I'm going through a pretty rough time, at what point did you realise that some of the people around you wasn't all that great? And how do you cut them from your life and survive afterwards?
Yes with first friend it was major anxiety. I didn’t want to interact with her. So stressful and I felt forced Because our mutual friend was desperate to keep us as a weird little threesomeI knew I had to cut them off when I realised that they actually gave me intense anxiety. I couldn't trust them, I hated spending time with them cause I always came away feeling inadequate and lonely but I couldn't not go out with them cause I was worried they'd slag me off behind my back.
I ended up leaving the chats and I let it fizzle until I eventually blocked them. I feel better for it. They don't really deserve to have access to my life tbh and last I heard, they were still playing their games.
For me it just go to a point where it was actually causing me more headaches to put up with the crapyness , so i stopped instigating texts phonecalls and meet ups, months went past and I hadn't heard from them so I just left itI'm going through a pretty rough time, at what point did you realise that some of the people around you wasn't all that great? And how do you cut them from your life and survive afterwards?
This is so true. Your 20s really makes and breaks friendships imo. Some people mature quicker than others so you end up the same age with different mindsets. I got to a point where I had had enough of childish games and sick of the high school girl dramaProblem is when you’ve been friends with someone since early teens when you get to your 20s you’re very different people. I had a friend and we were close but she started making unreasonable demands for birthdays and Christmases (I won’t go into specific details as it’s boring and long) but I told her I wasn’t going to do what she asked as I thought it was OTT. I still went. She wasn’t happy that I didn’t commit to the whole escapade. She wasn’t happy I didn’t do as she wanted and kept badgering me with texts and phone calls about why I didn’t do what she wanted. Spoilt brat much!
We have hardly spoken since. This happened about 12 years ago lol. Bye bye ain’t got time for people that demand you do things their way and are funny with you when you don’t do it. Are you 7 years old???
F that!
She stole from you and her family have the nerve to threaten you as well. WTF!!!I had a so called friend before. Lol the cheek of this girl. She come round my house one day and I'd just been out clothes shopping. I have the chest of an overweight pre pubescent boy, she had/has enormous massive melons. She was also 2 dress sizes bigger then me. She tried on my (expensive) new jacket. I calmly explained to her that the reason the jacket was riding half way up her belly and she couldn't zip it up properly was cause it didn't fit. Oh no that couldn't possibly be the reason, it just fitted us 'differently'. She left after a bit and I thought nothing of it. Later in the evening I realise one of my bags and all my new clothes were missing - she had smuggled my clothes out my house using my bag to do so, the nerve lmao. I go to ask her about it and I've been deleted on fb, number blocked and all sorts. So I put a public post on fb asking mutuals if they could let her know I'd like my stolen items back please. Her mother sent me some big long angry message about how she's the most loyal friend I'd ever have, I better watch my back and if I want my stuff I need to come and ask for it.
Last time I checked she has a child now - doesn't appear to be a father on the scene. Lol.