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I find it so unsettling that she's talking like the whole "drama" is all over and done with, like she's been so brave but she's come out the other side unscathed. Does she seriously believe that people are going to stop talking and hopefully trying to get answers. She really thinks she's untouchable.
She’s deluded!
 
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Been there ourselves lovely. You feel quote degraded and awful that you can't provide for your own family when actually, there is nothing wrong with asking and needing a bit of help from time to time.
We're not made of money but after our own struggles with money etc i'm more than happy to help friends out when they need it the most and we donate to food banks. Its mostly the people who have experienced money struggles that are more than willing to help for no personal gains for themselves. I'm in a group chat with 3 of my best friends, a couple of weeks ago, myself and one of the others chipped in to buy a washing machine for one of the 4 of us and then another one of us in the group chat needed a bit of help to tide her over until her partners wage pay day and 2 of the others chipped in to help her. PTWM claims that herself and Josh fall out many times because Rachael herself dips into their own money to help warriors (apparently) and Mrs M can afford many things so she can donate to food banks withour doing so when being prompted to do it when doing a colab or sponsored to do so.. i hope they both have a long and happy friendship 🙄 it will be all 'i love you's' soon and 'my best friend' & 'she helped me through the storm until the rainbow and sun shine appeared again' hashtag bollocks 😂

Exactly, taking someone’s low point for profit and engagement is a kick in the gut it truly is. I’m the same now things have improved for us i help where I can lending £20 here and getting Argos to deliver a small appliance to someone who desperately needed it. My crap time really woke me up and I now do as much as I can to help where I can. It’s what you do isn’t it.

So to learn that these influencers are taking money off people on the sly really really pisses me off. I’m so tired of the culture that it’s being acceptable to exploit others.
 
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How are you coping with your anxiety now, lovely? If you ever need a chat, please dont hesitate to measege me.😘

Not saying at all that there is a specific way that people act when they have anxiety but these influencers who clain to have anxiety can do many things a lot of anxiety sufferers cant do. I have social anxiety, it feels like the world is closing in on me and that i can't breath. I make excuses and cancel plans so i can stay home, in my safe place.
The contradictions from Rachael herself is just baffling! She claims to be staying at home for all sorts of reasons and doesnt go out etc and has been doing that for a while because people know of her life and talk about her and know info.. INFO THAT SHE IS GIVING OUT HERSELF! We wouldn't know a lot of it if she wasnt telling the world and showing the world her life. Has been for dinner with the family many times, been for walks, not long ago she was staying at a lodge! She goes out A LOT for someone who claims they dont go our a lot out of fear. Anxiety is crippling and wouldnt wish it on my worse enemy. You feel isolated from the world but can't bring yourself to socialise. 😓
Thank you, I am getting there. I don’t think the anxiety or physiological effects have improved especially but I force myself to work (though I could not hold down a full time job yet) and get out and do things when I don’t want to. It’s a struggle but I generally feel better about myself if I’ve managed to achieve things during each day rather than submitting to the anxiety and staying home where it’s safe and I can actually be myself.

I get that people respond differently but I find it unlikely that she would have anxiety to any great degree when she records half her life and that if her kids and broadcasts it to whoever wants to see. I would be just completely broken trying to work out all the different ways in which people could judge me etc.
 
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I find it so unsettling that she's talking like the whole "drama" is all over and done with, like she's been so brave but she's come out the other side unscathed. Does she seriously believe that people are going to stop talking and hopefully trying to get answers. She really thinks she's untouchable.
It’s classic narcissism they really believe that everyone is there to serve them and once they’re no longer of use they’re kicked to the curb never spoken about again.

This is why this thread and this forum is important to keep up the pressure to find the truth. People deserve to be fully informed about their “donation” and atm it’s not happening. She’s guilty af in my eyes and pretty nasty piece of work too
 
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Her most recent story is such an overshare 🤢 I don’t get why she and josh spend all day tagging each other in Instagram stories about how in love they are with each other. Surely if that’s the honest truth you just quietly go about your business loving someone, not screaming about it all over social media? I don’t think my husband has ever, in 12 years, posted that he loves me online. He doesn’t need to.
 
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Sorry I’m jumping on here and don’t really have a clue who she is but she sound’s like quite a big influencer. So I don’t understand why should wouldn’t just set up Patreon?!
 
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Strange that it was deleted (also strange that PTWM deleted it 😉). Did you get a message telling you why it had been deleted?
It just seems so fake and like it’s for other people’s benefit rather than their own. As I said upthread, they live together - tell each other face to face rather than via Insta stories. They’re probably sitting beside each other when they do it 😂
 
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It’s not exactly been riveting stuff for her 15k new followers this week.

A boring text from a random school mum about a sunhat.

A competition to win a cuddly toy.

An awful scripted ad for a massage mat that's not suitable for pregnant women to use.

Some random young friend’s dad setting off fire works in the back garden.

Her children massaging her feet on a couple of occasions.

More meals out

Lots of photos of Josh on her stories telling him she loves him (I’ve never understood that btw. They live together - tell him face-to-face or via text message if he’s away. Telling him constantly via Insta just seems to be a bit fake and immature)

Let’s face it - no one new is there for that sh!te.



Was it you who posted the screenshot of the comment on Rachael’s Insta asking if she is going to respond to questions concerning donations and safeguarding concerns?

Not sure where it went either and can’t see any reason why it would be deleted? Have you had a message from admin? Do you still have the screenshot?
Ah no it wasn’t me, I think maybe I didn’t press post 😳
 
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I posted this screen shot already but appears to have been deleted from here but no idea why 🤷🏻‍♀️ - no reason from mods so reposting

Needless to say was deleted very quickly on Instagram
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I posted this screen shot already but appears to have been deleted from here but no idea why 🤷🏻‍♀️ - no reason from mods so reposting

Needless to say was deleted very quickly on Instagram View attachment 26573View attachment 26573
It’s absolutely pathetic - I wonder how many negative comments she gets that are shut down immediately?? I couldn’t live with such a fake channel, it would do my head in knowing it was entirely false information. Her followers can’t all be so naive that they honestly believe she only receives positive comments 🙄🙄🙄 so stupid.
 
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I wonder if there is someone deleting comments through the night on that account for her 🤔
 
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Ridiculous isn’t it. Deletion and blocking doesn’t make the issue go away infact it intensifies it.

This is why with the other evidence we’ve now got (confirmation from charities/PayPal is personal etc) I feel she’s guilty well and truly anyone whose worth their salt would say here’s the evidence etc thanks for asking hope this is rectified now any queries please ask

The lack of transparency and secrecy is grim. The shorts the two girls were in today are bloody £38 combined (not denying them nice clothes mind) but with two parents not working seemingly where is the income coming from!
 
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I was thinking before, I did post on the other thread saying I’d stopped following ptwm for reasons others had already posted. I think mostly it was because I found her constant presentation of her perfect life irritating. But I’m also really disappointed in that it’s yet another sm account that’s got me well and truly duped. I don’t consider myself to be a wally either! Are these people incredibly clever? Or just lucky?
 
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Sorry I’m jumping on here and don’t really have a clue who she is but she sound’s like quite a big influencer. So I don’t understand why should wouldn’t just set up Patreon?!
I did wonder this. I give to a couple of people through Patreon, and I have to pay tax on anything I give, and they have to declare all the money to their countries tax office. I get weekly updates from the people I give to and they let me know how their money is being used, and we're very clear from the beginning that it is an income for them so they can do what they are passionate about.
If she has done the same and had said she was wanting to quit her job and help people full time and this was to offset the wage she was losing, at least people would know what they were giving money for.
 
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I was thinking before, I did post on the other thread saying I’d stopped following ptwm for reasons others had already posted. I think mostly it was because I found her constant presentation of her perfect life irritating. But I’m also really disappointed in that it’s yet another sm account that’s got me well and truly duped. I don’t consider myself to be a wally either! Are these people incredibly clever? Or just lucky?
Clever and know how to capture and use their audience to their full advantage. As you’ll see anyone that doesn’t stay in line gets kicked out pronto.

Don’t be hard on yourself either 💖 people want to believe people are essentially good and honest don’t they? I know I do so it hurts when you realise that some aren’t.
 
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Any bets on how long it will take for PTWM & Mrs Meldrum to colaborate so Rachael can reach and get more followers, seeing as they have both been horrifically trolled and cant leave the house?it's all such a load of bollox, my local (on a sunday, which was my local with my dad and family ) seems to now be her local😠
NO swarming of the local NON celeb tho. No signature signing but the usual lap dog was there.

(I know this isnt a Mrs M thread, just mentioning her as she's been crying over trolls this past week too)
 
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Ridiculous isn’t it. Deletion and blocking doesn’t make the issue go away infact it intensifies it.

This is why with the other evidence we’ve now got (confirmation from charities/PayPal is personal etc) I feel she’s guilty well and truly anyone whose worth their salt would say here’s the evidence etc thanks for asking hope this is rectified now any queries please ask

The lack of transparency and secrecy is grim. The shorts the two girls were in today are bloody £38 combined (not denying them nice clothes mind) but with two parents not working seemingly where is the income coming from!
I thought the same about the shorts - not only did she photograph them in them and reply to someone stating where they were from she also said they were new this week. My 10 year old has outgrown all her shorts and has been wearing school PE shorts this weekend as it’s so hot and we didn’t have any other option. It must be nice to have that kind of cash to splash, and with six kids to buy for too 😒
 
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I did wonder this. I give to a couple of people through Patreon, and I have to pay tax on anything I give, and they have to declare all the money to their countries tax office. I get weekly updates from the people I give to and they let me know how their money is being used, and we're very clear from the beginning that it is an income for them so they can do what they are passionate about.
If she has done the same and had said she was wanting to quit her job and help people full time and this was to offset the wage she was losing, at least people would know what they were giving money for.
Yes Patreon is a much better system for the contributor AND the content creator. Everything is transparent. She could still have been helping people by doing it on vlogs for her patreons.
 
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I thought the same about the shorts - not only did she photograph them in them and reply to someone stating where they were from she also said they were new this week. My 10 year old has outgrown all her shorts and has been wearing school PE shorts this weekend as it’s so hot and we didn’t have any other option. It must be nice to have that kind of cash to splash, and with six kids to buy for too 😒
Exactly, I buy all my kids stuff from primark/H&M and second hand. I wear primark or second hand stuff. I’m disabled on bloody pip and my husband works and it’s hard going. Sacrifices made and if I can sell stuff I will to make extra money.

If I didn’t know her I’d pass it off as ad revenue and unfollow cos it’s not relatable content. But knowing now what I do know it knocks me sick. I don’t deny the girls their clothes but I’m pretty pissed off the general public are unknowingly funding the parents
 
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Clever and know how to capture and use their audience to their full advantage. As you’ll see anyone that doesn’t stay in line gets kicked out pronto.

Don’t be hard on yourself either 💖 people want to believe people are essentially good and honest don’t they? I know I do so it hurts when you realise that some aren’t.
Yeah I was looking on her Instagram page earlier at the pic of her with her husbands hand on her throat..... not a single negative or even neutral comment! Freedom of speech is obviously lost 🙁
 
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