She has a lot of unpacking to do as she will feed this self hate towards her daughter who is white passing
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Sami is a therapists dream,
she clearly doesn’t know herself
she clearly doesn’t like herself,
she has made herself a victim in every aspect of her life including her relationships with herself and with men,
and we’ve seen her daughter screaming at her enough times to see where thats going.
she could be so much more than she is but she held herself back from day one.
I don’t know why she’s still online at this point.
She won’t look back at her social media platform and be proud of what she’s done there. Not even close.
Can’t even feel sorry for her she’s a victim of herself.
she clearly doesn’t know herself
she clearly doesn’t like herself,
she has made herself a victim in every aspect of her life including her relationships with herself and with men,
and we’ve seen her daughter screaming at her enough times to see where thats going.
she could be so much more than she is but she held herself back from day one.
I don’t know why she’s still online at this point.
She won’t look back at her social media platform and be proud of what she’s done there. Not even close.
Can’t even feel sorry for her she’s a victim of herself.
Her and Imogen should never meet. Imagine.
honestly thought we were seeing a woman who was about to find herself at
god damn last, but no,lasted five minutes and she went running behind a curtain apologising again.
even her viewers tell others in the comments not to mention her hair, it’s so sad she’s made people feel like it’s a taboo subject.
Jesus, even Sami doesn’t deserve Imogen.
imogen would do a story time saying Sami tried to shag her husband and dad at the same time and Sami would sit there saying sorry over and over,
apologising for something she didn’t even do.
In her Amazon video she did mention her Caribbean family, and the happiest memories being the food. It seemed genuine, but also seems like it was a very long time ago. I wonder if they lost touch, as she doesnt really have extended family, like cousins, around. Mind, even her immediate family is now distanced.
An interesting point was made with regards to Sam and her black side, and it was more to do with possibly compensating for her dad not being around by erasing it, rather than it being her feeling ashamed by it. She also grew up with her white mum, sister and step dad. If she lacked that link, she may not really know how to explore it, or where to start. I have some issues connected with being mixed race, White and Indian. I don't really know my Indian side as my mum isn't traditional and we moved away from South Africa to England when I was young, so no Indian family around us. I also don't feel all that connected to my white side because my dad was a tit and a colonialist when drunk...and he drank a lot growing up. Also with the whole apartheid thing, I have no white family apart from dad, and my Indian side always make jokes about how I'm white. This is my experience of mixed race, and I'm not saying it hard for everyone, but it can cause a whole host of issues that have nothing to do with being ashamed.
An interesting point was made with regards to Sam and her black side, and it was more to do with possibly compensating for her dad not being around by erasing it, rather than it being her feeling ashamed by it. She also grew up with her white mum, sister and step dad. If she lacked that link, she may not really know how to explore it, or where to start. I have some issues connected with being mixed race, White and Indian. I don't really know my Indian side as my mum isn't traditional and we moved away from South Africa to England when I was young, so no Indian family around us. I also don't feel all that connected to my white side because my dad was a tit and a colonialist when drunk...and he drank a lot growing up. Also with the whole apartheid thing, I have no white family apart from dad, and my Indian side always make jokes about how I'm white. This is my experience of mixed race, and I'm not saying it hard for everyone, but it can cause a whole host of issues that have nothing to do with being ashamed.
Interesting point raised. I do feel for Indie sack she should dive deeper into why she distances herself from her black side.
There are some amazing black therapists out there who specialise in this.
Didnt she make a comment about how disappointed Jason was when he realised she wore weave ?
She finally posted something today
Lol to trend hop same as her current style the same minimal Parisian bullshit everyone else is wearing
Lol to trend hop same as her current style the same minimal Parisian bullshit everyone else is wearing
I’m sure there’s been mention in the vlog before of Jason ‘teasing’ her about her natural hair
Is she a single mum
She may as well be one...
And NOW Samantha is “black”
Sure Jan
Sure Jan
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She was banging on and whinging really recently about everyone being too PC, but a big part of being politically correct is race-related. Which is it, bimbo??!
I've watched Sam for years and have always liked her. It's just her relationship with Jason I just don't get. There doesn't seem to be any love or affection between them. They're just a staid, boring couple and he seems like he had a nasty side to him.
Lucy Moon included Sammi in her shout out to black influencers on her Insta, but Sammi hasn't responded or anything to it when it looks like most of the other women have. 
Does she not like being labelled a black influencer?
Does she not like being labelled a black influencer?Why did Sammi and Grace Victory fall out previously?
Sammi alluded to her being too intense if I recall correctly, and she seemingly edged her out and then ghosted her. To be fair Grace doesn't retain many friendships (considering the nature of her job), so it's not really surprising.
yup still remember it like it was yesterday despite being several years ago! sam gave grace her start essentially because she had a much bigger platform and would always shout her out to her own subscribers. they developed a pretty close relationship and would do a lot of collab vids. I think grace was supposedly going through something and was basically hounding sam/trying to lean to heavily on her (whilst sam herself was coping with a family bereavement iirc) and sam found grace too overwhelming to deal with. they’ve been pretty friendly across social media in recent years though, and they met up along with mary (anothergirlslife) when she was pregnant.
seeing as we are still in lockdown I can only assume she’s referring to Jason here. He definitely seems the type to “play devils advocate” and “try to see both sides of the situation”. Kind of funny how one of the replies is someone saying they’re struggling to get through to their white boyfriend and Sam is advising her to potentially break up with him 
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I wonder if people in her personal life have confronted her about her obvious issues around her own identity, as a WOC, and suggested she change her own attitude before she passes it on to her daughter.
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