TarMar (Irish blogger living in NYC)

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What is she actually talking about? Can’t do what she “does”? All she does is drink iced coffee and dance about her soulless loft. She needs to get a grip on reality.

eta I don’t mean to dismiss her thoughts on lack of diversity which isn’t my place to comment on. My point is, she’s hardly changing the world from her loft in New York.
 

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Okay I know that this thread has moved on from this topic but I have some tea... I saw her ex on bumble a while back and matched with him out of curiosity and he fully tried to neg me right off the bat?
I had always felt bad for him in the breakup situation but idk I really don't any more.
 
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Okay I know that this thread has moved on from this topic but I have some tea... I saw her ex on bumble a while back and matched with him out of curiosity and he fully tried to neg me right off the bat?
I had always felt bad for him in the breakup situation but idk I really don't any more.
What do u mean? What was he saying?
 
I can’t with Tara and other influencers wearing the acne scarf with the tag/logo facing out so everyone knows. Like if you had true confidence in your style/loved an item and not just for a trend, you would not wear it like that! She’s tragic 😂
 
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I can’t with Tara and other influencers wearing the acne scarf with the tag/logo facing out so everyone knows. Like if you had true confidence in your style/loved an item and not just for a trend, you would not wear it like that! She’s tragic 😂
Yep! They’re so expensive as well it’s ridic. Also very over the ‘as a creative’ in every response to her Q&A.. fuck off.
 
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Yep! They’re so expensive as well it’s ridic. Also very over the ‘as a creative’ in every response to her Q&A.. fuck off.
And not a creative bone in her body. Like what exactly has she created in the last 3 years?
 
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Okay I know that this thread has moved on from this topic but I have some tea... I saw her ex on bumble a while back and matched with him out of curiosity and he fully tried to neg me right off the bat?
I had always felt bad for him in the breakup situation but idk I really don't any more.
Wow I didn't picture him as the type to do that, do you mind sharing what he said?
 
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Brb going to film myself getting coffee on route to work. I'll also film what outfit I'm wearing and the croissant I choose from the bakery. It's just so taxing being a creative. Do I take a pic for the gram in my dickies or levis? Decisions, decisions.
 
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All I’m saying is that she makes a living from being a content creator/influencer 🤷‍♀️ but yeah, if her creativity cuts off when she leaves NY maybe she is the problem BUT honestly in my experience being in Ireland can be limiting for creativity as the culture doesn’t always like to see people acting outside the norm. I get people’s criticism of her, I’m just saying I understand not feeling creative in Ireland, especially if I was living in my parents house.
 
In fairness she is a full time content creator which is a legit job. I feel like comments like this are a bit unnecessarily snarky.
I have absolutely nothing against content creators, if they actually bring something to the table. But vlogging the same routine week in week out is not creativity. So what exactly does she bring to the table?
 
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I get that being a 'content creator' is her job but she just isn't a creative person. She blatantly ripped off Sundays Are for Lovers in both name and content, and tried to pass it off as her idea, I honestly can't believe she hasn't received more flack for that.
 
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All I’m saying is that she makes a living from being a content creator/influencer 🤷‍♀️ but yeah, if her creativity cuts off when she leaves NY maybe she is the problem BUT honestly in my experience being in Ireland can be limiting for creativity as the culture doesn’t always like to see people acting outside the norm. I get people’s criticism of her, I’m just saying I understand not feeling creative in Ireland, especially if I was living in my parents house.
But all she does in New York is drink coffee and post pictures of her white loft. Why would she be unable to do that in Ireland? what does she do that is “outside the norm”?
 
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Wow I didn't picture him as the type to do that, do you mind sharing what he said?
So I opened with a compliment and then he said that he didn't like my name (??? I don't even have an unusual name or anything)

And then he sent another message that was along the lines of "oh you seem so pleased that im interested in you" when all I had done was send one message.... Like this is how dating apps work

Honestly it's not that bad and doesn't reach the level of tinder nightmares or anything but I suppose I just had the impression that he seemed really nice so I was quite surprised that his openers were quite...rude?

So then I unmatched lol. It was a very limited interaction and I might just be reading into it too much but I was just left thinking that maybe isn't such a nice guy.
 
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So I opened with a compliment and then he said that he didn't like my name (??? I don't even have an unusual name or anything)

And then he sent another message that was along the lines of "oh you seem so pleased that im interested in you" when all I had done was send one message.... Like this is how dating apps work

Honestly it's not that bad and doesn't reach the level of tinder nightmares or anything but I suppose I just had the impression that he seemed really nice so I was quite surprised that his openers were quite...rude?

So then I unmatched lol. It was a very limited interaction and I might just be reading into it too much but I was just left thinking that maybe isn't such a nice guy.
Oh that us very strange, maybe ur on to something!
 
So I opened with a compliment and then he said that he didn't like my name (??? I don't even have an unusual name or anything)

And then he sent another message that was along the lines of "oh you seem so pleased that im interested in you" when all I had done was send one message.... Like this is how dating apps work

Honestly it's not that bad and doesn't reach the level of tinder nightmares or anything but I suppose I just had the impression that he seemed really nice so I was quite surprised that his openers were quite...rude?

So then I unmatched lol. It was a very limited interaction and I might just be reading into it too much but I was just left thinking that maybe isn't such a nice guy.
Oh ewww, I can’t stand guys like this. I was about to say this feels like the tactics of an undersocialised teenage boy, which makes sense weren’t he and Tara together for like 10+ years? He clearly doesn’t know how to strike up a normal conversation with a woman in a romantic context 😭
 
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I would beg to differ! I found him to be one of the most genuine guys I’ve come across, a proper gentleman and sooo funny… I definitely wouldn’t say he’s under socialized LOL
Sounds like he might have been trying to have a bit of craic, or maybe your name is Tara…?? hahahaha

Anyways it seems quite harsh to be bashing his character over one random message on a dating app? Especially when we’ve all probably had way more disgusting/rude things said to us on them them apps…..
 
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I would beg to differ! I found him to be one of the most genuine guys I’ve come across, a proper gentleman and sooo funny… I definitely wouldn’t say he’s under socialized LOL
Sounds like he might have been trying to have a bit of craic, or maybe your name is Tara…?? hahahaha

Anyways it seems quite harsh to be bashing his character over one random message on a dating app? Especially when we’ve all probably had way more disgusting/rude things said to us on them them apps…..
….maybe your name is cathal? 😂
 
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I would beg to differ! I found him to be one of the most genuine guys I’ve come across, a proper gentleman and sooo funny… I definitely wouldn’t say he’s under socialized LOL
Sounds like he might have been trying to have a bit of craic, or maybe your name is Tara…?? hahahaha

Anyways it seems quite harsh to be bashing his character over one random message on a dating app? Especially when we’ve all probably had way more disgusting/rude things said to us on them them apps…..
All your posts are about Cathal… That you Cathal? 😂
 
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