I think she obsesses so much as shes an emotional shopper so probably concerned she splash it all immediately and get herself in debt again. I sympathise with her on that but she could be more self aware that many many people have lost their jobs, income streams etc over the last 2 years. She’s got a position she loves, sensible hours, money in the bank, a partner working, other income streams including getting her partner to make furniture etc etc etc. Hopefully she can see she’s actually in a very privileged position and that her £700 spare money is more than some people earn in a month.