The Chateau Diaries #9 Venetian crown while the chateau burns down

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That’s them. Tim and Margreeth... they are his people
Agreed! I couldn't remember their names. Utterly bonkers couple but gentle souls.

I'm genuinely shocked about the Jill Scott revelations though. This illegal activity went on for years and only ended recently, so the moral is don't generalise about old granny type superfans.
 
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That genuine pleasure didn’t extend to wrapping the children’s presents though - because their opinion doesn’t matter....they can’t do anything for her. And there is the “tell”.
but if she would be a sociopath, she would wrap them bc she would know that the entry to the parent's heart is through their child...
meaning if she didn't have there here ego involved, just the pure aim
 
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Can some of you french detektives track down episodes of "bienvenue chez nous" when SJ and Isabelle were participating? Maybe even the finale? Who knows who this nasty couple was who was talking behind their backs? Was it really such a scandal in France? Would love to see those but there are not to many out there but maybe on some french sites?

Thank God for that 😉😂
Could be a bit tight....
 
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no Brenda is hardworking and have been doing all sorts including selling designer sunglasses on fb. View attachment 388051
Customs may like to contact Brenda, isn’t selling knock of items fraud & we now have the evidence !!! I think she needs to retire her lalande shop & hideous Facebook fan page quick! This could be another request on live chat premier, can I still buy Raybans from you the last pair broke 😂 🤔 Hi Brenda 👋 & isn’t Jillian Rosemarie one of your mates 🤔
 
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Just my 2 cents on Narcissistic Personality Disorder... Dr. Ramani is excellent but to completely understand this particular personality disorder, I prefer Sam Vaknin. He is a diagnosed Narcissistic Psychopath but his insights are astute and very valuable. NPD develops in the early years of life and always as a result of neglect or abuse of some kind. We may never know what happened to Stephanie, I have a feeling maternal emotional neglect may have caused an emotional trauma, or there may have been other trauma, which could be the reason that Nic Larkin and Michael Potts are so protective of her. Nevertheless, people with NPD usually suck the life out of people around them and they are always parasitic by nature. Any vulnerability you will see will be a window to earlier trauma but it does not mean that SSB cannot damage those who take pity on her. She simply does not know how else to be. Who she is has evolved out of finding a way to exist in her world. It was a coping mechanism, and I imagine Isabelle is at the core of it all. Now, having the world as a stage, will bring her great success but also great scrutiny. Narcissists are very fragile, especially when their mask slips... sometimes leading to defragmentation. Fame is very dangerous for someone like SSB, what nourishes her, can also destroy her.
I have studied both Sam Vaknin & also H G Tudor...both equally astute in narcissistic behaviour. She ticks all the boxes.
 
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but if she would be a sociopath, she would wrap them bc she would know that the entry to the parent's heart is through their child...
meaning if she didn't have there here ego involved, just the pure aim
I’m not too bothered by the taxonomy of what (if any) sort of PD she has.....but I can spot a meanie when I see one...
 
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Oh dear oh dear, I have a horrible feeling that our dear SSB may be about to get mixed up with either a Very Unsuitable Person, or a Perfect Partner, depending on how you feel about her.

I need the help of my fellow tattle sleuths to either confirm or disprove my findings. This is what I have found, all in the public records on the internet.

1. From her FB page: Jillian Scott - lives in Upper Hutt, New Zealand.

2. From comments she has made on youtube: she is/was an accountant.

3. From linked.in for someone called Jillian Scott

Jillian Scott

Took a break for health's sake but I am now back in the game if you need an awesome SAP TRAINING SPECIALIST

Upper Hutt, Wellington Region, New Zealand500+ connections

SAP Training Consultant

Powerco


Oct 2018 - Jun 20199 months

New Plymouth, New Zealand

(Etc etc etc)

PolyTechnics

C AAccounting


I did the accounting society professional exams part time at a number of different institutions to gain Chartered Accountant status. I am no longer a member of the Chartered Accountants as I have moved into an Information Technology Focus in my employment.



4. From Inland Revenue court records:

https://media.ird.govt.nz/articles/aprilmay-ird-cases-in-the-courts/

Please scroll down to the entry for 5th April 2019.

?????????????

Do you think I have joined the dots correctly or have I been led astray. Can anyone help me as I do not want to cause problems for anyone (even if Jill Scott annoys the heck out of me!), but if I am right then I think Stephanie should know.
This is genius. I really think we need to set up an international detective agency led by some of you expert sleuths.
 
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but if she would be a sociopath, she would wrap them bc she would know that the entry to the parent's heart is through their child...
meaning if she didn't have there here ego involved, just the pure aim
No, No, No. She knows what she is doing. Give an overly wrapped present to a child and they would expect it EVERY Christmas from then on. Imagine if the kids started calling her 'Auntie Steffi' 😂
 
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I had to google the effects of cocaine (sheltered life 😂 ) and looking at some of the short term / immediate effects like euphoria, talkative, animated,, etc) and longer term use leading to weight loss, depression, irritability , difficulty with sustaining focus, etc made me think of another visitor. Putting 2 and 2 together .......
Yes it is why I asked. Also i found UK people of this generation had a completely different attitude to.drugs. No doubt re party boy.
 
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Just my 2 cents on Narcissistic Personality Disorder... Dr. Ramani is excellent but to completely understand this particular personality disorder, I prefer Sam Vaknin. He is a diagnosed Narcissistic Psychopath but his insights are astute and very valuable. NPD develops in the early years of life and always as a result of neglect or abuse of some kind. We may never know what happened to Stephanie, I have a feeling maternal emotional neglect may have caused an emotional trauma, or there may have been other trauma, which could be the reason that Nic Larkin and Michael Potts are so protective of her. Nevertheless, people with NPD usually suck the life out of people around them and they are always parasitic by nature. Any vulnerability you will see will be a window to earlier trauma but it does not mean that SSB cannot damage those who take pity on her. She simply does not know how else to be. Who she is has evolved out of finding a way to exist in her world. It was a coping mechanism, and I imagine Isabelle is at the core of it all. Now, having the world as a stage, will bring her great success but also great scrutiny. Narcissists are very fragile, especially when their mask slips... sometimes leading to defragmentation. Fame is very dangerous for someone like SSB, what nourishes her, can also destroy her.
I couldnt describe it better, the window, the parasitic nature, ...
also agree that he is a good source but I didnt want to mix him in, because some people have a basic problem to even comprehend how come someone can be like that and Dr. R she explains and gives examples of how would a balanced person react/act therefore I thought that it is better to start with her, one would find him eventually anyway
maybe I am not so sure about the protective nature of those 2, maybe only Nic, but also maybe only bc I think he is still in love with her and he is too good to understand that for her he is there because she knows that he will always be useful, bailing her out (possibly with family money) attending to her whims without questioning. Nic to me so far seems to be like that one friend every girl had who you consider a friend or a family but they secretly love you and follow you everywhere (since there is a little access to him it is a bit tricky to establish)
potty on other hand seems too much into himself and like steffi he thinks that he is special so he is protecting his mirror (one could go on and on but they have enough of my attention for today)
 
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Oh dear oh dear, I have a horrible feeling that our dear SSB may be about to get mixed up with either a Very Unsuitable Person, or a Perfect Partner, depending on how you feel about her.

I need the help of my fellow tattle sleuths to either confirm or disprove my findings. This is what I have found, all in the public records on the internet.

1. From her FB page: Jillian Scott - lives in Upper Hutt, New Zealand.

2. From comments she has made on youtube: she is/was an accountant.

3. From linked.in for someone called Jillian Scott

Jillian Scott

Took a break for health's sake but I am now back in the game if you need an awesome SAP TRAINING SPECIALIST

Upper Hutt, Wellington Region, New Zealand500+ connections

SAP Training Consultant

Powerco


Oct 2018 - Jun 20199 months

New Plymouth, New Zealand

(Etc etc etc)

PolyTechnics

C AAccounting


I did the accounting society professional exams part time at a number of different institutions to gain Chartered Accountant status. I am no longer a member of the Chartered Accountants as I have moved into an Information Technology Focus in my employment.



4. From Inland Revenue court records:

https://media.ird.govt.nz/articles/aprilmay-ird-cases-in-the-courts/

Please scroll down to the entry for 5th April 2019.

?????????????

Do you think I have joined the dots correctly or have I been led astray. Can anyone help me as I do not want to cause problems for anyone (even if Jill Scott annoys the heck out of me!), but if I am right then I think Stephanie should know.
More sleuthing required...
 
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Agreed! I couldn't remember their names. Utterly bonkers couple but gentle souls.

I'm genuinely shocked about the Jill Scott revelations though. This illegal activity went on for years and only ended recently, so the moral is don't generalise about old granny type superfans.
Seems as though the person I once thought was an annoying, yet harmless super fan, turns out to be a master criminal. Who would’ve guessed... Is it bad that this makes me find her a bit more interesting now 😂
 
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Oh dear oh dear, I have a horrible feeling that our dear SSB may be about to get mixed up with either a Very Unsuitable Person, or a Perfect Partner, depending on how you feel about her.

I need the help of my fellow tattle sleuths to either confirm or disprove my findings. This is what I have found, all in the public records on the internet.

1. From her FB page: Jillian Scott - lives in Upper Hutt, New Zealand.

2. From comments she has made on youtube: she is/was an accountant.

3. From linked.in for someone called Jillian Scott

Jillian Scott

Took a break for health's sake but I am now back in the game if you need an awesome SAP TRAINING SPECIALIST

Upper Hutt, Wellington Region, New Zealand500+ connections

SAP Training Consultant

Powerco


Oct 2018 - Jun 20199 months

New Plymouth, New Zealand

(Etc etc etc)

PolyTechnics

C AAccounting


I did the accounting society professional exams part time at a number of different institutions to gain Chartered Accountant status. I am no longer a member of the Chartered Accountants as I have moved into an Information Technology Focus in my employment.



4. From Inland Revenue court records:

https://media.ird.govt.nz/articles/aprilmay-ird-cases-in-the-courts/

Please scroll down to the entry for 5th April 2019.

?????????????

Do you think I have joined the dots correctly or have I been led astray. Can anyone help me as I do not want to cause problems for anyone (even if Jill Scott annoys the heck out of me!), but if I am right then I think Stephanie should know.
Whaaaaat? I just turned away to make dinner and clean up kitchen, coming back to find Oscar-Jill is a fraud? Really, I loose all hope... What is it in this world? Maybe she changed in prison? 🤔
 
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I wonder if the phoneline between Trotter Towers and Chateau Disneyland is engaged - or if this is really no surprise to them?
 
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Christmas is so important for children....which Dan obviously has.
Fannying about wrapping stuff for adults in bespoke paper, with fancy bits and pieces on.....and the kids just get theirs chucked in a bag. Fumin.
She gave him a pile of insulting tat. All freebies. Doubt he got an envelope with cash in it. She’s super cheap.
 
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Super fan turns out to be Super Villain! Tattlers Save Chatelaine from Embarrassing Financial Fraud!
They are in this together! I already wondered what this Oscar was for! Totally out of the sudden. Not it all makes sense...
 
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