to be honest I agree with Liv a little, I am pregnant first time mum and really struggled with the fact that when people found it all I got was negative stories about everything. I was told labour will be hard, I will never sleep again, never have a life again etc etc. on top of that I was also struggling with the pregnancy and then nervous hearing everyone’s negative stories. It took me a while to ignore as everyone has different experiences.
Although she could of worded it more politely, when people started talking about the negative side I just got used to ignoring it