Ok so here goes , myself and my husband have been together for 8 years , married 4 , have 4 children all together, but have no children together . Recently he shows me absolutely no affection, and I mean none , I couldn’t tell you the last time he kissed me? , never mind hugged me . I have questioned him about this , he just says he’s tired from work . He does have a hard job and I am furloughed , even so he comes home to a clean house every night and tea ready on the table for him ( which is the same as when I was working as I worked shorter shifts ) . When is it acceptable to say , enough is enough? I’m late 20’s and he’s slightly older , I’m really beginning to think he has no feelings what so ever for me