PTWM #218 Still spectacularly failing her children

[PrettyGreeneyes76]

Saw this on tik tok

 

[rainbowhouse]

Nothing is ever her fault is it? There's always someone else to blame things on:

Betsy - trauma from her abusive dad
Seb - trauma from his mum's drinking
Lula - trauma from her abusive dad, autism
Isaac - trauma from his mum's drinking
Edie - her dad and family being "the biggest chrolls"
Wilby - autism

Not to mention all of them getting to blame things on all those who have swanned in and out of their lives (all the "toxic" friends and family members who were once "second mum's/aunties etc" and then never spoken of again).

Betsy - trauma from being told she had an abusive dad, whilst her mum was abusive to her dad, then shacked up with several others who she was also abusive to
Seb - stolen from his mother and made to do endless chores to get the same privileges as the adored girls
Lula - repeatedly told many varied stories about the abuse she supposedly experienced
Isaac - stolen from his mother and ignored in a box room
Edie - alienated from the only normal person in her life
Wilby - parented by an iPad and told he was non verbal whilst chatting away. Didn’t get SEN privileges because he doesn’t have SEN, so sent to make sandwiches in a field for the rest of his education

Fixed it for you

 

[DipsyDoodle]

Erm what’s new about it?

When will she learn that this is not healthy? She has been rehashing the exact same bullshit (most of which is probably made up) for YEARS. It's over, you've moved on and are supposedly happier than you've ever been with your wet wipe husband and your birthed and stolen kids (well, the ones who haven't seen sense and fucked off yet), but you still can't stop talking about your relationship from nearly two decades ago. Raq, the therapy isn't working babe. Whatever you're paying the lush hypnotherapist is a waste of your stolen money.

Just track Waynbo down and have one last shag to get it out of your system FFS

 

[DipsyDoodle]

So it’s L’s birthday and R describes her as “always happy, the easiest one and the best party girl” We’ve seen her tantrums and certainly wouldn’t think of her as easy to parent (and that’s nothing to do with the alleged autism). She’s a party girl because her mum has allowed underage drink and sex and possibly drugs. R has admitted to struggling with L in the past yet because it’s her birthday she’s suddenly become a joy to parent. I don’t get it

Also "the happiest girl in the world", the same one who not long ago you said you sat in silence under her bedroom listening for signs that she might be trying to take her own life. "The best party girl" who was so anxious she couldn't go to school and you were applying for PIP for her. Pick a story and stick to it for once.

 

[DipsyDoodle]

What gets me is now they are a smaller family why don't they do more fun stuff with W. He has proven to be adaptable and resilient. The way he moves schools, a busy home life, different people at different times, siblings moving out, people moving in, no structure, palmed off on other mums for the weekend.
So why on earth are they not giving him childhood experiences ? Days out, theme parks, the zoo, swimming, riding a bike and maybe, just maybe taking him abroad or on some sort of holiday???

I've always struggled as a lone parent but always tried to give my children fun times.
I just don't get it when they have the means at their disposal (time, money).
I could not go away with friends the way they do knowing I had done the bare minimum for my children.

Because they're a pair of selfish cunts. Ratchet is constantly telling everybody how shit her childhood was, yet she has made absolutely no effort to try and give her kids and step kids a better one.

Wilby was only conceived for two reasons - firstly as a way of securing Joyce to her forever, and secondly for content and freebies on Instagram. Neither of them are interested in parenting him, especially now he's not a cute baby or toddler any more, and she paid for the autism diagnosis to cover up the fact his behaviour is more linked to the shit parenting than any neuro diversity.

 

[bowtiesarecool]

What an awful man. View attachment 3934934

I get the whole trans thing is a bit of a controversial area. But why can't kids be kids regardless of how or who they identify as? They're just trying to figure out who they are, and shouldn't the grown ups in their lives support that?

I have a trans son, and I do what I can to support him in being who he wants to be. He's not harming anyone, he's not a horrible person, in fact he's high achieving in his GCSE mocks because he wants to succeed. I am proud to be his Mum and to support him in being who he wants to be.

If people judged less, there would be a lot less hate in our world.

 

[troglodyte]

Oh, gladly! I've seen cuter verrucas.

 

[Smell_my_cheese]

Just watched the #gifted Posca bits and it’s made me feel…jealous I guess (and angry). My youngest loves Posca pens but they’re so expensive that I can’t afford to buy him them except when they’re on offer (which is rare). Yet, because of her status as an ‘influencer’ she gets sent mountains of pens, paper and cases! Not a single thank you, hands grabbing at everything.

I wouldn’t want her life or to sell my childrens’ privacy, but it’s just not fair that those who have the money continuously get given things for free…and aren’t even grateful!

 

[angiebabe]

Seb could earn some extra £ doing a Brooklyn Beckham tell all about his narcissistic step mum & bullying dad.
Another great recap! Thank you

 

[lionesses25]

What a fucking walking ick.

 

[BettyCat20]

Sorry but her behaviour is weird towards her step sons. If that was a man with girls the same age, there would be a hell of a lot to be said!

 

[lionesses25]

Excellent quote from Greg James’ book (on his nemeses):

 

[rainbowhouse]

The latest reel is absolute gold. Don’t choke on your lunch, you nasty trolls…

 

[lionesses25]

Thread suggestion:

They’re not in Barbados.

 

[humansreallysuck]

Jo rehoming her dog due to a break up

Wow i absolutely hate it when people do this it’s such a shitty excuse.
She has a well paid job and doesn’t work crappy hours and she can take her dog to work with her to sniff Rs knickers so there really is no excuse.
nothing and no one could make me give up my dog

 

[Seenthelighttorbay]

As awful as it is, when you publicly embarrass your entire family by taking part in publicly sniffing your employers knickers and fanny and dont see anything wrong with it then i'm not surprised tbh.

 

[Lifebeginsatforty]

Sorry if you're eating your tea, but this is grim . Who does that?

 

[chickhicks86]

It makes me unreasonably angry that they are giving Wilby breakfast in their brand new car. Just goes to show how little they actually value their property (greasy fingers and toast crumbs everywhere) and their son. No wonder he's "disregulated" if the 2 adults that are both at home to help him get ready can't even get him breakfast before they leave the house. I scrimped and saved for my 10 year old car and it was months before I allowed my kids to eat in it.

 

[DipsyDoodle]

I've said it before but I'm absolutely sick of that Wild marketing themselves as being so eco-friendly and sustainable because everything is a "forever" case, and then sending every single new pattern out to any Instacunt that will have it. How many refillable deodorants, lip balms, soap holders etc does one person need? I bet every time she gets a new one she just throws the old one in the bin. And going "oh they're all compostable" yeah that's great but when have we ever seen the Queen of Sharts compost anything? It all probably goes to landfill along with all the other tat she's gifted or paid to advertise.

 

[chickhicks86]

Imagine being a 6 year old boy and not knowing which of mummy and daddy's friends is going to be looking after you, day to day. Not as a one off, but all the time.