this
It’s worth reporting it anyway if you can face it. It’ll go down on his record and then if anything happens in future they will have extra clout to charge him
I don’t really know what I’d say or do now though because I don’t have any evidence of what happened or of what has been happening since. I don’t have any evidence of what he did to my sister because it was 2014. Also my half sister and I lost contact in late 2014 (she’s my dad’s child and I don’t speak with him either).It’s worth reporting it anyway if you can face it. It’ll go down on his record and then if anything happens in future they will have extra clout to charge him
If the police ever came and wanted to know anything then I’d tell them what I could, but if he’s not been charged yet despite what he’s being doing to these girls then I don’t think me saying anything would be much help. How he hasn’t been charged though when he had a caution or whatever for revenge porn is beyond me, they must have loads of evidence. Unless the girls never went through with their complaints. I live far away from him now so everything I know is from friends in the area or stuff online.