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Londoncailín

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I lift weights four times a week. I started about five years ago. I love it so much. I used to follow a programme, but the more experienced I got, the more I started to create my own. I keep it simple and consistent. No fancy lifts. Just nailing the basics every week. The most notable physical changes for me are in my upper body. My arms, shoulders, chest and back are pretty nicely defined. I think the benefits to my mental health by far outweigh the physical though. My next goal is to define my lower body a bit more. I feel like a total badass when I nail a PB on a deadlift.
 
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no-no

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Resurrecting this thread because I’ve been getting into strength training for the past 8-10 months and love it. Had a pull workout this morning. It’s crazy to think I only used to run and work my lower body 🤦🏼‍♀️ It’s so satisfying having better upper body strength. I have my own workouts now that rarely vary, just working on upping the weight. It can be overwhelming when you start, so many fitness folk on Instagram shaming people for (not) doing x, y or z, but you just have to tune that noise out.
 
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malolo

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I’m glad you’ve found what works for you and that you enjoy it so much. I want to get to where you are, I know I really need to work on form I usually end up with a sore lower back when I do things like squats. I’m one of those women that worries about getting too bulky, I know I know, they say it takes a while but I’m about an average build so I feel that if I put muscle on it would make me look and feel bigger. But I suppose I won’t know until I properly try! I would definitely like some definition especially in my arms. When I was a bit lighter at the end of 2018 I actually had some definition in my stomach, not full on abs but I think if I’d been working on them I could have got there. I’m rocking a bit more of a Santa belly at the moment, just to be festive 😄


Thank you so much I will have a good look at this today, I do want to do some reading and try to find a plan over Christmas so I can get started in the new year!


It’s the repetition I find boring I think. Doing 3-4 sets of the same thing, I have a very short attention span and hate repeating myself. That being said I’ve only ever really done weights with a PT and my husband used to go to the same gym. He does weights and he said he’d get bored doing it with a PT and that for him putting his earphones in and just getting on with it is something he enjoys. So I have already done a Spotify playlist and am hoping that it might be a bit more motivating. Usually in the gym I went to the music was either pretty quiet or not really music I was that into.


That’s fantastic that it’s helped with your injuries. I have bad knees so I will have to be careful starting out but I was told that leg extension would help strengthen the muscles around my knees and that I might find that helps a bit. I also get pain in my lower back sometimes so I should probably look at trying to strengthen that and my core.

Generally I do love cardio and the buzz I get from it and my favourite is going out for walks and runs. I had been going to the gym for spin classes and doing weight/cardio circuits with a trainer but once the gyms closed I was back to just walks and youtube workouts that I had to do at the end of the bed as husband was using the office as the lounge. I just became so bored I even started dreading my walks. I feel like I need to mix it up more next year and also get some definition once I’ve worked off this little layer of lockdown lard I’ve been accumulating! My husbands bought some dumbbells during lockdown and he had one of those weight benches in the garage that he bought years ago and never used so I feel like I’ve got some things I can use to get started. I feel really anxious at the thought of doing weights in the gym without a PT holding my hand but I don’t want to use a PT anymore so I figure I can work on form and start learning with what we have at home. That’s the plan anyway (she says led in bed eating a biscuit!) 😄
You won't get bulky because women don't produce enough testosterone or HGH naturally to get massive. I suppose everyone has a different definition of what they would say bulky is though.

Your reason for finding weights boring is the reason I find cardio boring 😂 Music definitely helps if you have the right tracks to push you through.

My advice would be to make sure you get the compound lifts in your routine and then supplement it with other exercises depending on what your goals are. Doing independent limb exercises will help with any imbalances you have and help overall. And don't neglect your core because you use it for everything!
 
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Gembo

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I couldn’t find a thread for this so thought I would start one. Who lifts weights? How did you get started? Do you follow a particular plan/programme or do you create workouts for yourself? What changes have you noticed in yourself and your body?
I’ve done it on and off over the years with PT’s but never for more than a few months, as odd as it is I actually really enjoy cardio and prefer doing that, well when I’m in the mood. I get a bit bored and frustrated with weights sometimes, there are some muscles I feel like I just can’t work such as my back, never feel a thing no matter how heavy I go, it just seems to be all in my arms. But next year I’m determined to try and get into it so would love to know more of other peoples experiences and how they find it.
 
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Countrybumpkingirl

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What will people do if we go back into full lockdown after boxing day? I get so fed up of just getting back into the routine seeing progress again and then bam gyms shut. I live in a 1 bed flat so I just about fitted a spin bike and have bands and a few small dumbbells and kettlebell, but no space for proper weights.
Just to say the gym is the only place I go, don't even go to supermarket and live alone so this is going to massively impact on my physical and mental health again
 
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VomitCulture

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check out the wiki in the r/fitness subreddit, they have a lot of good plans to follow and a good faq on weights.
Pick a plan, stick to it, be consistent, eat a good amount of protein and progressively increase the weights over time and you’ll see good results.

 
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malolo

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I weight train six times a week. At the moment I'm doing a push/pull/legs split and I sort out my own programmes.

In terms of changes then muscle definition and strength really. It's also massively satisfying when something gets delivered to your house and the delivery driver tells you it's really heavy and asks if you'll manage (clearly because you're a weak little woman) and you can handle it with more ease than him!

What is it that you find boring about weights? I know I've seen people doing some PT programmes in the gym and I'd be bored senseless doing them.
 
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Pixipoppy

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I’ve been lifting weights in some capacity for about 7 years or more :giggle: I absolutely love it, it’s the only form of exercise I’ve ever actually enjoyed and stuck at. I’ve followed various programs over the years, then I was in group training for a while. Now I sort of dip in and out. It took me a while to get used to the movements and use proper form, it can be really hard to isolate certain muscles.
Going to the gym has had such a positive benefit for my mental health. I always feel so much better when I’ve just killed myself during a session😅
Physically I was always very skinny and fragile looking before I started (the reason I got into it was a build my legs up cos they were like twigs!) - now I’m still slim but I’ve definitely got thicker legs and my arms/shoulders are much more defined and slightly broader which I like. I do train upper body a lot though, I know some girls don’t as they don’t want to look muscly 🤷‍♀️
 
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Brianbadonde

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Hi all,
I lift 4 times a week and following 6 week block programming by a PT (£30 for a 6 week block on top of my usual monthly gym membership) no further 121 support bar messaging him on insta and us chatting when he's in the gym. He's a powerlifter so my training is currently 2 days of squat/ bench and 2 days of deadlift/legs with other additional isolated training on top of the main lifts. The block may be a volume block or a strength block. I bloody love the feeling of being a strong and capable woman. I refuse to diet so I'm not ripped but my pbs keep coming which keeps me motivated. I'm 34, been in and out of the gym over the years, hate cardio but give me a barbell any day, can't ever imagine not going to the gym anymore. I'm sure he'd love me to compete but that's never going to happen.. To scared of failure infront of a crowd I think.
 
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Resurrecting this thread because I’ve been getting into strength training for the past 8-10 months and love it. Had a pull workout this morning. It’s crazy to think I only used to run and work my lower body 🤦🏼‍♀️ It’s so satisfying having better upper body strength. I have my own workouts now that rarely vary, just working on upping the weight. It can be overwhelming when you start, so many fitness folk on Instagram shaming people for (not) doing x, y or z, but you just have to tune that noise out.
Completely agree. Big bonus for me is I focus way more on what my body can achieve rather than what it looks like, eating good healthy food and lots of it to get stronger rather than trying to burn the calories off
 
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Pixipoppy

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What will people do if we go back into full lockdown after boxing day? I get so fed up of just getting back into the routine seeing progress again and then bam gyms shut. I live in a 1 bed flat so I just about fitted a spin bike and have bands and a few small dumbbells and kettlebell, but no space for proper weights.
Just to say the gym is the only place I go, don't even go to supermarket and live alone so this is going to massively impact on my physical and mental health again
It’s so shit, plus there’s really no evidence that gyms are causing a rise in cases so I don’t feel they should be closed. Limit the numbers attending and increase deep cleaning, they’re much safer than a supermarket.

It’s surprising what you can do with bodyweight and some bands. I was very fortunate that I was able to set up a garage gym halfway through last lockdown but before that I was doing things at home (was also in a 1 bed flat so limited space, and had to improvise quite a lot). I used to do a lot of press ups, dips, pull ups (if you can get a pull-up bar!), split squats, banded squats/kickbacks and lots of ab stuff. It’s not ideal but I also don’t feel I lost too much strength or size over that period of time either.
 
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birdiefly246

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Weight lifter here!
I would start out with classes maybe like body pump or kettlebell classes. That's a good start to introduce your body to it as you're guided by an instructor and you can change the weights as you see fit.

Also (controversial here) contrary to popular belief I would really recommend getting protein from plants instead of meat and dairy.
Not to sound like a crazy vegan and I'm not saying it works for everyone but the protein in plants is a lot leaner. You need more of it to match that of meat but it means you're not spending your workouts burning fat you don't need first, you can just go straight into muscle building. Since only eating plants and upping the amount to get more protein from them, I have way more defined muscles and my abs are becoming more and more defined. I've never had a six pack in my life even though I was an active child but I've got one coming now.

hope that helps
 
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I couldn’t find a thread for this so thought I would start one. Who lifts weights? How did you get started? Do you follow a particular plan/programme or do you create workouts for yourself? What changes have you noticed in yourself and your body?
I’ve done it on and off over the years with PT’s but never for more than a few months, as odd as it is I actually really enjoy cardio and prefer doing that, well when I’m in the mood. I get a bit bored and frustrated with weights sometimes, there are some muscles I feel like I just can’t work such as my back, never feel a thing no matter how heavy I go, it just seems to be all in my arms. But next year I’m determined to try and get into it so would love to know more of other peoples experiences and how they find it.
I lift - 3 times a week. Started after being in ill health and decided to make some positive changes in my life.
Begun with a PT x1 a week, there's been periods where I have done them x2 a week but £££.
I think get a PT that you really gel with is the best advice. I love the time with my PT, he checks in on me in the week to see how I'm getting on etc and it's a really therapeutic relationship. Looking at me holistically rather than just someone ticking boxes.
 
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blossombloss

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I started lifting this year and I'm really enjoying it! I would dread going to the gym and doing cardio, so I decided to bite the bullet and just join a programme for a coach on Instagram, she's an absolute beast! I think if you don't want to join a programme then you should focus on prioritising basic moves like squats, deadlifts, lunges, push ups, hipthrusts pulls/chin ups etc. I've only been doing this for about 5 weeks but I feel amazing afterwards (typically wrecked on leg day). I honestly love the feeling of being strong and pushing more weight
 
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Gembo

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Thank you for all these responses, I’m really looking forward to starting this next year, I think it will do me good to have a change from all the cardio that I’ve done this year and started to get bored of. I do still love cardio but it will be nice to mix things up a bit. I was using the Sweat app to do BBG and they’ve got some weight lifting plans on there so my plan is to try the PWR plans, there’s a home and a gym version so I figure I can follow one of those but just using the equipment I have at home to get started at least. I started following a couple of ladies on Instagram who have done it and one of them is in amazing shape now and so strong. I’m going to try and take my focus away from my body and more about what I want to achieve in terms of strength, I really want to be able to do push ups and pull ups and to plank for longer than 10 seconds 😄 hoping I will see some big changes by the end of next year! 💪🏻
 
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Gembo

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Hi all,
I lift 4 times a week and following 6 week block programming by a PT (£30 for a 6 week block on top of my usual monthly gym membership) no further 121 support bar messaging him on insta and us chatting when he's in the gym. He's a powerlifter so my training is currently 2 days of squat/ bench and 2 days of deadlift/legs with other additional isolated training on top of the main lifts. The block may be a volume block or a strength block. I bloody love the feeling of being a strong and capable woman. I refuse to diet so I'm not ripped but my pbs keep coming which keeps me motivated. I'm 34, been in and out of the gym over the years, hate cardio but give me a barbell any day, can't ever imagine not going to the gym anymore. I'm sure he'd love me to compete but that's never going to happen.. To scared of failure infront of a crowd I think.
I love your sentence about being a strong and capable woman! 💪🏻I’m hoping it might give me a boost to my self esteem if I get a bit stronger!

You won't get bulky because women don't produce enough testosterone or HGH naturally to get massive. I suppose everyone has a different definition of what they would say bulky is though.

Your reason for finding weights boring is the reason I find cardio boring 😂 Music definitely helps if you have the right tracks to push you through.

My advice would be to make sure you get the compound lifts in your routine and then supplement it with other exercises depending on what your goals are. Doing independent limb exercises will help with any imbalances you have and help overall. And don't neglect your core because you use it for everything!
Yep I need to work on my core I think it’s pretty pitiful! It’s funny isn’t it, I know I’m in the minority loving cardio but I just do, I love that sweaty breathlessness I get such a buzz from it. Whereas when I do weights I just don’t get the same feeling and that’s probably another reason I’m not as keen. I love pushing myself if I run (when I say run I mean intervals at the moment as I can’t run for long right now!) But maybe I’m doing weights wrong and would get that if I pushed harder. I think it’s probably being confined to one spot a bit too.

I did a 6 week weightlifting course and I LOVED it. Would love to get back into it but need a buddy to go with. Don’t know where you’re based, but these are the people I did the course with - https://www.strongher.co.uk/
Thanks so much I will take a look at that!

Highly recommend to get into it Chloe Madeley either fat loss blitz or the last book. She gives you a weekly plan and step by step guide. I loved it and makes life easier as don't have to plan yourself to start.

I now train with a pt and he has his own app.
I downloaded one of her workout plans from the website in summer. I did one workout which was legs. Literally couldn’t walk for a week. I’ve had doms before but that was something else! My fault I think for maybe pushing too hard on that one but it put me off a bit. I do have a couple of her books though and have the new one on order, I will take another look.
 
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malolo

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My garage is my gym so I've been massively fortunate through all of this that I haven't had to miss going (although it doesn't always feel like a fortunate thing when the temperature is near enough freezing 😂 ).
 
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Countrybumpkingirl

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Tier 4 coming (I live in Sussex but bubbled with family in Suffolk so both locations tier 4 and I'm furloughed), so getting to the gym as much as I can before Saturday.. even training on Christmas day (we aren't doing anything anyways as I developed PTSD so the holiday is a trigger for me). Be nice to get 2 last sessions in with actual heavy weights 💪💪💪

Good luck to everyone else, It is going to be tough going.


Also extra question, has anyone tried/does cross fit? I want to get involved it looks incredible (love the cross fit games!)
 
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annanuttall

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I lift weight ( don't ask me about what weight I actually lift as my scale might be different to yours as it seems to differ at every gym). I do it as my hubby is hobby bodybuilder (ie just do it for physical sexiness, not for sport!) and he keeps saying it a good way for me to lose weight and to boost my metabolism. My favourite move (if you want to call it that) is chest press and Romania deadlift.
I train 2-3 days a week - depends on when I can get the weight studio free and also if there any guys poser (the kind who kiss their muscle) I also do a lot of cardio throughout the week.
 
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