I've watched it since 16 and pregnant and for most of them I'm actually proud of how far they've come. I don't think they're a mess, I actually like the show because it shows the ugly of parenting. I grew up with a mum with Schizophrenia and an alcoholic dad so I understand the stress it puts on families and it's nice to see (most of them) grow.
Cait & Tyler - I think its really unfair to call her 'a mess' or 'lazy' She's been diagnosed with Anxiety and Depression which was so clear to see when Nova was born. With her childhood trauma & the adoption I think it was almost inevitable. Although it took her a couple of tries at treatment, she is doing so well now with the Vaeda. I think them having a break was needed for both and you can see it's made them stronger. Tyler has also had such a hard life but I think he is mentally stronger which I think is remarkable.
Maci & Ryan - Ryan's parents enable him so much. His addiction is real and he needs help but sometimes to help someone you need to give them tough love, especially after how many chances hes been given. I feel sorry for Mac, her wedding on the showing was so depressing to watch (as was the car scene). Maci is brilliant and I can totally understand how frustrated she gets with Ryan. The fact ryan and his parents haven't sat down and explained or talked to Bently or apologised is messed up. He is well aware of what's going on and brushing it under the carpet isn't healthy.
Cheyenne & Cory - I think they have a lovely relationship but defo think cory is a bit more immature than Cheyenne. They co-parent beautifully and its lovely to see.
Amber & Andrew - Amber really needs help. She needs to be single and to work on her BPD and anger issues. Not excusing her behaviour at all, the way she has treated partners in the past and present is appalling. Watching her makes me sad because I don't think she realises how she comes across, constantly cutting people off, no empathy etc. I hope she stops filming and gets real help.
Gary & Christina - Love them, love Christina. Recently watched an episode about Leah's anxiety and felt like Gary didn't deal with that well - there's a way to see what's going on without making it a big deal. For once I agreed with Amber in that situation, I feel like Gary was projecting his fears onto Leah (not wanting to label her, not wanting her to be 'crazy).
