Is it rude to invite the SIL and MIL to hen do before pandemic then you dont invite them to the newly arranged one? Just asking for a friend 
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In all honesty I wouldn’t worry about it either way. Perhaps you could politely ask if you were still invited but if you think it’s going to lead to an argument I wouldn’t bother.
Weddings can cause so much upset and drama, my husband hasn’t spoken to his mum, dad and sister since our wedding 5 years ago because of their disgusting behaviour and that was because I hadn’t intended on inviting them on my hen weekend. When I found out they were annoyed by this I invited them and explained I hadn’t thought they would want to go but apparently that wasn’t good enough and they were horrific from that day forward.
Obviously I’m not saying you would be the same but sometimes I think saying nothing is better, a family fall out is awful for all involved.
Weddings can cause so much upset and drama, my husband hasn’t spoken to his mum, dad and sister since our wedding 5 years ago because of their disgusting behaviour and that was because I hadn’t intended on inviting them on my hen weekend. When I found out they were annoyed by this I invited them and explained I hadn’t thought they would want to go but apparently that wasn’t good enough and they were horrific from that day forward.
Obviously I’m not saying you would be the same but sometimes I think saying nothing is better, a family fall out is awful for all involved.
It’s not worth it no but if it keeps the peace that’s all that matters. I’m just worried I am going to be one pissed sister
Maybe it’s an oversight by a bridesmaid or something? I hope it all works out for you xxIt’s not worth it no but if it keeps the peace that’s all that matters. I’m just worried I am going to be one pissed sister
I would say yes it is a bit rude. But may just be an oversight?