I can tell you for FACT she still smokes to this day. I don’t have a photo of her smoking I don’t really know what you want as proof but she has never quit in her life and can’t see after 3 pregnancies smoking why this one would be any different. People on this thread have even commented having a smoke with her or lending or a lighter. As others have said her “stalking the neighbours roses” is her going for a smoke first thing in the morning. Addiction or not when you’re putting a child’s life at risk it’s unforgivable. It may also be a factor in her miscarriages and Rex was born early probably as a result of her smoking.
Stacey Solomon #30 Secret’s out, huns are happy. Lets hope they change this pickle’s nappy!
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Do you live near her?
I fully empathise. With the baby, having such a hostile environment to grow in.
Here we go.... #SmokingGate
Well that’s me told, better stand outside her local corner shop waiting to pap her buying cigs so I can prove an anonymous woman on the internet wrong
A little unsure why this woman is so hellbent on defending a woman for smoking while pregnant.
I’m sorry to jump on the smoking gate but honestly, there is no excuse to smoke during pregnancy. I smoked up until I found out I was pregnant, I stopped that day.
this still doesn't answer how you know for a fact though...
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My point is you do not actually know that she is smoking. You’re tearing her apart when you have no idea whether or not she has had one cigarette during this pregnancy.Well that’s me told, better stand outside her local corner shop waiting to pap her buying cigs so I can prove an anonymous woman on the internet wrong
A little unsure why this woman is so hellbent on defending a woman for smoking while pregnant.
Yeah for about 18 months! Knowing she wanted another it was bound to be right at some stage!Sorry I’m very late to the party but before she announced pregnancy.... everyone here called it anyway didn’t they?
I am a family of all girls. All the woman in my family have had girls, we have had no blood relative males in our family for years, 100 plus. My grandma suffered a later miscarriage, he was in fact a boy. I personally believe there may be some truth to this, maybe something to do with the hormones.
I have seen her smoking over the past year, I can’t say if she was pregnant at the time but it’s well known she’s a smoker and I saw her smoking while pregnant with Rex so can’t see why she would change that habit during this pregnancy.
My mother was a chain smoker who stopped as soon as she knew she was pregnant on her first child. 45 years later she still gets the urge to buy a pack but hasn’t caved.
"I can't see why she would change that habit" so it's a matter of your own opinion, not fact then
You said you knew for a fact.
Nurseries, even before covid had to have food health and safety certificates and also provide an assigned person to do the cooking or hire in caterers. So, most nurseries just request a packed lunch to be sent in to save all the effort.
I am pleased she has finally sent Rex to nursery though, if ever there was a child who needed some rules and to be taught boundaries is it Rex.
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this is so true, content is content and comes before little humans who are also for content!
Nah. I disagree. I've gone through things that would kill the average person. I've never got addicted to anything, because I simply didn't put the cigarette in my mouth, drink the drink or take the drugs. It's a choice. There is absolutely NO excuse for putting a child's life at risk and addiction is a massive drain on NHS services.
Drug addicts get so much help and support. Genuinely disabled people get naff all, because all the support is going to addicts, who made the decision to put stuff in their bodies. It's wrong.
I have empathy for anyone with an addiction or mental illness during pregnancy. I got pregnant (unexpectedly, I was told that I was infertile years before) after 18 years with an ED, I battled to eat 3 healthy meals per day and fuel my body when I felt hungry for my unborn child. I was doing it for the baby and not for me, I maintained this while breastfeeding and then after I stopped, to be honest, I went back on my BS but it wasn’t directly affecting my child.
disclaimer: No, I don’t want a medal nor do I think that I am better than any mother struggling with addiction or mental health issues in pregnancy, I shared to show the place in which my empathy comes from.
However, I do feel that the narrative with “having a couple of cigarettes whilst pregnant is less stressful than quitting” is dangerous because it lessens the severity of potential harm to the baby in some people’s minds. e.g. It cannot be that bad if the doctor says that I can smoke 5 a day.
I know of someone who took this narrative and ran with it. All loving friends, including myself at the time, tried to tell her that she needed to stop but she was adamant that quitting would be more stressful to the baby, that she had smoked in her previous pregnancies and the children were fine. The baby was stillborn. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and I’m especially not wishing this on Stacey. She may not even be smoking, we haven’t physically seen her.
I just cannot comprehend why anyone would risk it. Yes quitting something that you may use to placate yourself is stressful but the benefits outweigh the risks.
disclaimer: No, I don’t want a medal nor do I think that I am better than any mother struggling with addiction or mental health issues in pregnancy, I shared to show the place in which my empathy comes from.
However, I do feel that the narrative with “having a couple of cigarettes whilst pregnant is less stressful than quitting” is dangerous because it lessens the severity of potential harm to the baby in some people’s minds. e.g. It cannot be that bad if the doctor says that I can smoke 5 a day.
I know of someone who took this narrative and ran with it. All loving friends, including myself at the time, tried to tell her that she needed to stop but she was adamant that quitting would be more stressful to the baby, that she had smoked in her previous pregnancies and the children were fine. The baby was stillborn. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and I’m especially not wishing this on Stacey. She may not even be smoking, we haven’t physically seen her.
I just cannot comprehend why anyone would risk it. Yes quitting something that you may use to placate yourself is stressful but the benefits outweigh the risks.
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