My Mum was diagnosed with a very aggressive form of cancer, when she was in the hospital dying I asked my then bf to come as I was dealing with it all alone (no Dad, little brother couldn't handle it and older brother lived away with his wife and kids). He said he couldn't come because he wanted to go cycling. For context we lived together, had been together for 4 years and I was madly in love with him, we were also both in our early 30s. My Mum only lasted 23 days from diagnosis to death, I spilt up with my bf two months after my Mum's death. I felt like my whole world had ended but I knew I didn't want a life with someone who could behave like that.
My mum was diagnosed just before Christmas and my then bf also refused to come to the hospital with on Christmas Day to see my Mum as he found it tiring. I think he came to the hospital twice in that whole period.
My mum was diagnosed just before Christmas and my then bf also refused to come to the hospital with on Christmas Day to see my Mum as he found it tiring. I think he came to the hospital twice in that whole period.