Exactly and tbh if she hadn’t opened up with that particular wording I don’t think I would have felt so shit about it because there was a part of me that read that and thought “fuck, if 12-18 months is a really long time trying then I have zero hope left after 10 years”.Why is that person getting all upset that some comments on here were having issues with ‘trying for a really long time’. In no way was anyone disregarding her losses. But it is incredibly disrespectful for those who are trying for an actual long time. Perhaps for her she previously fell quickly so a year or whatever seemed like a long time. But she has a two year old. That’s not to say she doesn’t deserve to have more, by she has a two year old it’s meant that it’s physically impossible for her to be ‘trying for a really long time’ There’s women out there been trying for 2,3,4+ years longer.