Wedding guest outfit - help!

[DCICassieStuart]

Have a wedding to go to next year. It's not until April, but I've been keeping an eye out waiting for the Christmas stuff to come into shops, but I'm not seeing anything much yet. Is it still too early? I thought a lot of sparkly/party clothes are normally in by now. Have been having a look at clothes online, but nothing is jumping out at me, so I'm asking my fellow Tattlers for help please

I'm 5'3", size 6-8 (more of an 8 on the belly so that's the one are I don't want to highlight) legs are probably my best feature so shortish might be good. I have dark hair and eyes and love red lipstick. Hair is currently waist length and needs about 6 inches cut off so hopefully will be a bit shorter by then and possibly in some sort of updo, so any suggestions for fascinators/hairclips etc would be great too. Preferably a dress but it doesn't have to be. I love red, black is fine for the wedding. I like navy, teal, green but not pink. Obviously not white/cream etc and pastel colours make me look like death warmed up so are a definite no no.
I have no idea what shoes I'm wearing yet (will depend on the outfit) but they'll definitely be heels (4"+)

Thanks all

 

[Giggling Squid]

I’m similar size/build and my go to always used to be Oasis - but since their high street business folded they’ve been a bit hit and miss…
French connection is where I got a dress for a wedding earlier in the year, but it was so hard to find anything kinda glad the next wedding I’m going to is my own

this is the dress I wore (in blue)

Ito Mix Sleeveless Dress

Turn heads in the Ito Mix Sleeveless Dress. The monochrome design boasts a vibrant hue and flattering fit and flare shape, making it a stand out piece guaranteed to boost your mood. With two sleek pockets cut in the skirt, the dress is an eye-catching and playful addition to you new season...

www.frenchconnection.com

and this was my other option

Whisper Ruffle Mini Dress

New season means another reason to update your LBD collection. Luckily, the Whisper Ruffle Mini Dress is designed in a tight-fitting silhouette with stylish ruffles. Mini dress Fabric: stretchy, mid-weight Sleeveless Square neckline Ruffled trim UK size 8 length is 82cm Our model is 5ft10" and...

www.frenchconnection.com

 

[dancingqueen5678]

have you tried everything5pound?

It's got a lot of nice stuff on there and cause it's old stock it's not on "trend" so easier to find things you want/are comfortable in versus a high street store which I find very same-y

 

[Kim Mild]

I bet the fashion industry is wary of releasing party/ occasion wear this winter incase of restrictions.

What about looking on ebay for inspiration and you might find a bargain. And Pinterest for ideas.

A wedding and getting dressed up sounds like a nice thing to have to look forward to

 

[Elles20]

I have been attending so many weddings these past few years so I try to spend as little as possible on them. ASOS sells nice dresses.I usually just filter to 'occasion dresses' and my size which is the same as yours, and then sort from low to high price.

 

[Clickbait]

There is a website called Brandalley that has high street and designer sales - Ted Baker, Reiss, Hobbs, Phase Eight etc. with up to 60% off. Definitely worth a look on there as they’ll have non-seasonal clothes as well.

 

[SwimmingPigs]

I think satin dresses look lovely and are very flattering for petite figures. Just some pics from Google:

 

[Sheabutter]

Have a wedding to go to next year. It's not until April, but I've been keeping an eye out waiting for the Christmas stuff to come into shops, but I'm not seeing anything much yet. Is it still too early? I thought a lot of sparkly/party clothes are normally in by now. Have been having a look at clothes online, but nothing is jumping out at me, so I'm asking my fellow Tattlers for help please

I'm 5'3", size 6-8 (more of an 8 on the belly so that's the one are I don't want to highlight) legs are probably my best feature so shortish might be good. I have dark hair and eyes and love red lipstick. Hair is currently waist length and needs about 6 inches cut off so hopefully will be a bit shorter by then and possibly in some sort of updo, so any suggestions for fascinators/hairclips etc would be great too. Preferably a dress but it doesn't have to be. I love red, black is fine for the wedding. I like navy, teal, green but not pink. Obviously not white/cream etc and pastel colours make me look like death warmed up so are a definite no no.
I have no idea what shoes I'm wearing yet (will depend on the outfit) but they'll definitely be heels (4"+)

Thanks all

Do you have a budget?

 

[DCICassieStuart]

I bet the fashion industry is wary of releasing party/ occasion wear this winter incase of restrictions.

What about looking on ebay for inspiration and you might find a bargain. And Pinterest for ideas.

A wedding and getting dressed up sounds like a nice thing to have to look forward to

That's what I was thinking because normally the Christmas/party wear is in the shops at this stage.

Do you have a budget?

Around £150. Could push to £200 if it's something I really like.

 

[Lulu Goss]

Silkfred has some lovely dresses, they do a lot of outfit inspo on their Instagram to

ETA just looked and they actually have a wedding guest dresses section on their website

Stunning Wedding Guest Dresses For 2025 Weddings | SilkFred

Shop elegant wedding guest dresses & wedding guest outfits that are too good to only wear once. All from the best independent brands. Find your new dress here.

www.silkfred.com

 

[Sheabutter]

SilkFred looks nice. Bloomingdales also has a good search option.

Keep us updated!! Good luck!

 

[Welshgal]

Absolutely love Asos for nicer dresses! I find sizing there really good as well since they do petite and tall.

 

[BegDavis]

Morning, I second asos - you can filter to occasion wear and they have such a broad collection and another website I’ve purchased from for weddings and christenings are DLSB.co.U.K.

They have some gorgeous dresses and jumpsuits which would be perfect for spring. There’s still lots of pastels and florals on both websites which will work well for spring! I’d check the measurements for both websites, especially asos as they have so many brands the sizing can vary wildly.. I’m usually a 14 and can range from 10-16 on there!!

I’ve tried silkfred before and a couple of the dresses stunk of cigarette smoke so put me off and seems expensive for the quality you receive. Good luck!

 

[Dontmissmuch]

Chichi London have gorgeous dresses... lots of different styles....

 

[DCICassieStuart]

I’ve tried silkfred before and a couple of the dresses stunk of cigarette smoke so put me off and seems expensive for the quality you receive. Good luck!

OMG, that's shocking! That happened to me once when I ordered a dress from H&M. I took it back to my local store and the staff were very apologetic.

Lots to look at here. Thanks everyone

 

[ProphecyGirl]

I've got one in December!! I want something to hide my tummy (size 10/12 with a right podge!) someone help me too pls

 

[BegDavis]

I've got one in December!! I want something to hide my tummy (size 10/12 with a right podge!) someone help me too pls

Personally I’d be wearing something like this to a Xmas wedding can’t go wrong with bold colours or a bit of sparkle for a Xmas wedding. This sort of shape will hide any ‘podge’ perfectly too. Could still wear a fascinator with it x

pretty little thing also do wedding guest section and have lots for autumn winter! Next tend to do loads of more sparkly dresses if that’s something you’d want

 

[CheesyMarmite]

Quiz have some lovely bits for occasions all year round and a good petite range (my SIL in 5foot 1 and size 6/8)

Edit to add - Goddiva have some nice dresses for guests too!

 

[Little_Red_Rides]

I’m the same size and colouring as you - na-kd have some great affordable dresses and Ive found always great quality too x

 

[Mamacita]

Reviving this thread as I have a few weddings to go to this year. Dressing fancy is really not my thing and I literally have no idea what's appropriate. Does anyone have suggestions where to look? Is it inappropriate to wear a bodycon dress to a wedding? What about a black or red dress? Short dress? Shoulders out? I have so many questions