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I'm sorry, love. Sounds like you're going through it right now.My skin is tit. I can’t shift weight no matter how hard I try (pcos is a witch), student finance has fucked up so I can’t start my degree in Feb, I have to wait until September.
Everyone around me is pregnant, including my sister. I had a miscarriage 4 years ago and it didn’t seem like everyone was this excited when I told them I was expecting. It sounds bitter, but my sister being pregnant is reminding me of all I lost.
My boyfriend doesn’t seem to want to progress our relationship in any way, engagement/marriage conversations just get ignored, pet conversations ignored, baby conversations ignored. The only conversation he’ll have is about going to a football game (for his team, never mine - he said we can go watch my team if they play his team, but we have to sit wherever his team are playing [either in the away stand if they’re at my teams stadium, or home if they’re at his], which I think is bleeping selfish tbh), or going on holiday to somewhere I’m not interested in going.
I’ve just had enough of everything, to be honest. I don’t even know why I get out of bed each day right now. Sorry for rambling. I just feel so miserable at the minute.
Thanks my lovely. I’ve been trying to get help from the doctors for years regarding it (I’m nearly 23, started the diagnosis process at 12, diagnosed since 14), and the only advice I’ve been given is ‘take the pill for your period issues’, and told there’s nothing more we can do for you until you want to conceive.I'm sorry, love. Sounds like you're going through it right now.
Re PCOS, have you seen the doc to find out if you're insulin resistant? I was on a low dose of metformin for PCOS (mine was brought on by a psych med and my ovaries are now miraculously ok), and my periods became frequent and I found losing weight easier. I know this doesn't get to the crux of all of the things you're experiencing right now but I thought I'd offer the info just in case.
Be kind to yourself...even if that means not beating yourself up for feeling the way you do. X
The pill is a complete waste of time for PCOS. Get yourself a decent clinician who wants to help you. Your quality of life matters NOW, not just when you're thinking of conceiving.Thanks my lovely. I’ve been trying to get help from the doctors for years regarding it (I’m nearly 23, started the diagnosis process at 12, diagnosed since 14), and the only advice I’ve been given is ‘take the pill for your period issues’, and told there’s nothing more we can do for you until you want to conceive.
I have moved away though, so I’ll give my new doctors a try. I just hate wasting my breath on it with the docs as I’ve been getting fobbed off with it for over a decade now xx
I think it’s definitely time for me to hammer down on them now really. I’m the worst I’ve felt in a long time, and I agree with you, why am I only worthy of help when/if I want to conceive?The pill is a complete waste of time for PCOS. Get yourself a decent clinician who wants to help you. Your quality of life matters NOW, not just when you're thinking of conceiving.
Mine does this! He does ONE thing every bloody 3 weeks and expects a medal “I emptied the dishwasher today!” Good for you hunSometimes men are so useless. My hubby called me recently to show me he cleaned at the back door of muck he dragged in. I lost the plot and went mad saying imagine me calling you to show you every job I done you would be at my side all day. I'm you wife not your bleeping mother