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GP's don't know much. Whenever you go to see them they usually just refer you to a specialist. You're a doctor, you should know FFS!
 
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My old GP a few years ago was terrible. He's the Head of the surgery. He told me I was being dramatic when I went in with Epilepsy symptoms. When I kept going back he said I just don't know why you keep coming back there's nothing wrong with you. When I saw a lady doctor she was amazing referred me straight away and I cried just because she was so lovely.

If you aren't a nice person I don't know how you could be a GP.
part of the qualification/training to be a GP should be some kind of lessons on dealing with people, some GPs have 0 personal skills, how some of them treat patients would be a sackable offence in other customer facing roles
 
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GP's don't know much. Whenever you go to see them they usually just refer you to a specialist. You're a doctor, you should know FFS!
Side note: I took my son once when he was a baby (about 5 months or so) to ask about CMPA - she openly GOOGLED in front of me cos she didnt know what it was!
 
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My old GP a few years ago was terrible. He's the Head of the surgery. He told me I was being dramatic when I went in with Epilepsy symptoms. When I kept going back he said I just don't know why you keep coming back there's nothing wrong with you. When I saw a lady doctor she was amazing referred me straight away and I cried just because she was so lovely.

If you aren't a nice person I don't know how you could be a GP.
I had a similar experience with GPs (during the pandemic) who kept saying I was "fine" and they didn't know what was wrong with me. After 6 different GPs I finally found one who actually understood what was going on and made sure to not waste anymore time and he said I should keep making an appointment to specifically see him. He was brilliant!

I also feel like a bunch of GPs are pretty arrogant.
 
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I agree with all those posts about GP's, it makes me laugh when people on forums say don't ask here go to your GP, give me those with personal experience over a GP anytime.

Before I get jumped on. anything serious, yes go to your GP first. then ask here ;)

A Dr once asked my son, did his penis hurt when he passed water. My son was 2yo FFS
 
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My old GP a few years ago was terrible. He's the Head of the surgery. He told me I was being dramatic when I went in with Epilepsy symptoms. When I kept going back he said I just don't know why you keep coming back there's nothing wrong with you. When I saw a lady doctor she was amazing referred me straight away and I cried just because she was so lovely.

If you aren't a nice person I don't know how you could be a GP.
people go into medicine because of family pressure, the prestige associated with it, because they like the scientific side of things but the human side less so, because they like the guaranteed career path.

a lot of people go into general practice because it’s generally easier going out of all the career options in medicine.

all of the above means a lot of people get into it who really aren’t suited to it
 
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This will be a controversial one because everyone loves the NHS and all that :rolleyes: but here goes

A lot of GPs (definitely not all) are terrible at their jobs and shouldn't be in the job in the first place. Some of them have ridiculously poor communication skills and won't take the time to listen to some patients and misdiagnose them constantly. It's obviously been made worse with COVID.
Most GPs have the communications skills of a rock. “I’m overworked!” Yeah we know mate. We all are.
 
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This will be a controversial one because everyone loves the NHS and all that :rolleyes: but here goes

A lot of GPs (definitely not all) are terrible at their jobs and shouldn't be in the job in the first place. Some of them have ridiculously poor communication skills and won't take the time to listen to some patients and misdiagnose them constantly. It's obviously been made worse with COVID.
it needs to be heard..the NHS cant continue to be put in this 'cant say anything against them and they do no wrong' pedestal.

GPs are a joke at the moment..Hospitals are doing appointments, i can see the nurse at my Doctors..you can go to dentist etc etc but my GP is still hiding behind telephone consultations. Why? are the Drs, nurses and other hospital staff not also at risk when they see patients what makes GPs so special.

so many people are being failed by GPs hiding still and waiting in agony on waiting lists because COVID is still taking priority over everything.
 
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If you run or work in a care home play appropriate music for them at parties...

My mum who was in a home died about 18 years ago and her era of music was Bill Haley, Elvis etc and they would play my old man said follow the van, or Burlington Bertie
Seems like once you reach a certain age you just become all the same age. No one alive today was alive when those tunes came out and neither was my mum and she is long gone.

if your home does this, then just stop.
Completely agree, my Nanna was a child in the war yet the care home thought it nice to play wartime tunes all the time! Surely music from the 50s/60s would have been more appropriate!
 
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Unless you know something I don't, I'm not expecting a baby!! 😂
In that case your dog, I remember you do have a dog.

My memory is so bad, so many ladies with young kids, I can't remember, and threads move so fast I can't keep up.
 
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In that case your dog, I remember you do have a dog.

My memory is so bad, so many ladies with young kids, I can't remember, and threads move so fast I can't keep up.
Nooo I don’t have a dog either 😂😂
 
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In that case your dog, I remember you do have a dog.

My memory is so bad, so many ladies with young kids, I can't remember, and threads move so fast I can't keep up.
I think Wilma wants a dog but doesn't have one at the present moment. 😂 Unless I'm wrong too!
 
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If it helps I had Jaffa Cakes cravings both times I was upduffed.

I’d be at my work and someone would say, ooh Jaffa Cakes…duck ‘em I was not going to share.
 
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it needs to be heard..the NHS cant continue to be put in this 'cant say anything against them and they do no wrong' pedestal.

GPs are a joke at the moment..Hospitals are doing appointments, i can see the nurse at my Doctors..you can go to dentist etc etc but my GP is still hiding behind telephone consultations. Why? are the Drs, nurses and other hospital staff not also at risk when they see patients what makes GPs so special.

so many people are being failed by GPs hiding still and waiting in agony on waiting lists because COVID is still taking priority over everything.
This!!! How the duck can you diagnose someone over the phone?! I don't get how the woke mob on Twitter think it's acceptable.
 
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I agree with all those posts about GP's, it makes me laugh when people on forums say don't ask here go to your GP, give me those with personal experience over a GP anytime.

Before I get jumped on. anything serious, yes go to your GP first. then ask here ;)

A Dr once asked my son, did his penis hurt when he passed water. My son was 2yo FFS
After over a hundred attempts to get an appointment at 8:30 🙄. I eventually got an appointment whilst I explained my symptoms, the GP repeatedly asked me what I thought it was. I said, no idea, that’s why I’m asking you…as a doctor. He said, hmm yes, what does your gut tell you. I wanted to say, that you are a bleeping idiot!
 
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Completely agree, my Nanna was a child in the war yet the care home thought it nice to play wartime tunes all the time! Surely music from the 50s/60s would have been more appropriate!
Exactly, yes. my mum was 8 when war broke out and not the happy time many think it was, with everyone up and dancing All her friends went to a birthday party but she was ill, the house was bombed she lost most of her friends. Why would she and why would all who lived through those times, want to hear fricking war songs every time there is a party or celebration. Same when they recreate the old wartime recipes for them, why, just why.
 
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Exactly! Their job is literally to help people ffs! What's all the complaining about?!
My 4.5yr old son has had tonsillitis 21 times in his life. I had to pay for a private referral (£200) back in September for him to be seen as the GP wouldn’t refer him until he was 5. Now my son is on a waiting list to be seen again at a hospital and it’s looking like his surgery won’t be until next year. Fucks me right off.

I had a stillbirth back in September and came home in so much pain. When I rang the GP she told me that I need to know the difference between emotional and physical pain and take brufen. I had a rip roaring infection but she wouldn’t take my word for it and nor would she see me in person.

Honestly it winds me up. I’m an ITU nurse and been on the front line since March 2020. They have been working over the phones.
 
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Side note: I took my son once when he was a baby (about 5 months or so) to ask about CMPA - she openly GOOGLED in front of me cos she didnt know what it was!
I’ve had this before too. I find GPs really weird. I’ve been asked before ‘so what do you think is wrong with you’ which I found odd as I’m not a doctor so..that’s why I went to a GP. Another time, I had done my own research and read some medical papers (I have a PhD which involved training in reading/evaluating medical journal papers so I knew they were legit etc) and the GP laughed and told me off for Googling…before then Googling herself, and reaching the same conclusion as me?! I honestly avoid them these days, it’s difficult because I have a couple of health conditions but normally my approach to health is ‘wait and hope it sorts itself out’ now 😬
 
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Nooo I don’t have a dog either 😂😂
I don't believe it, I think you are trying to make me go mad. I am sure it was you who gave McDonald's to your dog.
If it wasn't my memory is worse than I thought.

Please say you are kidding, and that you do have a dog .
 
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