Sali Hughes #25 Gifted. I try very hard to pay but she will not have it

[BostonFernGreen]

Happy Christmas Skidmark People™️!!!

 

[MakkaPakka]

Have a satisfying Christmas you bunch of lovely people with lots of cossetting gifts from your affluent-looking friends and family!

 

[rosemarina]

Merry Christmas to my fellow beef-faced incels! You’re never alone when Eric Joyce knows where you live.

 

[NotDumbNotBlonde]

atomichabits. I was abysmal at breaking / changing habits and had bought the book of the same title in yet another attempt to sort my life out. Not a bad book actually, although it was an intensive Zoom session with a behavioural change specialist that finally made everything click in to place.

I have had that book since it came out and have been too disorganised to read it

The Zoom session was based around self-compassion, which really worked for me because I’ve previously had compassion-focussed therapy, and then builds up really practical elements to help with the inevitable patches where change feels tough. So there was writing down what the real motivation to change was, what I’d say to myself when I was struggling, reminders of things I’ve already achieved and so on.

It was fascinating as well as effective, all very much based upon building up self compassion and self worth so that you’re moving from a positive position to a different positive position, rather than my previous situations of feeling that my now-former habits were examples of me being lazy or slobbish, and that I was somehow moving from being ‘less than’ to being perfect. My very crude summary would be that a person is more likely to sustain change when they’re on their own side, versus someone who’s going into the process feeling negative about themselves.

This is fab, sounds like what I need!

 

[SqualorVictoria]

Happy Christmas! I was going to post a picture of a rat wearing a Christmas hat but I thought that might be too close to the bone for us beefy sewer dwellers! This is the best thread on Tattle

P.s that it's a ten hair stuff is freaking amazing!

 

[Skiddidlydaddle]

Raising a glass to all the beef faced sewer rats of the world.. Merry Christmas!

 

[NotDumbNotBlonde]

Better a beefy face than a turkey one - best wishes to all and thanks for the craic this crappy year

 

[BostonFernGreen]

Happy Christmas! I was going to post a picture of a rat wearing a Christmas hat but I thought that might be too close to the bone for us beefy sewer dwellers! This is the best thread on Tattle

P.s that it's a ten hair stuff is freaking amazing!

where do you get it?

@GTL Old-Timer im looking forward to hearing your pick of the sales. I’ve found your shopping advice brilliant and I fancy some retail therapy.

 

[Curio]

Merry Christmas, may only good tidings come through your catflaps!

 

[HotesTilaire]

Merry Christmas May your foundation match flawlessly and your palette only be colours that suit your personal skin tone!

 

[mindlessness]

Happy Christmas all! Hope it has been a decent day despit this year’s circumstances. May there be a scented candle not named after Ginsburg under every tree

 

[Curio]

May your dilute be weak and your ring light cheering

 

[BostonFernGreen]

Can one of you Sewer Rats™️ Help me?

I know I’m not supposed to need lube if I want to maintain the pretence that I’m an actual human female/not quite there yet. But I’ve seen a heirloom lube and the lid looks like it might have a satisfying click.

What is the right thing to do? Heirloom lube linked below in case you need to see it to form a verdict.

Neighbourhood Botanicals Ooh I Feel Love Cooling Lube

Treat hard-working hands to a hit of hydration with a quick application of the I Was A Teenage Hand Model balm. Buy now Persephone Beauty with Free UK Delivery on orders over £30

persephone-beauty.com

 

[SqualorVictoria]

where do you get it?

@GTL Old-Timer im looking forward to hearing your pick of the sales. I’ve found your shopping advice brilliant and I fancy some retail therapy.

I got it on Amazon. It's great stuff!

 

[Badabing101]

Morning cave dwellers.... I am just catching up, you guys have made me chuckle this morning (as is standard practice).

Not a Ginsberg candle in sight round here, but there was a Cire Trudon. How very exciting! We had a lovely day, some very last minute changes to plans which resulted in me doing Christmas dinner, but it meant I wasn’t stressed in the weeks leading up to Christmas. Drank a lot of chambourd and fizz with crushed raspberries and thought the chicken had a penis (don’t ask).

ooooh would love @GTL Old-Timer sale rundown. Will report back if I see anything of worthiness. Off to peruse the Space NK one now.

 

[GTL Old-Timer]

Hope everyone is doing well!

I’m so sorry to disappoint but I’m all shopped out for this year! Don’t think I can take any more scouring of websites. Of course, if I come across anything of note I will let you all know straight away.

My wife and I are currently sitting on the sitting room floor in our pyjamas eating cheese and crackers and watching our children play. Home Alone 2 is on in the background. We’ve got a bottle of Schloer open...

I’m afraid that’s me for this weekend and considering how tired we both are, I am very happy to have nothing to do!

Sending you all lots of love xxx

 

[Mazerati]

Schloer! Omg takes me back...

 

[Badabing101]

Sounds pretty blissful, I’m watching Friends in bed with my little girl . Completely knackered.

 

[Shineyshine]

Hope everyone has had a peaceful Christmas x

I checked out SpaceNK sale offerings earlier, very underwhelmed.

 

[TriviaNewtonJohn]

Hope everyone has had a peaceful Christmas x

I checked out SpaceNK sale offerings earlier, very underwhelmed.

I was disappoint as well. It's usually so good!