Husband and I both work, aren't massive spenders meaning we don't buy 'luxuries' yet we still had to spread out decorating our house over a year and a half. That was just paint, a bed and a few bits of furniture. She's decorated 3 rooms in the space of a handful of months. How she can afford it is beyond me and to be honest it pisses me off that her little one is paraded on her social media when he can't have a say because he doesn't understand it fully. If I was a kid I'd HATE my parent plastering my face on social media and telling everyone the inner workings of my body constantly. There's raising awareness for the disabilities he has and then there's what she does. Quite frankly it's disgusting and I really feel for the little fella.
Also, if she does receive DLA for him, that isn't supposed to be used on anything but him and putting food in his belly and getting all the support for him that she can, including respite and equipment that he needs. There are plenty of other families out there in the UK that struggle without DLA and still make it work.