I used to really like her account when it was focused on my bloated wardrobe. Not because I have any issues with bloating but just because I have a very localised pocket of fat on my lower stomach thanks to my baby
so I loved seeing how she styled outfits and loved how they were mostly high street.
Then she started being gifted the odd outfit that was a bit more pricey and I thought fair enough, good for you getting some things for free.
Now I feel like she won’t share anything unless it’s a gifted item? Obviously it’s fine for her to spend her money exactly how she likes but she just doesn’t feel relatable anymore.
I do actually agree with her about the complimenting/catcalling. She hasn’t come across very well because I think she feels angry but isn’t sure on how to verbalise why. It’s not just a compliment, because the man wouldn’t have said it to a really good looking man. It was a sexual advance and yes he might have genuinely wanted directions too but that’s not the point. The point is that the second he made a comment on her appearance, she entered into a situation (unwillingly) where she either giggles and says thanks (seen as flirting, leading man on etc) or challenges it and says she didn’t appreciate the comment (cue toxic masculinity response where man likely would try make her feel inadequate “fucking hell love you should smile more/accept the compliment blah blah” in the best case scenario; worst case is he would start verbally abusing or sometimes even physically abusing her). When men make these comments they unwittingly place the woman in a situation where she can’t win, she’s either a flirt or a slag.