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Rosa34
Chatty Member
She was 18, this is a time where I so wish johannah was still around so that she could help phoebe and ask her “is this what you really want” etc cause Lottie tried but she’s got her own baby now and Louis tries but there’s nothing like a mothers love and care. I just worry about this I’m not too sure this is the right decision for phoebe
I hope that Lottie is being smart with Lewis. He’s thrown up some red flags in the past.
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I really hope Phoebe is ready for the reality of motherhood (especially at such a young age) and not the romanticized idealistic version.
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Also the amount of clothes she’s been getting for the baby…chances are the baby won’t get to wear all of them!Phoebe 'shopping' for her pram,as if she paid for it
I really hope Phoebe is ready for the reality of motherhood (especially at such a young age) and not the romanticized idealistic version.
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nanskumansku
Active member
I just think they all have some kind of abandonment issues and clings on to people very fast and hard very quicklyI wouldn’t be pleased if I was LottiePhoebe is a very strange girl imo
For me, it’s the rapid progression of the relationship within a year’s time (remember, she got pregnant when she was in the relationship for barely 6 months), combined with the (rather questionable) age gap, and the fact that they just simply don’t know each other well enough to have built a strong foundation in their relationship to withstand the pressures that a child will bring. People with strong relationships often flounder when a child is thrown into the mix. A child will completely change the relationship dynamic, and like marriage, it won’t fix anything; it will act as a magnifier and amplify all the problems in the relationship.
I get that the twins want to be young Moms. But there’s a big difference between being a young Mom and getting knocked up when you were barely over 18. I also get the vibe that the twins romanticize being a young Mom because of how old Jay was when she had Louis; just because Jay was successful at being a young single Mom doesn’t necessarily mean that the twins have the maturity to do the same.
Jay’s death was untimely, and I’ve always wondered why the girls didn’t live with Mark after her death? Especially when things started going south with Dan. The girls all grew up way too fast, and I’m not entirely sure that was a good thing.
MonteCarlo10
Member
It’s really unfair to comment on that when she’s just had a baby!!
Scar14
VIP Member
Louis is an older brother, not their parent. It’s unfair to expect him to stop his career to look after his siblings (which his mum didn’t want him to do anyway). I think he does the best for all of them and is clearly there for them when they need him, but the twins have their grandparents and dad to parent them
GingerSquid
VIP Member
This. I actually think it’s really sad what they are doing, considering the amazing platform and education Louis has given them. All they do is pose in underwear suggestively and they are barely adults. I just find all the outfits so cheap looking and really dated; I’m sure they are lovely girls, but you don’t see any personality, just overtly sexual posing. When Louis talks he seems to be really introspective and quite bright, and he hasn’t been to the private school! He seems genuinely passionate about music and songwriting and also his mentoring of artists as per the X Factor. Harry’s sister has used the platform afforded her far more gracefully.I can promise you, I know a lot about the influencer world
Louis would have at least given her a helping hand, which is totally fair that he’d want to help his family. It’s also well known also paid for the girls to go to private school - I can’t imagine he was best pleased with the influencer route they’ve gone down as it’s not a career known for longevity. And when you say Lottie has stepped up and guided them…they are relatively minor influencers, left school early and Phoebe is pregnant at 19…
randompenguin
Well-known member
I think she looks the best she ever has! I remember when she lost so much weight while on tour and after it, I assume stress due to Jays illness and maybe drugs if she took them, but think she really looks great! Shame about her man tho I don’t like
gossipgirlxxo
VIP Member
Also calling him ‘uncle Jack’ they’ve been together 5 minutes
sweetdeethegiantbird
Member
Someone’s already made an instagram for phoebes baby, please tell me I’m not the only one who finds this creepy
That video is so sweet and bless her Phoebe looks so overjoyed when what I assume is the baby is first handed to her
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On another note I’m a bit wary of lotties new fitness venture. She has a lot of young impressionable fans and I really don’t think the diet her trainer put her on ie NO carbs and restricted eating times is the best message
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On another note I’m a bit wary of lotties new fitness venture. She has a lot of young impressionable fans and I really don’t think the diet her trainer put her on ie NO carbs and restricted eating times is the best message
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