I'm not sure if I'm supposed to say Trigger Warning first but I want to now say why I took an immediate dislike to this guy. I see this moron speeding down a highway while calmly discussing his potentially lethal disease. A few seconds with eyes off the road ... well we know what can happen. On Easter morning my son's GF's brother was killed in a single vehicle accident. He was coming home and was still out of state when it happened. He was only 25 years old and had so many plans for his future. He already owned 2 acres of property where he was planning to live kind of "off the grid". For whatever reason he ran off a two lane road in the middle of nowhere and the family will probably never know why. Then I see Mr. Photo Guy running his mouth while driving, at one point he's on a highway speeding merrily along. Just so wrong.
I think the reason Chris claimed he had bought insurance on the exchange is that he assumed he could sign up for insurance under the ACA at any time, and was surprised later when he received notice of rejection of his application. The sign up process online is actually an application. During the annual open enrollment period no one can be rejected so I think people confuse what they are doing as enrolling, when technically they are applying.Thanks for the screenshots, Makes sense. Some writing on the screen obscured the word 'Scary' for me, and I'm too tech challenged to find it.
I had been thinking that his sudden silence online, especially when he'd been so vocal, had something to do with us. Maybe some would say his issues were trivial: driving while under care for seizures and brain mets! (if he was driving, and I still wonder) Saying clearly that he had "bought" an obamacare policy (though he was annoyed that he had to buy it in order to see a doctor) - but THEN, when asking for money, he claimed he had no insurance at all. So which one was the truth?? He never cleared that up. Anyway... I would never have commented if these glaring issues didn't exist.
I do think tattle performs an important service, scrutinizing people who are asking the public for money. They owe their donors the whole truth and they don't always provide that, and we're a kind of cyber security firm, of sorts. Or something like that. A form of oversight, when there's really nobody else around to do it!
I don’t think he is as susceptible to magical thinking as TiffanyThinks is, but I do get the impression that he is not very good at realistic assessment of life situations. His driving so soon after his seizure is just one of his behaviors that lead me to think this. He also has said that he had not been a “heavy“ smoker, as if that would make him unlikely to get lung cancer. The ultimate lack of adequate risk assessment was the fact that he was in his late 30’s and did not choose to buy medical insurance until he got cancer.Sadly I feel like he thinks he's going to be cured and live a long life. That is seldom the outcome with this type of cancer that has already spread to the brain and spine.
When my Dad had brain cancer, (glioblastoma) the oncologist painted a picture that my Dad could survive, that they could get rid of the tumor with radiation, and it wouldn’t grow back for 2 years. My Dad wound up bedbound. We were able to get him to his follow-up MRI. The oncologist said the tumor had shrunk drastically! But Dad was sitting in a wheelchair, could hardly speak, and in bad shape all around. That doctor never once said it was terminal. Dad passed away 5 months after that appointment.Yeah medical doctors are VERY conservative in situations like this because they fear getting sued if they tell someone they can do something,the patient does it, and there are bad consequences. I haven’t seen anything else that would indicate that he is a liar so I don’t know what to think about this.
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Does anyone know where Chris Sturm’s family members live? I don’t remember him saying anything in any of his videos. If they live in Wisconsin then it makes no sense for him to try to move to Los Angeles given the poor survival numbers.
I looked for survival information online for people with non small cell lung cancer with mets to the brain and it looks like he isn’t likely to live more than a year. I wonder if his oncologist has told him how poor survival is with brain mets. TiffanyThinks gave the impression that she didn’t know the survival statistics for her colorectal cancer and didn’t want to know.
But I wonder if most oncologists feel obligated to give patients some idea of the numbers so their patients can plan appropriately.
It’s the same way in my state of Maryland.Chris posted a photo on Reddit of Jason Lee taken at Lee's new camera shop, Eagle Rock Camera in Dec when he met him. (confession: I had to search Jason Lee because I couldn't remember who he was!) I assume the camera shop is the company that will provide his insurance but policies vary so much. Kyle had to change insurance companies so Jenny could get treated at COH and he worked for a large employer. Lee donated $1000 to GFM 16 days ago.
He again replied to a driving comment that he will defer to his medical team but someone did post " Christopher you need to talk to an attorney. it is my understanding that the Wisconsin law of 90 days of no driving after a seizure cannot be waived based on recommendations of a neurologist or oncologist without a written request being made to the Wisconsin DMV/DOT using the Medical Examination Report." Somehow I don't think he'll pay attention to that but he'll definitely never film in the car again.
We posted at the same time!He posted today on IG that he has started on a pill, Tagrisso (step 1 in a 2 pronged attack). It costs $20,000 a month but his first month is free due to a donation at the pharmacy. It sounds like he wasn't able to get ACA insurance as someone posted earlier because he was out of the sign up period because he is hoping to get insurance straightened out so he won't have to pay that amount every month.
Yeah the stereotype of Asian women is that they are very deferential to men. However, one of my friends is a Korean. Her parents moved to the US when she was 3. Initially they lived in neighborhoods with other Korean immigrants. But they pushed their 2 daughters to do well in school and go to Ivy League colleges. My friend did that, then went to a state law school and is now a partner in her law firm.Not that it really matters but I think she is maybe Asia/Southeastern Asian.
Not that it really matters but I think she is maybe Asia/Southeastern Asian.Damn! She moved with him 2.5 yrs ago and she is still his “girlfriend” - not his fiance. If she grew up in Oklahoma then she grew up with the evangelical Christian patriarchy belief system. Wonder if she has even heard of the decentering men and defying patriarchy movement that US women in their 20’s and 30’s are championing. She may be the sole provider of consistent income in that relationship.
Admittedly I don’t have a lot of information about the man, but I’m seeing so many red flags re Chris Sturm based on things he says online and what we know of his actions.
Hi ChrisAt about noon today, his time, Chris posted a link to this thread on his Instagram stories! With a screenshot of the first post on page 1, and this caption: "thread about me on tattle.life if anyone wants to read some wild assumptions and armchair experts."
Hi, Chris! We really do hope your treatment goes well!