Pamela Melissa Tanase AKA Pamela Madalina Tanaise AKA Pamela Donegan.
I’ve been following this shitshow for quite a while and wondering if anyone else does?
She’s early-mid thirties, lives in Ireland and was adopted from Romania as a child. Almost 11k followers.
She has a 13 year old daughter who has been in care since she was a toddler. Pamela’s girlfriend Vicky also has a few children (think there’s three but not 100%), also in care. They’ve been together since before most, if it not all, of the children were born. Usual story- they’re amazing mothers but the courts are just out to get them and Tusla have targets to take as many babies as possible.
Lots going on around finding her birth mother (it’s a disaster), levying abuse claims at her adoptive family, and now being evicted from their social housing accommodation for antisocial behaviour. Add in pets constantly going missing, reborns (complete with cots and shopping hauls), and zero attempts to work or do anything but post TikTok shoutouts to the kids she doesn’t realise are making fun of her, and constant trips to Italy to stay with her new-found mother (who seems to dislike her, not accept she’s a les, and house her in a shed), and it’s a pretty wild ride.
She’s incredibly manipulative and there’s a very clear cycle of her clinging on to a new person, getting what she can out of them, and then they disappear from her life, presumably once they realise she’s milking them dry. Has a Go Fund Me up for over a year to raise money to trips to Italy.
Highlights over the years include her “return to college to do a Masters” which turned out to be some kind of leaving cert course, her “graduating as a psychologist” (she completed a CBT course as a patient”, two days of work experience in a bar that she walked out of because clearing glasses was too stressful for her, and the promise of her autobiography being published in September (despite the fact that she can’t string a written sentence together).
With the eviction, lots of comments are being added from people who know her calling out some home truths (addiction issues, antisocial behaviour, police visits to the house, men constantly visiting the house day and night).
Before I go into too much of a deep dive, does anyone else follow her?
And if you don’t, have you please have a look and chat to me about her because everything about her is just insane.
I’ve been following this shitshow for quite a while and wondering if anyone else does?
She’s early-mid thirties, lives in Ireland and was adopted from Romania as a child. Almost 11k followers.
She has a 13 year old daughter who has been in care since she was a toddler. Pamela’s girlfriend Vicky also has a few children (think there’s three but not 100%), also in care. They’ve been together since before most, if it not all, of the children were born. Usual story- they’re amazing mothers but the courts are just out to get them and Tusla have targets to take as many babies as possible.
Lots going on around finding her birth mother (it’s a disaster), levying abuse claims at her adoptive family, and now being evicted from their social housing accommodation for antisocial behaviour. Add in pets constantly going missing, reborns (complete with cots and shopping hauls), and zero attempts to work or do anything but post TikTok shoutouts to the kids she doesn’t realise are making fun of her, and constant trips to Italy to stay with her new-found mother (who seems to dislike her, not accept she’s a les, and house her in a shed), and it’s a pretty wild ride.
She’s incredibly manipulative and there’s a very clear cycle of her clinging on to a new person, getting what she can out of them, and then they disappear from her life, presumably once they realise she’s milking them dry. Has a Go Fund Me up for over a year to raise money to trips to Italy.
Highlights over the years include her “return to college to do a Masters” which turned out to be some kind of leaving cert course, her “graduating as a psychologist” (she completed a CBT course as a patient”, two days of work experience in a bar that she walked out of because clearing glasses was too stressful for her, and the promise of her autobiography being published in September (despite the fact that she can’t string a written sentence together).
With the eviction, lots of comments are being added from people who know her calling out some home truths (addiction issues, antisocial behaviour, police visits to the house, men constantly visiting the house day and night).
Before I go into too much of a deep dive, does anyone else follow her?
And if you don’t, have you please have a look and chat to me about her because everything about her is just insane.