You've put what I think about the whole Caroline Flack thing much more eloquently than I could. It's grief hijacking for attention for herself. It's quite frankly bleeping bizarre and she needs help.I remember after she passed away there were a lot of posts and perhaps a video (don't quote me on the latter) in the Facebook group about her. Her reactions were all very extreme and, funnily enough, not really about Caroline but more about herself.
That whole issue is strange to me though and extremely unhealthy. She's using the death of a woman, a women she did not know, to push this be kind tit. It's twisted.
Re: the stylist thing. I haven't a problem with people paying stylists. I have huge boobs/bum and if I don't cinch myself in at the waist I look 9 months pregnant. I know this myself though. However some people can't see what parts of themselves they should emphasise etc. Or maybe need some support to leave their comfort zone.
What I couldn't stand about SBS was that you couldn't query their analysis or wear something that went against what they told you to. duck that. I'm a 'spring' but I have loads of black clothes and I'm not going to stop wearing them. It's good to have an idea of what might flatter you but to have such strict rules is a weird dictatorship. Not to mention some women threw away any clothes that went against SBS' advice! What.