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tenfor

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Can we stop with the exposing and doxing it's not allowed and it's tiresome. I don't care who is who. I'm sure others on here can relate. Plus moderators have issued this thread a warning. So just stop.
 
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ItsMe1983

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This current trend of "today I met with my younger self" 🙄🫤🥱 It's the past, you can't change it, just get on with your life.
 
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RK's trauma dump is so ridiculous. She's describing how sad and frustrated and exhausted and worried she is. However she refuses to acknowledge the source of this frustration and worry....the fact that they are SO tight with money and lacking friends and community because Jared:
a) refuses to get a job and stick with that job and
b) thinks that becoming fluent (or "fluent") in one of the languages from his five different cultural backgrounds will somehow fill him with purpose and drive and right the perceived wrongs of their life so far.

However, reconnecting with his Māori heritage (and for some reason neglecting his Niuean, Samoan and other non-English heritage) isn't going to fix the real problem...she's on her own trying to make enough money to sustain their family, and she's got very little support from Jared to keep the ship afloat, even when he's not doing a full immersion course that takes up the time he should be working.

She can deflect to "mean people on the internet" or "colonisation" or "the government" or "people who don't want to buy tickets to my shows" but the real cause of her misery is Jared and how she just isn't supported in her marriage by her husband. That's why you're crying, and you seemingly aren't willing to face up to that.
 
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Simplydelish

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Eh I dunno. Childfree messaged me on Facebook, Insta and told me I’d been caught out. Was very very snarky. All the people I follow business accounts got messaged saying my name is on a list of tattle users, I found this out cos my niece got one. So got blocked from everyone. I bought a candle from inveigh this week and also said I was disappointed I’d been blocked when I’d always been a supporter and buyer of their candles. Got a long email back from Brett about it. Said they’d seen my comment on here when I expressed disappointment last thread, but too bad. Being here is the problem even if you’re not problematic. I felt physically sick after getting it. Felt like cancelling my order TBH, it made me feel really sad! Mind you I get that the stuff that’s been said about them makes them awfully sad too. Totally understand that. But I didn’t say any of that shit. I’m not a stalker or a doxxer. Anyway. Childfree can support all the businesses who might lose business from blockings.
With regards to what has happened to you, I find quite distressing that this person has taken it upon themselves to investigate and stalk you, give you the heads up that you have been “sprung” and then taken it further by telling business owners/colleagues etc what you have done. Isn’t that some form of breach of your privacy and in doing this with malicious intent. Anyone can get on a computer and post stuff but more to the point she has targeted you so ruthlessly and it’s bordering on insanity. People that have taken “notice” of her email are not worth your time. This is high school bullshit. She’s nuts. ❤
 
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stanleycupgal

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Eh I dunno. Childfree messaged me on Facebook, Insta and told me I’d been caught out. Was very very snarky. All the people I follow business accounts got messaged saying my name is on a list of tattle users, I found this out cos my niece got one. So got blocked from everyone. I bought a candle from inveigh this week and also said I was disappointed I’d been blocked when I’d always been a supporter and buyer of their candles. Got a long email back from Brett about it. Said they’d seen my comment on here when I expressed disappointment last thread, but too bad. Being here is the problem even if you’re not problematic. I felt physically sick after getting it. Felt like cancelling my order TBH, it made me feel really sad! Mind you I get that the stuff that’s been said about them makes them awfully sad too. Totally understand that. But I didn’t say any of that shit. I’m not a stalker or a doxxer. Anyway. Childfree can support all the businesses who might lose business from blockings.
That’s disgraceful that Danni D did that but even more revolting is fuckwit Brett behaving how he did. The guy can’t run a business to save himself, yet blocks actual customers. Seriously why the fuck are you buying anything from them? Cancel your order and take your money elsewhere. Let’s watch business 24586 go down the drain.
And who cares if you are on a ‘tattle list’ those stupid asshole content creators are on a few lists of their own.
 
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WatermelonSugar22

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I find it laughable that LFYDs can actually think this way as they would both be murdered for being gay.
I can’t believe this nonsense line is still being pushed by people on this thread. Intelligent queer commentators like mattxiv have already explained many times that LGBT+ people can support Palestine without being “laughable”. Wanting children to not be killed is not anti-LGBT.

Christian isn’t an idiot for supporting Palestine, he’s an idiot for supporting in a shallow and poser hypocritical sort of way and for not putting his money where his mouth is. “One way for thee and not for me” seems to be his motto. He is all words and no actions. Like taking money from BDS companies.

*steps off queer soapbox*

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Does anybody follow Gina Urlich? I wanted to like this comment on her post about tap water a million times!
I was diagnosed with cancer around the same time as Gina so started following her when she popped up on my feed. Unfollowed reasonably quickly though as I found her korero very judgmental and privileged. Some of her comments around how she didn’t think it was fair she got sick when she was so healthy and clean eating etc. does that mean I deserved it more because I ate what my whanau could afford?? I know I probably took a lot of her comments personally due to my circumstances but still for my mental health unfollowed. I wish her well in her recovery but am not surprised on these comments!
 
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stanleycupgal

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Christian putting up a post about "top tips to find a baby sitter" is gross.

I dont want any person under the influence of alcohol or anything looking after my children. Makes her look like an old soak. And these are the people who wanted to get into ECE
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It’s things like this that really make me see how Māori and Pacific Islanders (and any other minorities) really are treated differently. Can you imagine if for example Finau put up the same post? It would be interpreted so differently.
He really is such a wanker.

In other news, I’m dying laughing at Maria saying she’s lucky she could drop EvErYtHInG to go to Berlin. Like what exactly did she drop? The Friday Pie Day? The constant book reading? Peeling mandarins for the tweens?
I’ll be honest, she’s been more busy in Berlin than she’s ever been at home
 
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I’m gonna have to unfollow RK, the constant begging, the you need to support me so I can make money because my husband is reclaiming what was “stolen”from him lie, to the adhd makes me like this excuses is all becoming a very worn out narrative. You might think you’re very funny but if this is your bit then good luck filling those seats.
 
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raccoongiblet

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Lfyd Christian's wheel came off his scooter this morning and he said fortunately he didn't fall. I'm thinking that fall could have put his bung eye back into place and his tutu up his arse. Try harder to fall next time please
 
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