Tully Smyth/Tee_Smyth

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Ugh I’m so torn, I know Tattle is snark for influencers who monetise sharing their life, but I feel like this thread could really mess her up mentally. Long time follower here so maybe I have one of those weird para-social relationships but I feel like I’m watching her break & go into a dark place. This break up is pitiful to watch especially because Daniel has posted NOTHING but she’s creating montages to sad music. I am so glad TikTok wasn’t around when I was 15 because I would have done the same. I think the best thing she can do for her mental health is get a non-influencer job out of the house where she can socialise and keep busy (and maybe off her phone). Influencer work cannot be easy right now when it seems like she’s at home alone all day without much purpose of routine. She no doubt has talent in writing and marketing. This post actually annoyed me: her followers are clearly worried and trying to help. She posts all her problems online and people try to solve them instead of watching her wallow in them. Then she writes sarcastic stuff like this? I really want her to do well. I hope she can pull herself up from this, in terms of influencer she’s pretty harmless and deserves some good.
 

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Ugh I’m so torn, I know Tattle is snark for influencers who monetise sharing their life, but I feel like this thread could really mess her up mentally. Long time follower here so maybe I have one of those weird para-social relationships but I feel like I’m watching her break & go into a dark place. This break up is pitiful to watch especially because Daniel has posted NOTHING but she’s creating montages to sad music. I am so glad TikTok wasn’t around when I was 15 because I would have done the same. I think the best thing she can do for her mental health is get a non-influencer job out of the house where she can socialise and keep busy (and maybe off her phone). Influencer work cannot be easy right now when it seems like she’s at home alone all day without much purpose of routine. She no doubt has talent in writing and marketing. This post actually annoyed me: her followers are clearly worried and trying to help. She posts all her problems online and people try to solve them instead of watching her wallow in them. Then she writes sarcastic stuff like this? I really want her to do well. I hope she can pull herself up from this, in terms of influencer she’s pretty harmless and deserves some good.
If she wants to seek out tattle and read here, maybe she could learn a thing or two about navigating life? Like don’t post childish break up reels to social media and actually go and seek proper therapy to help her overcome all the big/negative emotions that she is feeling post separation?
 
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Don’t worry, I honestly don’t think this thread will be a big or fast moving one. I could be wrong. Unfortunately for Tully putting herself out there in the public eye does invite this type of discussion. There were some positive things said about her in the other thread but I guess it is a snark site after all.
 
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Ugh I’m so torn, I know Tattle is snark for influencers who monetise sharing their life, but I feel like this thread could really mess her up mentally. Long time follower here so maybe I have one of those weird para-social relationships but I feel like I’m watching her break & go into a dark place. This break up is pitiful to watch especially because Daniel has posted NOTHING but she’s creating montages to sad music. I am so glad TikTok wasn’t around when I was 15 because I would have done the same. I think the best thing she can do for her mental health is get a non-influencer job out of the house where she can socialise and keep busy (and maybe off her phone). Influencer work cannot be easy right now when it seems like she’s at home alone all day without much purpose of routine. She no doubt has talent in writing and marketing. This post actually annoyed me: her followers are clearly worried and trying to help. She posts all her problems online and people try to solve them instead of watching her wallow in them. Then she writes sarcastic stuff like this? I really want her to do well. I hope she can pull herself up from this, in terms of influencer she’s pretty harmless and deserves some good.
Ah it’s been asked for and she’s talked about a bit on the Aussie thread.

The thing is Tully is NOT 15. She’s a grown adult who’s long distance relationship has broken up. How do I know that? Well she puts it and many other personal things online to be consumed by her followers and or her critics. The over sharing, the Tiktok videos of her crying it’s all attention seeking behaviour. She’s states herself that’s she’s the original reality tv social media influencer. Tully needs the attention of the public to get the validation she craves.
 
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I saw the TikTok yesterday I mean come on you are mid cry and you pull out your phone and film yourself.

im sorry but that’s calculated attention seeking behaviour as a previous poster said you are not 15 pay for therapy or call your friends.
 
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I saw the TikTok yesterday I mean come on you are mid cry and you pull out your phone and film yourself.

im sorry but that’s calculated attention seeking behaviour as a previous poster said you are not 15 pay for therapy or call your friends.
I’m confused bc that was the same clip from crying about her egg retrieval so is she just using that footage or just recorded herself crying for several different reasons at once?

I just can’t understand why she stayed in Australia. She has nothing to keep her here. She can do influencing anywhere. I don’t know who is advising her but it makes no sense to have stayed. I hope she can figure out a new path forward and thrive.
 
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I just can’t understand why she stayed in Australia. She has nothing to keep her here. She can do influencing anywhere. I don’t know who is advising her but it makes no sense to have stayed. I hope she can figure out a new path forward and thrive.
It would have been hard for her to get a visa for the US as she has no skills, and I'm pretty sure no company would sponsor her visa.
She also wrote in a q&a that she wasn't uprooting her life with no commitment (ie. Trying to get him to put a ring on it)

Unfortunately I don't ever see her "thriving". She seems to quite fragile mentally.
 
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Based on what she would say in her podcast about what she’s looking for in a man I can tell you she has her priorities all wrong. She’s all about hotness and chemistry. Focusing on hot guys and passion won’t get you a man who will commit to you (not saying that a hot man with whom you have a passionate relationship with doesn’t mean they won’t commit, I’m saying focusing on that as a foundation is going to keep you in a pattern of finding men who won’t commit).
 
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Ugh I’m so torn, I know Tattle is snark for influencers who monetise sharing their life, but I feel like this thread could really mess her up mentally. Long time follower here so maybe I have one of those weird para-social relationships but I feel like I’m watching her break & go into a dark place. This break up is pitiful to watch especially because Daniel has posted NOTHING but she’s creating montages to sad music. I am so glad TikTok wasn’t around when I was 15 because I would have done the same. I think the best thing she can do for her mental health is get a non-influencer job out of the house where she can socialise and keep busy (and maybe off her phone). Influencer work cannot be easy right now when it seems like she’s at home alone all day without much purpose of routine. She no doubt has talent in writing and marketing. This post actually annoyed me: her followers are clearly worried and trying to help. She posts all her problems online and people try to solve them instead of watching her wallow in them. Then she writes sarcastic stuff like this? I really want her to do well. I hope she can pull herself up from this, in terms of influencer she’s pretty harmless and deserves some good.
This post she made about anxiety spiral - how about actually getting it treated? Therapy, medication, etc....?
Instead of telling random strangers, now you have acknowledged the issue, actually DO something to help fix it
 
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I don't buy for a second that she made the decision to stay in Australia and not follow Daniel to the US. She made it sound like it was her choice, but everybody knows Tully is a hopeless romantic who would have followed him in a heartbeat. She could have done her "career" from anywhere. He clearly didn't want her to go.
 
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Tell us again how heartbroken you are. 🙄
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she also mentioned she wants to go on I’m A Celebrity… could you imagine the tears??
 
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She is in a beautiful retreat that was given to her for free and she does seem miserable. Not enjoying it.

These influencers really need a reality check to make them appreciate all these things they take for granted.
 
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She is in a beautiful retreat that was given to her for free and she does seem miserable. Not enjoying it.

These influencers really need a reality check to make them appreciate all these things they take for granted.
I can’t believe I thought it was for some therapy /R&R, but nope #gifted. I truly feel for her and her break up, it sucks. Break ups are tit in the public eye or not
 
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I can’t believe I thought it was for some therapy /R&R, but nope #gifted. I truly feel for her and her break up, it sucks. Break ups are tit in the public eye or not
Yes break up sucks big time. But this isn’t the end of the world. She isn’t the first and won’t be the last, so just gotta get on with life.

She was in a long distance relationship
which makes a lot easier to move on. She saw the guy 2-3 times in one year.

The problem is that people when break up they focus on what was good on the relationship and they hold into the good memories which makes it hard to forget. Everyone forgets about the bad things and the ugly stuff.
 
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Oh gosh first world problems 🤦🏽‍♀️

She does whinge a lot isn’t it. The women has a “great” life and is constantly whinging.
She is the absolutely awful. She’s never gonna end up like those happy couples if she’s giving off ‘duck my life’ energy for merely seeing those couples at the airport, taking it personally and then ALSO ranting about it on social media.
 
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Does she miss Daniel or does she miss the idea of being in a relationship. It’s so important to differentiate, so you don’t end up with a tit partner because it’s better than being single. (Not saying Daniel is tit, but it’s obvious he wasn’t into it).
 
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