Gloria Roscoe
Well-known member
I think personally, you need to be in a good headspace before starting a relationship. I think you are suffering from low self-esteem and I think you should consider speaking to your doctor or better still, a therapist about this, especially regarding body confidence.
Do you have any hobbies? There are some groups on Facebook for discussing interests. Some people like arts and crafts, some like playing cards, some like films and music.
In terms of finding a boyfriend. I would say, if you force it, it won't work, it will be too much pressure. Make yourself open to finding a BF and see how it goes. You could also join sites like Plenty Of Fish or Match and treat it as a bit of fun and see where it leads.
Try not to beat yourself up about things. We are living in diffuclt times and I know a lot of people are feeling very down at the moment. You have made some great acheivements in life, career, own place to live. Sometimes people come in to our life when we least expect it.
Do you have any hobbies? There are some groups on Facebook for discussing interests. Some people like arts and crafts, some like playing cards, some like films and music.
In terms of finding a boyfriend. I would say, if you force it, it won't work, it will be too much pressure. Make yourself open to finding a BF and see how it goes. You could also join sites like Plenty Of Fish or Match and treat it as a bit of fun and see where it leads.
Try not to beat yourself up about things. We are living in diffuclt times and I know a lot of people are feeling very down at the moment. You have made some great acheivements in life, career, own place to live. Sometimes people come in to our life when we least expect it.