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Basicbasic

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As a woman of colour instashams like her and Candice Braithwaite enrage me. They claim to be out there to represent, to challenge the lack of diversity, to discuss issues relevant to minorities etc etc. But really, all they want to do is make money and play the race card whenever they are challenged. They are toxic to our representation and issues affecting women of colour. There are some great women of colour on Insta who discuss real issues but never get the attention or followers these con artists do. These women do us a massive disservice.
 
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Spilttea

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It’s her MO now though, sex talk, talking sex, sex toys, love your self, masturbate, strong women have sex, strong women own super expensive sex tots, here’s my arse, yay body positivity, eff your beauty standards, who you calling fat? Who you calling thin?, don’t call me beautiful, but look I’m so beautiful, sexy for me, not for you, here look at the £800 bra I’ve been gifted, let’s all shop at Aldi and see how far I can stretch that £20, cos I’m real, single mums sucking it to the man. Rinse and repeat.
 
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judsmum

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‘It’s my job’. I am so tired with this excuse for employment. No it’s not a job. Stop making something that is simply an hobby into something it isn’t. It makes you look stupid to people who actually do have an actual job. You know, a job that benefits other people. ‘Influencers’ benefit no one. Plus, if I fucked up my job like she fucked up last week, I’d be sacked.
 
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Jojo12345

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This one today wins the award for the most inappropriate hashtag of 2020. Her ALDI campaign has been advertised in the most offensive fashion.
 
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GossipMongoose

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👆This. So many people living in challenging situations around the UK and the world who simply didn't manifest a better life enough! 😡
I hear you. I really, really hate this ‘manifesting’ trend. It’s an absolute, bold faced insult peddled by privileged, wealthy, educated middle class women with plenty of opportunities to make things happen.
 
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Spilttea

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It’s just so cringe. Someone who clearly isn’t having to live off £25 a week slumming it and showing plebs how it’s done.
She has never been less relatable. She wastes the platform afforded to her unless it benefits her in some way. All the bopo stuff when really it’s just an excuse to get her perfectly acceptable body out and get more collabs.

Her body, her looks, her lifestyle are all the socially accepted norms in society, she isn’t being “brave” or breaking down barriers for women of colour she is just getting her tits and arse out like every other insta mum/influencer and making hay whilst the sun shines.
 
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judsmum

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This thread smacks of racism and double standards, people saying they’d rather follow MOD than SMS despite MODs abhorrent and very intentional actions. I’ll admit SMS has been tone deaf a number of times but other than that, so what if she wants to parade her body around the internet? I wouldn’t personally but, her call and it’s not hurting anyone. She’s not a celebrity, she’s not received PR training and been taught how to handle life in the (semi)public eye.

you’ve got some really awful people out there who are scamming people in the name of feminism and being a girl boss (Sarah akwisombe, jen stanbrook to name just two). Masses and masses of coaches coaching coaches coaching coaches and preying on desperate and often vulnerable people and influencers employing downright bullying tactics. The vitriol this woman’s getting in comparison makes me think you should really question whether you’re opposed to a woman expressing herself in a way you’re not comfortable with or a woman of colour doing so.

no, I’m not SMS, I’m not even particularly a fan of hers but this woman is potentially going through a separation which is shit no matter how financially comfortable one is and I’m very uneasy with the comments being made about her (the likes of which I’ve not really seen on a white influencer’s thread but I don’t often follow many of these threads).
Oh the racism line. How very fucking original!! You have no idea whether I am black, white asian or a squirrel. You really need to accept people can discuss a black online presence without any criticism being related to her skin pigment. It’s getting really old and detracts from real racism.
 
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Jojo12345

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Her responses. Asking people to DM her. Why not just come out with a fresh post. Reneg on your fee. Ask Aldi to donate it to food banks instead. Probably too busy posing in front of a camera in a lacy thong.

All these influencer types are just awful. But for some reason this one, even above the ones who punt out their children has made me so mad! It’s just the sheer stupidity, the sheer arrogance. The idiotic responses. If you really are stupid enough to not to see just how crass it was then admit it. Don’t take the fee and APOLOGISE
 
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Bab

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Completely found my tribe on here! Stylemesunday is the biggest dick on Instagram. She really does think so much of herself, her non-apologetic need for 'boundaries' just make her come across as a complete arsehole. She's not empowered/empowering she's just a massively entitled SJW who jumps on every bandwagon going. No respect for her whatsoever. I used to think she cared about other women but I really don't think she gives a shit. And she's proud of that. Urghhh.
 
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Instawanker

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Even more insulting is she is posting about style posts and her hashtag and carrying on as though nothing has happened.
 
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Jojo12345

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Awful! I mean how stupid do you have to be to not see straightaway how bad that hashtag is??!
but then I guess if your “job” is to basically spend the day flicking your middle up whilst posting soft porn style pictures of yourself and masquerading them as body positivity you have no self awareness nor general intelligence.
 
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Saffy123

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She lives in Wanstead in a house worth over a million and her husband is a trader at Goldman Sachs (seriously, I live locally and have met her). She’s never had to work. Arrogant and unlikable in real life.
 
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Basicbasic

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She's an absolute tool. She's been deleting comments on her appalling aldi ad. Talk about tone deaf. There is literally nothing these instashams will not do for money. I'm glad her followers have come at her. Even if she does seem completely unfazed.
 
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Spilttea

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The dance videos are so fucking self indulgent and embarrassing. Let me show more of my body and sexy moves whilst wittering on about empowerment. Her dance instructor is just as annoying so it’s no wonder they get on.
The Aldi thing was a farce. She loves the London influencer life, pretty sure she doesn’t do the midwife gig anymore. Her life is just a series of jaunts to the cowshed retreat, brand events and rubbing shoulders with equally self obsessed, virtue signalling bunch of attention seekers.
 
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OhhBacon

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Who actually buys this shit I mean seriously? If I could manifest myself winning the lottery I'd do it tomorrow. It's absolute bollocks. Used to love Cherry as well back in the bbc3 days!
👆This. So many people living in challenging situations around the UK and the world who simply didn't manifest a better life enough! 😡
 
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Taco Cat

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At first I thought she was great but now I think she is so up herself. It's very easy to be body positive when you have a good body. She has even slimmed down since she start posting about body positivity. I'm all for living yourself but she loves herself so much I find it off putting.

Thoughts?
 
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judsmum

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I’m surprised there isn’t more said about her on here too, going over on my old posts it’s clear I cannot abide the woman. She’s the epitome of the word ‘fake’. Put it this way, I’d rather spend a lifetime with Mod than an hour with SMS.
 
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It’s proper modern day cultism, praying on people’s insecurities. But it’s ok because for £50 you get TWO EMAILS A WEEK!
 
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Dizzy

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Oh she’s SUCH a virtue-signalling navel-gazing attention-seeking prick 🙄 I just read a post words to the effect that she hasn’t felt much like posting pictures of herself because her self esteem is so low. What the actual fucking fuck?! Her whole page is just pictures of her in various states of undress and close ups of her tits and arse!
 
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