Thank you for throwing me that rope, you may well be correct!
Although I thought about it and I realised that it wasn't so much their behaviour that made me assume they were boys as it was the vaunting of it.
I know girls scrap/fight/whatever but there's a definite gender bias in how we tend to punish them (not ladylike behaviour etc) and indulge boys when they're young. Boys will be boys, the general boisterousness, it's all just accepted as par for the course with male children.
So in summary, uh, fairplay I guess, RSM, for the whole equality thing, you've made one decent move, but it's immediately void because:
a) they don't sound like they're scrapping they sound like trainee gang enforcers and
b) what with a lot of people not particularly liking traveller communities it's a dumb idea to train your kids to embody their lowest expectations.
And one more thing, I clicked back and saw her kicking off about ketamine given to one of them somewhere abroad so to clarify - ketamine is a trauma scene anaesthetic, it is designed for use on children and severely injured adults because it's infinitely safer than anything else we could use in those situations.
Yes it's also used in vet medicine and yes club drug obviously but it's primary purpose is as an incredibly safe and stable disassociative for more fragile accident victims.
So she's ranting about docs doing their best to care for her child. DELEEEEEEEETE!
I think she deliberately writes about them to make them sound like boys (Kray twins the prime example) for both her "anonymity" and also because then if someone misgenders them in a reply to her it will be another stick she can use to beat them with when she piles on.